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Dear Dish-It: Should I Give My Friends A Second Chance?

Friends & School Advice
Friends & School Advice

Dear Dish-It,

I had two friends but they went off with each other and left me. Should I ever talk to them again? They still try to get my attention.

QueenBubblegum


Dear QueenBubblegum,


It doesn’t sound like these girls are very good friends to you – but maybe I don’t know the whole story? If the three of you had a fight or argument over something, then maybe it’s worth talking to them again and seeing what they have to say. But if they dumped you as a friend for absolutely no reason, then I’m not sure why you’d even want to be friends with them anymore?


Friendship is a very delicate and complicated relationship – sometimes it can be even more complex than a romantic relationship with someone you love. And that means that there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to friendship. You should ask yourself whether you’re willing to give your friends another chance or not – only you know the answer to that question.


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MeaghanRhoze

MeaghanRhoze wrote:

Well maybe not just not talk to them for a week... smileWinksmileWinksmileWinksmileWinksmileWinksmileWinksmileWinksmileWinksmileWink
commented: Wed Apr 30, 2014

cevia20

cevia20 wrote:

Hello dearest friend, I am Miss Cevia Tanba I wish to be your friend please I will be happy if you can reply me in my ##### ################.#### I have something for you OK and nice photos too hope to see your reply on my ##### bye.am Gog bless you.
commented: Mon Apr 21, 2014

awesomezombie_2582225
Ask them why they went off without you.
commented: Sun Oct 20, 2013

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rebelfeminist posted in Style:
Well you won't want to volunteer because that's unpaid.  Your profile says you're 11 which means you can't get a real job but you can babysit (you'll need first aid training for this), or you can pet sit or do yard work. Those are good jobs to have at your age.
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lawliet16
lawliet16 posted in Friends:
Maybe your overrating her personality while underrating yourself. Girls extremely like confident men so start working on your self esteem first because it stimulates interest to get to know you more especially on the romantic context and don`t forget to just be yourself so that you will know if she accept you to who you are and don`t let the "ideal boy" standard of the society bring you down. Remember that real happiness can be achieve when you are true to yourself so don`t mind what other people think of you and stop comparing yourself to the boys around her. Embrace your imperfections and wash away your insecurities and maybe she`ll like you back ;)
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lawliet16
Considering your age, it is normal that your parents might not accept it in case he likes you and the feeling is mutual and you must understand them. This is time when you need to focus in your studies and prepare for your future career and not for your future husband. You are still very young and trust me, you are still emotionally unprepared for this one heck of a roller coaster ride of emotions. Know the difference between loving that person and loving the feeling that you are in love. ;)
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peace16
peace16 posted in Friends:
Well I am happy that you off of them. 
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UnknownPoster
UnknownPoster posted in Friends:
"peace16" wrote:Oh man, I feel bad for you. I will sugguest rest it.. and when the 6 weeks of up. you can do whatever you want too do. Thanks. I am already back in school, I no longer have crutches thankfully. Also, i'd like to point out that they don't have social media, or at least, i'm not aware of it and I am out of school for two weeks for Christmas. Crushes are annoying lol. I have never been in a relationship either which makes things so much worst. 
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