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Dear Dish-It: How Do I Ask If He Likes Me?

Dear Dish-It,

i really like this boy but i dont know if the likes me . but i am a frade to ask cause i always get turned down or thay say im ano good anoff ro preety anofe or i dont have what they want need ur help

desprite 4 a boy


Dear desprite 4 a boy,


One of the tried and tested problems through relationship history has been finding out whether that girl or guy you have pined over for years really likes you or not. Should you get the courage and just ask them out, or is it alright to ask their friends if they like you? This may seem easier, but in fact, in the long run it is not the best way to find out if they have a crush on you.


I always recommend that you simply ask the person out, before it drives you crazy. It at least shows that you are serious. If they say no, then it is their loss. And if they say yes, then, well it can be the start of something beautiful. Asking them out via their friends is simply a cowardly way to do it. So go on, bite the bullet and ask her/him out today!


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