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Dear Dish-It: Am I Still in Love With My Ex?

Confused asks: I have a new boyfriend who I like very much. But when I’m with him, I can’t help comparing everything he does to my ex-boyfriend. Is this normal? Does it mean I’m still in love with my ex? Back to Article

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rescueheart
rescueheart wrote:
2014-07-02 18:58:34 -0700

I just broke up with my boyfriend and i still love him

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ilovejj99
ilovejj99 wrote:
2014-04-26 10:31:47 -0700

I have a ex boyfriend and I love him too much.

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AutumSwag
AutumSwag wrote:
2014-04-26 03:47:31 -0700

Yeah, whenever i got a new bf. idk, y i compare him with my ex. i think its pretty normal on girls

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mahoqanyy_babyy
mahoqanyy_babyy wrote:
2014-01-09 14:48:09 -0800

Idk if I am or not cuz I'm confused to! #so confused

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lovelost
lovelost wrote:
2014-01-09 13:53:28 -0800

i hv a ex nd i love her 2 death

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Iloveharrypotter123
Iloveharrypotter123 wrote:
2014-01-09 09:32:43 -0800

I have like 12 or 13 exes and I'm not dating anyone right now Frown

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alex157
alex157 wrote:
2014-01-09 06:28:41 -0800

i dont really care for this article that much Tired

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myheart143
myheart143 wrote:
2014-01-09 06:28:17 -0800

i am not have an EX but i have a BF Big Grin

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myheart143
myheart143 wrote:
2014-01-09 06:28:17 -0800

i am not have an EX but i have a BF Big Grin

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BRIELUV
BRIELUV wrote:
2014-01-09 06:25:36 -0800

My ex hates me I guess we were a mistake but wow that's just hurtful

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SEWIINXO
SEWIINXO wrote:
2014-01-08 22:17:52 -0800

Sometimes I look back at my exs like "What was I thinking?"

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WorldMostWantedModel
WorldMostWantedModel wrote:
2014-01-08 21:54:15 -0800

oh sh*t. girls go through alot of bs. sorry to all the girls whohave have been hurt in a relationship...

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Anari143
Anari143 wrote:
2014-01-08 21:32:31 -0800

4? U Deserve Better. Both Of Y'all Ladies

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msprettymama
msprettymama wrote:
2014-01-08 21:30:30 -0800

Four chances? Gurl and yea u did but wat ever

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miss_guideciara_2630072
miss_guideciara_2630072 wrote:
2014-01-08 21:25:35 -0800

My ex lied cheated four times but I still gave him another chance but this time I am not . I got a new sexy man he loves me I guess and hope lol love u Alex.

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Anari143
Anari143 wrote:
2014-01-08 21:19:28 -0800

I Didn't Say Forget It!

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msprettymama
msprettymama wrote:
2014-01-08 21:18:07 -0800

No u said for get it earlier u told me u had a gf

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Anari143
Anari143 wrote:
2014-01-08 21:14:44 -0800

Last Night I Didn't Say I Still Like U But I Have A Gf?

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msprettymama
msprettymama wrote:
2014-01-08 20:31:00 -0800

I dnt wana hear it cus far ain't wat u told me drop it jay

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Anari143
Anari143 wrote:
2014-01-08 20:18:30 -0800

I Told You I Still Like You But I Have A Girlfriend And You Told Me You Had A Bf

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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Wooper1255" wrote:No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._.Okay, okay, let's get serious.Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND!You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully...You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also.Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you!A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your madYou should ask her any of the following questions:Are you Okay?Why are you bullying me? You're my friend.Is something wrong like family issues?Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom.Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too.Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3  your right and the only reason I have put up with her this long is because her dad died but I cant stand her anymore so but seriously I feel like there is another reason bcuz she has had people confront her saying "u know what I have put up wit this for a while and I have told u to stop and u don't listen and I know your dad died but that doesn't mean u can treat people like that "  but she still does it and for the past 3 yrs. I have put up with it but not anymore I will talk to her about it. Thanks.
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
You NEED to tell your parents or HER parents about her attitude, this is abuse from your OWN best friend! Tell an adult, don't be afraid, it's not even SILLY to tell an adult, this is serious, she is HURTING you! Tell someone before things get out of hand and she REALLY hurts you! D=
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._. Okay, okay, let's get serious. Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND! You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully... You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also. Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you! A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your mad You should ask her any of the following questions: Are you Okay? Why are you bullying me? You're my friend. Is something wrong like family issues? Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom. Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too. Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3
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Boysrock50
Boysrock50 posted in Friends:
Yeah I had a friend in the same situation as you, he was too scared to say anything so we spoke for him. Now the 'friend' has changed and hes our mate. Just tell her straight and firmly, its the only way
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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Boysrock50" wrote:She is obviously NOT your best friend.I wouldn't even call her a friendShe is a bully who thinks she can have her own wayShe thinks she can control you like you're her follower because she the truth is she needs youBe smart and leave her because she's only going to keep you down and then one day she will find  friends just like her and she will just ignore you forever, thinking shes too cool for you.I would either:Tell her straight that she needs to make her own friends because you don't want to be friends anymoreor:Tell her that you don't like what she does and either she changes her ways and acts more like a friend, or you cant be friends anymore.I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm being wise and you should be wise too. Thanks I actually might try that but she is really stubborn and will not take no for an answer I have tried just ignoring her but he will kick, hit, or punch me to get attention. my parents also don't like her bcuz she is bossy. I also have to go to summer camp with her for the next 2 weeks and w have to be buddies for it so i think i might die
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