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Dear Dish-It, I Think He's is Cute

Dear Dish-It,

I am 13 and there is a boy I really, really like but he is going out with another girl. He said he'll go out with me if he ever breaks up with his GF but how do I tell if he's telling the truth?
libby_dibby89

Dear libby_dibby89,

I think you better set your sights on someone new cuz waiting around for this guy is only going to spell D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R. When does he plan on ditchin' the GF? And how do you know that once he does ditch her, he won't choose to go out with someone else, instead of you. Guys who promise themselves to more than one person at once, usually aren't very trustworthy. Forget this guy and find someone new to crush on.

Dear Dish-It,

I really like this one guy, but my friend thinks he's really ugly and mean. He is cute! But what should I do? I don't want to ruin everything.
AngelForever1

Dear AngelForever1,

So who's going to end up dating this guy - you or your friend? Whether your friend thinks this dude is ugly or not is irrelevant. If you think he's a cute, fun guy, then go for it. What are you going to ruin by making a move? Your friend is probably just looking out for you. Tell her that you value her opinion but would rather make this call on your own. She should respect your feelings and if she doesn't, maybe the two of you aren't as close as you thought. Good Luck.

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AnnaOfExquizurd
Okay, @Abbergrl I'm glad I could help! :D
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Abbergrl
Abbergrl posted in Friends:
Thanks @AnnaOfExquizurd that may be very useful to me. And it sounds cool too! :D I thought about just thinking about the positives but didn't really work. I'll try this too!
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Abbergrl
Abbergrl posted in Friends:
"Kawaiiqueen389" wrote:My bff is being taken away from me by another girl in our year who is mean to me ...  I really miss her .. What shall I do? That's terrible and has happened and will probably happen with me again. I think you should try being nice to that mean girl even though you don't really like her. If she makes a joke about you just try to laugh at it, don't be hurt by it or make a mean comment back. :)
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country_girl19
If you really want to get rid of the romantic feelings for him, just try picturing a future with him, and also asking these questions in your head, "Is he a good guy?" "Would we last?" But maybe he's acting awkward around you, because your friend asked him to Prom, but he might rather go with you, but doesn't know how to say anything about the situation. I would suggest talking to him about it, and if he is a jerk about it, don't bother. But talk to him first, and if he has the same feelings, then talk to your friend about it. I just want to warn you, that if you do this, you and others could get their feelings hurt. Crushes are a risky, scary thing in high school. Anyway, that's what I think you should do. If you don't want to do that, then follow what your intuition tells you.
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Lotushorn15
I had a crush on this new guy, and it's really the first crush I had in a long time. But, he is so amazing that everyone else seems to have a crush on him too. In my family, I can't date until I'm 16 anyway. But my best friend just asked him out to prom. I realized that she likes him a lot and tried to let go of my feelings for him. I am not angry with her at all, if she wants to date him, great. But, it's been hard to let go of my feelings completely. I'm convinced though I just want to be his friend. However, I think he knows I used to have a crush on him, and he acts a little awkward around me, but I don't want to feel that way for him anymore. How can I get rid of my romantic feelings for him (should I? It's being the bigger person) and gain his friendship/lose the awkwardness?
reply about 2 hours