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Dear Dish-It: All My Friends Have Valentines

Dear Dish-it,

All of my friends have Valentines and my BF just broke up with me. It hurts to see them with their BFs knowing mine is gone. How do I deal with it?

lonely one in the corner

Dear LOITC,

First thing’s first – you’re not alone! I did a bit of digging and it seems like December and January – the months before Valentine’s Day – are the top months for breakups of the whole year! So, as much as it hurts, you may feel a little relieved to know that you’re not the only one going through this now.

Distractions, Distractions

Although there’s no cure for a broken heart, I recommend that you do everything in your power to keep your mind off of moping. That means concentrating on school and homework, joining a new club or team, helping your mom and dad out more around the house, spending lots of quality time with friends and just generally staying busy.

Talk the Talk

If you’re still feeling crummy about the whole thing, try talking to your friends and family members (people you trust) about how you feel. Sometimes things can feel extra hard when you keep your emotions bottled up inside. Spilling your guts to someone you trust and having a good cry could help you move on from this breakup.

Rid of Him Ritual

Another thing that helps some people let go of an ex is to have some sort of ritual or ceremony that marks the first step in your journey to healing your heart. This could involve cleaning all the stuff you have that reminds you of your ex out of your room and putting it into the trash. You may even want to invite your friends to help and support you do this!

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Valentine dance next week no date but Ima still turn up I'm my friend Valentine but no ...
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most of my friends do but i'd rather spend my vaentines day with FOOD ♥ that's my lover...
commented: Sat Feb 09, 2013

Novahh

Novahh wrote:

i really like food. i'm all set.
commented: Tue Jan 29, 2013

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brunostar
"-Allie-" wrote:I hate to break it to you all but parents weren't born into the world as parents. They were young once just like you, and had fun. Scary I know. *screams*
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-Allie- posted in Family Issues:
I hate to break it to you all but parents weren't born into the world as parents. They were young once just like you, and had fun. Scary I know.
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ChickenGoPowPow
Probably they just wanted to have some fun.  I've never been in a food fight before, but after hearing that.. it's kinda rare. 
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ChickenGoPowPow
You can have crushes on people, but you don't have to date them... Hmm, it's just like saying that you have a crush on a famous person, but you all know you can't ask that person out. You just have to listen to your parents. But if the guy still likes you when you're older, then maybe you two can date then. :)
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theres nothing wrong with a food fight XD
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