Dear Dish-It: My First Kiss

Pandabear asks: “My boyfriend wants to kiss me, but I’ve never kissed anyone before and he has. I'm scared that if I kiss him he won’t think I'm good at it. I’m really nervous and I don’t know what to do! Any advice?” Back to Article

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nba15 wrote:
2014-03-18 14:36:28 -0700

Hi faith smile

its_skylar119 wrote:
2014-03-18 14:34:38 -0700

my was when i was 8 i was swimming with my girl/friends and she liked me ( she was also 8 ) , so we kissed above and below water it was romantic , then me and her sister did the same thing ( sis is 5 years older ) and to this day we r all still friends Wink

jessicaluvsparamore wrote:
2014-03-18 14:34:24 -0700

mine was when I was 10 and they guy was 13! but it was all a dare so ya...

faithbarberina1 wrote:
2014-03-18 14:33:11 -0700

never had my first kiss xc

Alyssa_cx wrote:
2014-03-18 14:24:17 -0700

Mine was in 6th grade in recess aha .

pinche_valeria wrote:
2014-03-18 14:17:41 -0700

Mine was in 7th during a basketball game cx

JesseWesse wrote:
2014-03-18 14:14:02 -0700

mine grade 8 but she didnt love me ): so not techniacllly a long kiss tho so no

RyanUTK11 wrote:
2014-03-18 14:09:24 -0700

Ive only been kissed by my mommy on the side of the cheek thats it haha

Alyssa_cx wrote:
2014-03-18 14:08:50 -0700

Lol true and that's cute

kountry_kutie wrote:
2014-03-18 14:08:22 -0700

You're not alone........i haven't been kissed either smile So don't feel bad!

georgia_bulldog wrote:
2014-03-18 14:06:25 -0700

One thing people never knew about me is that I have never been kissed. Most people are shocked when they look at me.I guess they kind of expect that i have. So yeah.

LoverHater wrote:
2014-03-18 14:04:01 -0700

Just kiss him and no kiss is bad unless you somehow break their nose or bust their lip my first kiss was at a park under a tree laying down with our friends while he was wearing my jacket and sunglasses lol it was awesome

dragon098 wrote:
2014-03-18 12:19:24 -0700

what dose that mean?

dragon098 wrote:
2014-03-18 12:18:19 -0700


dragon098 wrote:
2014-03-18 12:18:02 -0700

i do

dragon098 wrote:
2014-03-18 12:16:47 -0700

i have but i did it when i was in 2nd grade Cool

CaliBabe wrote:
2014-03-18 05:01:21 -0700

Mine was in 2nd grade.

Barbrah wrote:
2014-03-17 19:08:40 -0700

Its true Smile Nose but girls like when you do because they feel happy to know that a boy likes them enough to ask them out and you might have just made their day by that

3_Dylan_3 wrote:
2014-03-17 19:04:59 -0700

i do and i never said to ask me out but usually u have to ask the girl out not the other way around but brave girls will ask the boy out.

keanandg wrote:
2014-03-17 18:59:45 -0700

beastbasketball if wrestlingfan asked you out what would u have said

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The Right Time for Your First Kiss?

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  • When you're 15.
  • Not until you've finished high school.
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I think you can not be sure he likes you. take me as an example theres this girl in my class who i talk to everyday. Now i see her as a sister and i have and will go to lengths just to make sure shes okay and her boyfriend doesnt hurt her. This might be what is happening in your situation so i advice that you wait a bit longer because him loooking at you may mean that he likes you and is waiting for the right time to tell you. Meanwhile you can get closer to him and flirt once in a while to asure that him you also like him (that is if he isnt sure). And dont worry if he doesnt like you back its better to have a friend who cares about you than a boyfriend who doesnt like you that much and is dreaming about someone else.
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What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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