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Dear Dish-It: Should I Date Him Ever Again?

Dear Dish-It,

ok i like this boy and he was dating my friend and then he dumped her for me and i said yes. then he dumped me and he went to my friend and did what i said before one more time. I really love him but it hurts when he does that. should i date him ever again?

love


Dear love,


The answer to your question is simple: NO!!!!!


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AlphaT
AlphaT posted in Family Issues:
"Sabbie_luv" wrote:I hate when people say suicide is selfish. The people who say that its selfish don't realize how much it hurts. I mean, my life is horrible! I feel like I am getting an anxiety attack everytime someone tries to talk to me (i have not been diagnosed with social anxiety)! They don't know how bad it is. People say that there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Well, suicide is the light at the end. I have attempted suicide twice but I always chicken out. I need someone to kill me. Please. As someone who has friends who were suicidal, and having been suicidal at one point in my life, It's the other way around. The people who are suicidal don't often realize how selfish taking their own life will be, because of the suffering they're experiencing. More directly to your case, though, anxiety causes control-seeking behavior. The taking of ones' own life can be seen as a way to escape the feelings which hurt us, and so we seek to control the situiation by taking ourselves out of the equation. It's like someone who falls ill when they get anxious at school.They know that falling ill will get them out of school, so someone who is anxious can actually have a physical illness as a result of wanting to escape the situation which makes them feel that way. Suicide works a lot in the same way, it's just that instead of getting out of school, we're getting out of life.  The only difference is that the person who gets out of school gets to experience that relief of the anxiety going away, the return of normal breathing as they're able to finally clam down their body and their mind. They start to feel comfortable again. Someone who commits suicide gets none of this, as they'll never again feel anything. There's no possibility of that feeling of relief, there's no longer a person.  In my view, feeling nothing at all is worse than feeling pain. At least when you can feel, you have a chance of feeling better. Life is too, well, lively...especially in such a time like this. I mean, they're making phones which could make their own power for goodness sakes!
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Hoellu
Hoellu posted in Family Issues:
Yup.. Pretty agreeBut we don't know If he has already died..! :/I know someone who are going to kill himself bcs of me.. /o\ It's not necesary telling why.  No matter. I'm just trying to stop him..  It's so difficult with so much stress..! /o\"I just know that dieing is not the solution., bcs he is not going to get his objetive anyways.... Conclusion: If something is breaking your life.. Change it!  It doesn't have to be the end!
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Sabbie_luv
I hate when people say suicide is selfish. The people who say that its selfish don't realize how much it hurts. I mean, my life is horrible! I feel like I am getting an anxiety attack everytime someone tries to talk to me (i have not been diagnosed with social anxiety)! They don't know how bad it is. People say that there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Well, suicide is the light at the end. I have attempted suicide twice but I always chicken out. I need someone to kill me. Please.
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amazing234
amazing234 posted in Friends:
so as i , i wish i cloud be in africa  so that i can be with my friend
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priscilakg
priscilakg posted in Style:
I like to wear pants because they are more comfortable and impossible to show your legs.  
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