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Dear Dish-It, I Think He's a Hottie

Advice for teens about dating, relationships and boyfriend issues.
Advice for Teens About Dating

Dear Dish-It,

I am 13 and there is a boy I really, really like but he is going out with another girl. He said he'll go out with me if he ever breaks up with his GF but how do I tell if he's telling the truth?
libby_dibby89


Dear libby_dibby89,

I think you better set your sights on someone new cuz waiting around for this guy is only going to spell D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R. When does he plan on ditchin' the GF? And how do you know that once he does ditch her, he won't choose to go out with someone else, instead of you. Guys who promise themselves to more than one person at once, usually aren't very trustworthy. Forget this guy and find someone new to crush on.


Dear Dish-It,

I really like this one guy, but my friend thinks he's really ugly and mean. He's a total hottie! But what should I do? I don't want to ruin everything.
AngelForever1


Dear AngelForever1,

So who's going to end up dating this guy - you or your friend? Whether your friend thinks this dude is ugly or not is irrelevant. If you think he's a cute, fun guy, then go for it. What are you going to ruin by making a move? Your friend is probably just looking out for you. Tell her that you value her opinion but would rather make this call on your own. She should respect your feelings and if she doesn't, maybe the two of you aren't as close as you thought. Good Luck.


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    XX_PrettyGurlSwag_XX
    i had a few hotties i got my pretty brown eyes on
    commented: Thu Jul 25, 2013

    mone baby

    mone baby wrote:

    Y'all wanna kno wat I hate
    commented: Mon Dec 31, 2012

    Lil rose xoxo

    Lil rose xoxo wrote:

    Well if u like d guy so much den date him(dat iz if he breaks up wit his gf) wat Eva ur...
    commented: Mon Dec 31, 2012

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