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Dear Dish-It: My Girlfriend Puts Herself Down

TheBoyfriend asks: “My girlfriend is the most amazing ever: she’s smart, funny and treats people really well. But she always puts herself down and it’s driving us apart; what can I do?” Back to Article

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edith_is_crazy
edith_is_crazy wrote:
2012-03-07 19:12:13 -0800

i get mad and wanna die but wateva

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MZ.FILLMORE
MZ.FILLMORE wrote:
2012-03-05 17:57:56 -0800

I think people are special in the own way

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carson1061ksm
carson1061ksm wrote:
2012-03-02 20:49:21 -0800

wow! you cant find boyz like tht anymore Frown

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jb24
jb24 wrote:
2012-03-02 18:59:08 -0800

NAHH MY GF DO DHAA MOST DUMBEST SHII EVER !!!!! SHE WANNA CUT HER SELF WITH KNIVES AND SHII AFTER WE ARGUE !!! I AINT GONE SAY NO NAMES BT THERE INITIALS ARE ADRIANA LIZZET CAMPOS !

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lelerockdance
lelerockdance wrote:
2012-03-01 19:26:05 -0800

lol haha i dnt do dat

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nascarawesome
nascarawesome wrote:
2012-03-01 12:56:10 -0800

That sucks

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Melona:)
Melona:) wrote:
2012-02-28 20:51:45 -0800

watt ahahhaha

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PjandJas_2031952
PjandJas_2031952 wrote:
2012-02-28 20:51:06 -0800

lolsx

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Melona:)
Melona:) wrote:
2012-02-28 20:48:53 -0800

beacause its trruu

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Melona:)
Melona:) wrote:
2012-02-28 20:48:41 -0800

i alwayz put myself down

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PjandJas_2031952
PjandJas_2031952 wrote:
2012-02-28 20:47:25 -0800

i kno i sometimes do that

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lakevaraindrop
lakevaraindrop wrote:
2012-02-28 18:03:57 -0800

my bestfriend does but i stopp him

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aracelilove123
aracelilove123 wrote:
2012-02-25 14:24:34 -0800

i used to do that but my bf tried to cheer me up and would put out positive comment to cheer me up

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zeke28
zeke28 wrote:
2012-02-22 16:34:49 -0800

she used to and all i could do is just be there, i couldnt do anything cuz she took her anger on me so i had to break up with her and i told her to find someone she could really talk to.

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toxic girl
toxic girl wrote:
2012-02-22 12:16:21 -0800

Well my bff does that sometimes i used to do it.I thought everything had to be 100% perfect but know i know everyone makes mistakes their not 100% perfect! Its natural......

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CantBeGood
CantBeGood wrote:
2012-02-19 17:17:52 -0800

@Christine ^__^ love you too babe♥

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Christine G_1947188
Christine G_1947188 wrote:
2012-02-19 16:37:37 -0800

@cantbegood- Awe ^__^ ♥ love you babe

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bananagirl23
bananagirl23 wrote:
2012-02-19 15:50:00 -0800

that was googd pretty good

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CantBeGood
CantBeGood wrote:
2012-02-19 15:46:19 -0800

My Girl Never Puts Her Self Down If She Does I Tell Her Your Perfect No Matter What, And I Love Her Just The Way She Is

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princessfunny
princessfunny wrote:
2012-02-19 15:36:46 -0800

If a girl does that its gonna lead to mental health issue.

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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Wooper1255" wrote:No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._.Okay, okay, let's get serious.Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND!You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully...You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also.Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you!A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your madYou should ask her any of the following questions:Are you Okay?Why are you bullying me? You're my friend.Is something wrong like family issues?Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom.Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too.Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3  your right and the only reason I have put up with her this long is because her dad died but I cant stand her anymore so but seriously I feel like there is another reason bcuz she has had people confront her saying "u know what I have put up wit this for a while and I have told u to stop and u don't listen and I know your dad died but that doesn't mean u can treat people like that "  but she still does it and for the past 3 yrs. I have put up with it but not anymore I will talk to her about it. Thanks.
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
You NEED to tell your parents or HER parents about her attitude, this is abuse from your OWN best friend! Tell an adult, don't be afraid, it's not even SILLY to tell an adult, this is serious, she is HURTING you! Tell someone before things get out of hand and she REALLY hurts you! D=
reply about 12 hours
Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._. Okay, okay, let's get serious. Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND! You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully... You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also. Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you! A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your mad You should ask her any of the following questions: Are you Okay? Why are you bullying me? You're my friend. Is something wrong like family issues? Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom. Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too. Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3
reply about 12 hours
Boysrock50
Boysrock50 posted in Friends:
Yeah I had a friend in the same situation as you, he was too scared to say anything so we spoke for him. Now the 'friend' has changed and hes our mate. Just tell her straight and firmly, its the only way
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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Boysrock50" wrote:She is obviously NOT your best friend.I wouldn't even call her a friendShe is a bully who thinks she can have her own wayShe thinks she can control you like you're her follower because she the truth is she needs youBe smart and leave her because she's only going to keep you down and then one day she will find  friends just like her and she will just ignore you forever, thinking shes too cool for you.I would either:Tell her straight that she needs to make her own friends because you don't want to be friends anymoreor:Tell her that you don't like what she does and either she changes her ways and acts more like a friend, or you cant be friends anymore.I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm being wise and you should be wise too. Thanks I actually might try that but she is really stubborn and will not take no for an answer I have tried just ignoring her but he will kick, hit, or punch me to get attention. my parents also don't like her bcuz she is bossy. I also have to go to summer camp with her for the next 2 weeks and w have to be buddies for it so i think i might die
reply about 12 hours