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Dear Dish-It: How Do I Ask If He Likes Me?

Dear Dish-It,

i really like this boy but i dont know if the likes me . but i am a frade to ask cause i always get turned down or thay say im ano good anoff ro preety anofe or i dont have what they want need ur help

desprite 4 a boy


Dear desprite 4 a boy,


One of the tried and tested problems through relationship history has been finding out whether that girl or guy you have pined over for years really likes you or not. Should you get the courage and just ask them out, or is it alright to ask their friends if they like you? This may seem easier, but in fact, in the long run it is not the best way to find out if they have a crush on you.


I always recommend that you simply ask the person out, before it drives you crazy. It at least shows that you are serious. If they say no, then it is their loss. And if they say yes, then, well it can be the start of something beautiful. Asking them out via their friends is simply a cowardly way to do it. So go on, bite the bullet and ask her/him out today!


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GlimmeringSky16
"HannahG" wrote: "GlimmeringSky16" wrote: Shouldn't this be titled like, "Suicide Isn't the Answer" or something. I actually didn't make this post. The person who created the post just never posted anything, they only titled it. And besides, even if it was me who created it, titling it "Suicide isn't the answer" wouldn't gather as much of an audience. Say someone here actually WAS thinking of suicide. They'd see this post and think about looking at it to see how many others were too. They'd come here and they might actually change their mind because they'd see my *encouraging* post that was totally unexpected. It's called a head fake. But if they saw "Suicide isn't the answer" as a title, they'd probably not look at it because they'd heard the same thing over and over again. I'm not suicidal, but if I were I wouldn't probably bother looking at a post like that.  I see your point now.
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HannahG
HannahG posted in Family Issues:
"GlimmeringSky16" wrote:Shouldn't this be titled like, "Suicide Isn't the Answer" or something.I actually didn't make this post. The person who created the post just never posted anything, they only titled it. And besides, even if it was me who created it, titling it "Suicide isn't the answer" wouldn't gather as much of an audience. Say someone here actually WAS thinking of suicide. They'd see this post and think about looking at it to see how many others were too. They'd come here and they might actually change their mind because they'd see my *encouraging* post that was totally unexpected. It's called a head fake. But if they saw "Suicide isn't the answer" as a title, they'd probably not look at it because they'd heard the same thing over and over again. I'm not suicidal, but if I were I wouldn't probably bother looking at a post like that. 
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Serena007
I beg you please don't do it...you have your rest of your life waiting for you...PLEASE DON'T... your frnds still like u...u frnds love u :) :) :)
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survive88
u r SOOO right!!!       keep up the good work!!!!! :) :) :) :) ;) [s:p/zxl] [s:p/zxl]
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survive88
IT WILL BREAK YOUR MOM AND DADS HEART!!!!!!   think about this will suicide make u feel better? how will it affect the people who love you?   does it have somthing to do with home life?   bulling? school?  boy friend/ girlfriend problem? talk to your loved ones about how u feel  if this is getting worse i would say talk to a specialist.  i dont want to sound to preachy but i am wondering did u post this so people could say ok and that would justify your actions?   or were u looking for help? i would gladly give it if i could but this is all i can do 4 u.... think it over...... im sorry if i sound to harsh to u.... TheLionTamer
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