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Dear Dish-It, I Think He's a Hottie

Dear Dish-It,

I am 13 and there is a boy I really, really like but he is going out with another girl. He said he'll go out with me if he ever breaks up with his GF but how do I tell if he's telling the truth?
libby_dibby89


Dear libby_dibby89,

I think you better set your sights on someone new cuz waiting around for this guy is only going to spell D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R. When does he plan on ditchin' the GF? And how do you know that once he does ditch her, he won't choose to go out with someone else, instead of you. Guys who promise themselves to more than one person at once, usually aren't very trustworthy. Forget this guy and find someone new to crush on.


Dear Dish-It,

I really like this one guy, but my friend thinks he's really ugly and mean. He's a total hottie! But what should I do? I don't want to ruin everything.
AngelForever1


Dear AngelForever1,

So who's going to end up dating this guy - you or your friend? Whether your friend thinks this dude is ugly or not is irrelevant. If you think he's a cute, fun guy, then go for it. What are you going to ruin by making a move? Your friend is probably just looking out for you. Tell her that you value her opinion but would rather make this call on your own. She should respect your feelings and if she doesn't, maybe the two of you aren't as close as you thought. Good Luck.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    This is GREAT advice! Thx a lot StephRox!:) I have a younger brother & he can be EXASPERATING at times lol! Great advice!!:D
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    My little brother is annoying as ever, but I have to handle him. He is my brother after all.
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    Arenl posted in Family Issues:
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    Sophieeee
     Loosing a parent is hard, your dad knows that and I'm sure that he misses your mom just as much as you do. Whether you explain to him how you are feeling or not, you should know that your Dad will always love you and admitting to him how you feel isn't going to change that. Although it is completely understandable how you feel, you need to let your dad move one eventually. It's not fair to him if he has to spend the rest of his life alone. Even though you might not see it, its a good thin that your dad is finally feeling comfortable enough to date. It doesn't mean that he is letting go of your mom or that he will forget about her, it means that he is moving on with his life. You lost your mother and he lost the love of his life. Dating other people will probably start off being just as hard for him as it is for you. My advice is that you talk to your dad. Let him know how you feel in the most gentle and understanding way that you can. Don't flat out say that you don't want him dating anyone, tell him that you still miss your mom and its hard to see him with other people. Let me know how it goes, good luck. :)
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