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Dear Dish-It, My Boyfriend Is Gay


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I have a boyfriend and he is gay, but he likes me too. He likes a guy and I saw him with him. He kissed him on the lips. What should I do? Please tell me what to do.
molly_holly


Dear molly_holly,

I'm a bit confused... and from the sounds of it so are you. What do you mean, he's your boyfriend? Do ya mean he his your friend and he's a boy? Or do ya mean he's crushin' on ya... like he's your hottie? Cuz if this boy's gay, I think you're gonna have to get use to being his good friend. Sort of a Will and Grace set up. I hope you're cool enough to not have any issues about his sexuality, cuz homophobia (the fear of gay peeps) is so last century. If ya don't know for sure which way your boy swings, talk to him. Ask him what he's doin' who he's interested in. He'll tell ya.


Dear Dish-It,

I once dated this guy and then we broke up. But last week, he kissed me a lot. What should I do?
darkstar


Dear darkstar,

What do ya wanna do? Do ya like him, cuz it sounds like it. I mean if he kissed you a lot, you must have kissed him a lot too. It's not exactly a one man show. So look at it this way - do you feel good when you're with him? Are ya having fun when he's around? Did you like the kisses? If every answer is yes, then start dating again. On the other... if all you can think is 'why did I do that?' Well, you know the answer.


Dear Dish-It,

I still like my ex boyfriend a lot. We made eye contact the other day and I didn't mean too. I want him back so bad. Shall I give up or try again? What shall I do?
Stellergurl15


Dear Stellergurl15,

See what I told darkstar. Same goes for you. I can only work off the 411 you peeps give me. And all I'm hearin' from you is that you like him. So I say go for what you want, unless you know something I don't. Like... the last time you were together he stepped on your heart. Gurl, if this is a case of the can't-get-over-him blues, then don't you be goin' there. It will just cause you more heart ache.


Hey peeps, check it out... Dish-It isn't a doctor, a nurse or a counsellor. She's just your gurl online, lendin' you her ear and makin' a few suggestions. In matters of health and safety get the 411, where ya knowit's the real deal - talk to the experts.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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Your Friend Is Gay. Yay Or Nay?

  • It doesn't matter to me. They're still my friend.
  • No way can I hang with a gay person.
  • I'm not sure how I would react.

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bffeaea
bffeaea posted in Friends:
I don't know you and I'm not exactly sure how you act, but being friendly is definitely the way to go. Don't change yourself for ANYBODY. Especially someone who you don't need to impress. Speaking of impressing, don't try, do. If you are telling a story and that happens to impress them than that's great! But don't go out of your way to try to make yourself look awesome because I'm sure you already are. Be yourself. But the most important thug now you can do is not try to make a million friends. Because personally I would rather have one AWESOME friend than a million ok friends. I hope this helped. :)
reply about 6 hours
HoneyHamstern
HoneyHamstern posted in Friends:
Be yourself and most important of all, be kind. You will get great friends by doing so. Being popular doesn't always mean being nice; sometimes people tend to be rude and bossy to be "popular" and that isn't good. But if you participate or even start a group at school, at the library or somewhere important in the community (community service like the Rotary Club is a good way to start for kids and teens) can be a great way to meet friends and share your happiness.
reply about 7 hours
esthery27
"f3rr3tgal" wrote:dear dish-it,        I absolutely love my family but... my dad has these headaches  where if they are really bad i can not say anything right he will get really mad. i don't know what to do i really hate being yelled at by my  dad and i love him soo much !!!! what do i do?  [s:sm3/1jvp]                                                       thanks,                                                            f3rr3tgal Tell him that you love him and you understand he's suffering but you really don't like it when he yells at you. You can write a note or a card to him. I'm sure he'll understand. And of course if needed see a doctor so that he'll know what to do to deal with those headaches.
reply about 7 hours
esthery27
esthery27 posted in Friends:
You won't want to be, it's exhausting. Just be happy the way you are and don't care about what others think or say about you.
reply about 8 hours
GiddyUpGecko
GiddyUpGecko posted in Friends:
What if you just aren't populr, and you want to be???  :(
reply about 21 hours