Dear Dish-It: Why Did He Dump Me?

L8 asks: “My BF recently dumped me for no reason, but we still see each other every day at school. When I asked if we could still be friends, he refused. What did I do wrong?” Back to Article

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holdontillmayy wrote:
2013-05-19 03:34:16 -0700

he dumped you cos you're not as fab as me. :*

Burymeinyourthoughts wrote:
2013-05-19 03:32:35 -0700

did you show him your star wars collection? girrrrrrrrllll

Aarjan wrote:
2013-05-19 03:26:54 -0700

Coz it's great to do...

whatdaheck wrote:
2013-05-19 03:26:05 -0700

guy got dumped too many times so he thought of dumping u

-ZeroHero- wrote:
2013-05-19 03:24:41 -0700

guys gets bored and dumps girls .-.

xXawesomeXx1000 wrote:
2013-03-04 05:15:43 -0800

coz he can

kerilover123 wrote:
2013-03-02 21:42:20 -0800

thts dumb

mekadon wrote:
2013-01-21 12:06:18 -0800

i know wht u mean

Chy'Lovee(: wrote:
2013-01-03 14:50:12 -0800

Mhmmm ; Ammenn ; (

dancez5678 wrote:
2013-01-02 15:52:03 -0800

the reason you had a bad break up is just God's way of saying he isn't the one there for look for a other guy that caches your eye and believe!!!!!!!

QueenHeart wrote:
2012-10-30 16:29:05 -0700

maybe he loves you, he just think u don't like him

1D ONEZIES wrote:
2012-08-08 17:54:53 -0700

i think he still likes me but i dont know...

I ♥ Sel Gomez
I ♥ Sel Gomez wrote:
2012-08-07 21:49:14 -0700

Some people's friends tell them to break up with their GF/BF if things were going really well that must be the case!

alicelover123 wrote:
2012-07-28 06:48:55 -0700

i guess he'll be back

david young
david young wrote:
2012-07-26 21:16:40 -0700


-.MakeHimSmile.-_2205984 wrote:
2012-07-26 21:14:51 -0700

What kind of pie.? :o

karyzmalovesyou wrote:
2012-07-26 21:09:01 -0700


catsrcute9 wrote:
2012-07-26 20:55:22 -0700

why i like pie it doesn't related to the Dish-It

Hollie23 wrote:
2012-07-26 20:53:28 -0700

Embarrassed i like pie 2!!! ;O

report wrote:
2012-07-26 20:51:55 -0700

i like pie

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young fee
young fee posted in Friends:
I think you can not be sure he likes you. take me as an example theres this girl in my class who i talk to everyday. Now i see her as a sister and i have and will go to lengths just to make sure shes okay and her boyfriend doesnt hurt her. This might be what is happening in your situation so i advice that you wait a bit longer because him loooking at you may mean that he likes you and is waiting for the right time to tell you. Meanwhile you can get closer to him and flirt once in a while to asure that him you also like him (that is if he isnt sure). And dont worry if he doesnt like you back its better to have a friend who cares about you than a boyfriend who doesnt like you that much and is dreaming about someone else.
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What part of it are you scared of? Is it eating in public and around other people, or just eating in general?  What it might be, if it's eating in public you don't like, is social anxiety, or social phobia. You should ask your doctor to check, because if it is, they can offer you ways to help. For instance, they might recommend therapists or group sessions to help ease your fear.  Even if it's just a phobia or, in unlikelier circumstances, an eating disorder, you should still go to your doctor or a therapist so you can try to overcome it. Try doing things that calm you down before these situations as well, like exercise, reading or listening to music (I'm not sure what relaxes you but sometimes these help). Also, you should try to slowly get used to the situations. So don't force yourself to eat straight away when you're out, but slowly start doing so whenever your comfortable with doing so. Unlike your mum wants, you can't just "stop" being scared because that's not how it works.  But right now, please don't force yourself into any of these situations. It's not good for your mental health to be forced to face a phobia of yours often. 
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Dear Dish-It, Within the last few years I have felt a bit sick and shaky when we go out to eat. It's not so bad when it's a carvery lunch or something at a pub, but settling down for a chocolate brownie and a milkshake shakes me up. Don't get me wrong, I love going out with Mum, but it's just sitting down and taking a bite. I want to chuck it in the bin. I love eating brownies and stuff at home and I'm pretty healthy. But I refuse to go to the town before lunch in fear. Mum told me I got to stop this or I'm going to develop a terrible phobia.  Please help! ElfyKathy, worried
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