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Dear Dish-It, I Think He's a Hottie

Advice for teens about dating, relationships and boyfriend issues.
Advice for Teens About Dating

Dear Dish-It,

I am 13 and there is a boy I really, really like but he is going out with another girl. He said he'll go out with me if he ever breaks up with his GF but how do I tell if he's telling the truth?
libby_dibby89


Dear libby_dibby89,

I think you better set your sights on someone new cuz waiting around for this guy is only going to spell D-I-S-A-S-T-E-R. When does he plan on ditchin' the GF? And how do you know that once he does ditch her, he won't choose to go out with someone else, instead of you. Guys who promise themselves to more than one person at once, usually aren't very trustworthy. Forget this guy and find someone new to crush on.


Dear Dish-It,

I really like this one guy, but my friend thinks he's really ugly and mean. He's a total hottie! But what should I do? I don't want to ruin everything.
AngelForever1


Dear AngelForever1,

So who's going to end up dating this guy - you or your friend? Whether your friend thinks this dude is ugly or not is irrelevant. If you think he's a cute, fun guy, then go for it. What are you going to ruin by making a move? Your friend is probably just looking out for you. Tell her that you value her opinion but would rather make this call on your own. She should respect your feelings and if she doesn't, maybe the two of you aren't as close as you thought. Good Luck.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    XX_PrettyGurlSwag_XX
    i had a few hotties i got my pretty brown eyes on
    commented: Thu Jul 25, 2013

    mone baby

    mone baby wrote:

    Y'all wanna kno wat I hate
    commented: Mon Dec 31, 2012

    Lil rose xoxo

    Lil rose xoxo wrote:

    Well if u like d guy so much den date him(dat iz if he breaks up wit his gf) wat Eva ur friend says dosnt rili mata bt if u luv ur friend so much forget d guy
    commented: Mon Dec 31, 2012

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    rebelfeminist posted in Style:
    Well you won't want to volunteer because that's unpaid.  Your profile says you're 11 which means you can't get a real job but you can babysit (you'll need first aid training for this), or you can pet sit or do yard work. Those are good jobs to have at your age.
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    lawliet16 posted in Friends:
    Maybe your overrating her personality while underrating yourself. Girls extremely like confident men so start working on your self esteem first because it stimulates interest to get to know you more especially on the romantic context and don`t forget to just be yourself so that you will know if she accept you to who you are and don`t let the "ideal boy" standard of the society bring you down. Remember that real happiness can be achieve when you are true to yourself so don`t mind what other people think of you and stop comparing yourself to the boys around her. Embrace your imperfections and wash away your insecurities and maybe she`ll like you back ;)
    reply about 6 hours
    lawliet16
    Considering your age, it is normal that your parents might not accept it in case he likes you and the feeling is mutual and you must understand them. This is time when you need to focus in your studies and prepare for your future career and not for your future husband. You are still very young and trust me, you are still emotionally unprepared for this one heck of a roller coaster ride of emotions. Know the difference between loving that person and loving the feeling that you are in love. ;)
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    peace16
    peace16 posted in Friends:
    Well I am happy that you off of them. 
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    UnknownPoster
    UnknownPoster posted in Friends:
    "peace16" wrote:Oh man, I feel bad for you. I will sugguest rest it.. and when the 6 weeks of up. you can do whatever you want too do. Thanks. I am already back in school, I no longer have crutches thankfully. Also, i'd like to point out that they don't have social media, or at least, i'm not aware of it and I am out of school for two weeks for Christmas. Crushes are annoying lol. I have never been in a relationship either which makes things so much worst. 
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