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Dear Dish-It: Dating Dilemmas

Dish-it gets so many questions, she doesn’t always have time to answer them all right away! Here are some quickie answers for some of the shorter questions she’s received.

My boyfriend’s cheating on me – what should I do? – jadayna

Dump him and move on!

I’ve seen a cute guy at the local park. He’s handsome but hangs out with his friends a lot. Do I ask him out or not? – werewolf_gal

I’ve known this boy for two years and I really like him. His best friend is also my friend and I asked him to ask my crush out for me but he never gave me an answer. I think he likes me as more than a friend but I’m not sure. What should I do? – mirelo98

I get these sorts of question all the time – they’re part of the Top 10 Most Popular Questions To Dish-It! That’s why I wrote a guide about what to do when you want to tell someone you like them or want to ask someone out on a date. Check it out!

I was scared for this one guy to see me. Every time he came down the street I’d hide in the house. Then he said he doesn’t like me anymore. What do I do now? – fun lexi

I really like this guy but he likes a girl who is my enemy – what should I do? –pleasehelpme

There’s not much you can do. If he doesn’t like you any more or likes someone else, you need to move on and find someone new – or just be single for a while. There’s nothing wrong with that!

I am almost 13 and I still haven’t got my period … – sleeping_una

Hold tight honey! Your period will come when it comes – and it will come. Every girl is different, and every girl’s menstrual cycle starts at a different age – some are well into their teens when they get their first period! Don’t worry and enjoy not having a period while you can – while it’s not a bad thing, it is something you need to take care of every month of your life once you get it, so enjoy not having to deal with tampons and pads for now!

I’m dating a girl and this other girl has a big crush on me – she says she feels loved for the first time. They’re both my friends and I like them both. What should I do? – gothicprince

You need to pick one or the other – or neither one. I realize you may not be cheating on your girlfriend right now, but it sounds like there’s a chance you will if your feelings for this other girl continue to grow. You need to be honest with yourself and both of your “girl” friends – otherwise the situation will become very messy, very fast.

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drowning posted in Family Issues:
I'm an older sister to a 13 year old brother. Neither of us really agree on much, either. I prefer this, he prefers that. I prefer that, he prefers this. It's natural regarding age differences. Even just a years worth can hold plenty. It's best to meet in the middle with things. Like, my brother and I for instance don't really agree on anything. But, it's good to meet somewhere with things to do together whether its agreeing on a movie to watch or playing a video-game together. Even drawing or helping each other out with something. Just keep in mind, when it comes to this, you won't always want to do what they want.
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drowning posted in Family Issues:
I understand this situation. Personally, you can tell your sister if you're completely sure on what happen. But, make sure she stays quiet about it until you both come to an agreement on when you should confront your parents about what you saw.
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Sophieex_
Posts: 21 3 minutes ago I think I'm bi, too. And thanks for the words of wisdom @rainbowpoptart 
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Sophieex_
Here's something to think about @IlikeGUYS20, I can say this about myself, and I'm sure, from this post, you'd agree. I'd love to have a girlfriend, and I'd also love to have a boyfriend. I'd be open to date any gender that my romantic partner would claim. We should just see what makes us happy before we label ourselves. Thanks! :)Have a wonderful day!:rainbow ❤
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rainbowpoptart
You should grow comfortable with yourself before you come out. If you're not certain if you are indeed bi, then you shouldn't slap that label on yourself yet. Take some time to really think about how you feel, but don't worry too much about it. Your sexuality isn't everything. You have plenty of time to discover yourself as person. Don't rush it.
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