Dear Dish-It: My First Kiss

Pandabear asks: “My boyfriend wants to kiss me, but I’ve never kissed anyone before and he has. I'm scared that if I kiss him he won’t think I'm good at it. I’m really nervous and I don’t know what to do! Any advice?” Back to Article

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tyresha123 wrote:
2011-06-15 21:26:31 -0700

my 1st kiss was in the 3rd grade

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buddy supmodel wrote:
2011-06-15 16:11:05 -0700


tkenya2 wrote:
2011-06-15 15:27:33 -0700

a kiss meens alot uv thinqs

Firedash wrote:
2011-06-15 15:07:37 -0700

I havent had a first kiss yet cause i want
It to be with some one who is special to me
And i want it to be special for both of us

devil35 wrote:
2011-06-15 14:59:30 -0700

I don't want to rush it or anything, I just haven't found the right person, I regret my last boyfriend I was with

MarthGalen wrote:
2011-06-15 14:58:01 -0700

i would never obsess, its just that i want to get my first kiss and get it over with. people care too much about getting their first kiss, i just want to get it over with. my girlfriend and i havent kissed yet and we've been going out for a while

devil35 wrote:
2011-06-15 14:55:19 -0700

I'm waiting for the right guy to be with

colormyworld wrote:
2011-06-15 14:49:32 -0700

People dont get it's not life or death it's just a way to tell someone you care, but life moves on seriously can you all stop obsessing over one stupid thing when there are way more important things in life . Kay thanks (:

MarthGalen wrote:
2011-06-15 14:47:20 -0700

thats what im doing, waiting for the right girl. smile

colormyworld wrote:
2011-06-15 14:41:37 -0700

I'm twelve and it;s not a big deal . I'm glad I haven;t yet because when the right person comes then you will kiss. Trust me the time will come.

devil35 wrote:
2011-06-15 14:39:59 -0700

I'm thirteen and I haven't had my first kiss yet

dejada wrote:
2011-06-15 14:38:53 -0700

i hade mines when im was in kindergartern lyke i was 4

MarthGalen wrote:
2011-06-15 14:36:07 -0700

im 13, and i stil havent had my first kiss. everyone i talk to thinks i have, but i havent Frown

cuitestuff wrote:
2011-06-15 13:27:14 -0700

My first kiss was when I was 10 and I still am I was scared a little bit and nervous but I just kiss him and it was pretty all right smile

shonnae wrote:
2011-06-15 13:26:09 -0700

what is his name

bre-candyluv wrote:
2011-06-15 13:13:02 -0700

i had my first kiss a few months ago with a guy that i really like it was at my bff's b-day party their bro and sis but i was shaking and i was in front of him like 3 feet and he knew i was nervous but i really wanted to so he huged me and switched spots then kissed me it isnt scary after that it'll be perfect it is your first kiss to good luck Love

REDS36 wrote:
2011-06-15 12:56:30 -0700

i never had a fist kizz

PinkCandy11 wrote:
2011-06-15 12:16:05 -0700

well i had my fisrt kiss when i was 10,with my next door nieghbor,it was weird

prettigurl000 wrote:
2011-06-15 12:13:49 -0700

juz kiss him

-Katiee- wrote:
2011-06-15 12:13:13 -0700

Mom; erggg. xD

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The Right Time for Your First Kiss?

  • When you are in love with someone.
  • When you're 15.
  • Not until you've finished high school.
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SelenaGomezFanGirl not too sure what the brown stuff is,but since you said you have not done it,you should trust yourself.And talk about it to your mom!I'm sure she will give you the best of advices and stuff because she would have probably experienced it before.So,don't be afraid,and approach her when she's vacant!Good Luck!
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You are perfect the way you are.
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I'm not sure whether you have actual depression or not (Ask your doctor if you feel you do, they'll be able to help. ^^), but I'm really sorry you feel depressed. I've been there too, and it really does feel like no one cares.   I know you said it's awkward, but try talking to your dad about it. You said he's the only one who seems to listen, so I'm sure he will listen and try to understand. If you start feeling really depressed every day, try doing things to make you feel happier. I don't know what you like to do, but you should do things like relaxing, reading, talking to people and spending more time outside. Smiling more often can help relieve stress and make you happier as well. c: Try meeting new people too. It seems as though your current friends are bringing you down, so you can try to talk to them if you like or find more friends who'll listen and care about you (however, try to keep your old friends as well. They are your friends after all, and it's hard being lonely). You've got friends on here too. But please don't think about doing anything harmful to yourself. You might not be thinking like that now, but being depressed can lead people to this and it's really not the answer.  Good luck! ^u^  
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