Dear Dish-It: My Mom Won’t Let Me Grow Up

Allconfused asks: “My mom is really scared about me growing up, and I’ve gotten to the age where I need ‘womanly’ advice. What should I do?” Back to Article

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iamlovingyou wrote:
2014-01-21 08:45:52 -0800

my dad is scared for me to grow up and get married because of what he put my mom throught and he think that my husband will do it to me.

Bigdeedee wrote:
2014-01-21 08:31:11 -0800

My dad scared for me to grow up

Midapops wrote:
2014-01-02 15:38:12 -0800


Midapops wrote:
2014-01-02 15:37:51 -0800

Pfft. My mom wuldmt care.

Danceralex111 wrote:
2013-11-10 07:06:13 -0800

Lol .. My mom leaves me alone

VarunDhawan wrote:
2013-11-10 07:04:03 -0800


AngelThumbelina wrote:
2013-11-10 02:31:02 -0800

okkk...good advice....

directioner_4lyfe wrote:
2013-10-17 21:03:36 -0700

lol wut

Keekeow wrote:
2013-10-08 19:13:06 -0700

200 liker. I am having this problem with my mom xD

EmoSkittleGirl wrote:
2013-10-08 18:33:16 -0700

Lol.. This is just like whats happening to me. But I don't mind smile

miz-wolf1 wrote:
2013-10-04 14:21:49 -0700

My mom is trying to avoid "the talk" too.I feel your pain Tongue Out

beary wrote:
2013-09-20 10:15:19 -0700

its annoying

riahredd wrote:
2013-08-10 16:30:15 -0700

My mom won't let me hang out with my friends without an adult. She so annoying. Lol

Pink_Kitty wrote:
2013-07-29 04:53:13 -0700

I get the same thing and that is why they treat me like im 8.

littlexloves wrote:
2013-07-14 20:03:27 -0700

sometimes I feel my dad is scared to let me grow up

imagination44 wrote:
2013-07-09 08:30:32 -0700

poor kid! I NEED my advise from my mom. jeez... what would the mom do if HER mom wouldn't let her grow up....

tiredofemgirls wrote:
2013-07-06 11:05:39 -0700

i dont wanna grow up someone take me to neverland haha Big Grin

nazygirl wrote:
2013-07-06 11:03:30 -0700

i just look things up and get my friend to get me stuff

tmcfaddin12 wrote:
2013-07-04 17:15:56 -0700

so right

imagination44 wrote:
2013-07-04 09:35:49 -0700

just tell her what u need to know. chances are she'll understand. smile

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