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Dear Dish-It, My Boyfriend Is Gay


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I have a boyfriend and he is gay, but he likes me too. He likes a guy and I saw him with him. He kissed him on the lips. What should I do? Please tell me what to do.
molly_holly


Dear molly_holly,

I'm a bit confused... and from the sounds of it so are you. What do you mean, he's your boyfriend? Do ya mean he his your friend and he's a boy? Or do ya mean he's crushin' on ya... like he's your hottie? Cuz if this boy's gay, I think you're gonna have to get use to being his good friend. Sort of a Will and Grace set up. I hope you're cool enough to not have any issues about his sexuality, cuz homophobia (the fear of gay peeps) is so last century. If ya don't know for sure which way your boy swings, talk to him. Ask him what he's doin' who he's interested in. He'll tell ya.


Dear Dish-It,

I once dated this guy and then we broke up. But last week, he kissed me a lot. What should I do?
darkstar


Dear darkstar,

What do ya wanna do? Do ya like him, cuz it sounds like it. I mean if he kissed you a lot, you must have kissed him a lot too. It's not exactly a one man show. So look at it this way - do you feel good when you're with him? Are ya having fun when he's around? Did you like the kisses? If every answer is yes, then start dating again. On the other... if all you can think is 'why did I do that?' Well, you know the answer.


Dear Dish-It,

I still like my ex boyfriend a lot. We made eye contact the other day and I didn't mean too. I want him back so bad. Shall I give up or try again? What shall I do?
Stellergurl15


Dear Stellergurl15,

See what I told darkstar. Same goes for you. I can only work off the 411 you peeps give me. And all I'm hearin' from you is that you like him. So I say go for what you want, unless you know something I don't. Like... the last time you were together he stepped on your heart. Gurl, if this is a case of the can't-get-over-him blues, then don't you be goin' there. It will just cause you more heart ache.


Hey peeps, check it out... Dish-It isn't a doctor, a nurse or a counsellor. She's just your gurl online, lendin' you her ear and makin' a few suggestions. In matters of health and safety get the 411, where ya knowit's the real deal - talk to the experts.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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