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Dear Dish-It: How Do I Stop The Bullying?

Bullied asks: I have been bullied for a while now and I don't know why. I'm not the slimmest or the prettiest, though I've been told that I have a great personality. What do I do to make the bullying stop, and what do I change about myself? Back to Article

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newyorkgirl4752
newyorkgirl4752 wrote:
2012-10-07 19:01:05 -0700

Okay guys I am bully expert I know everything about
Bullies

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CuteLanaya:)
CuteLanaya:) wrote:
2012-10-05 19:57:31 -0700

i dont understand why do people have to bully if something is wrong with that person than its something wrong with anohter everys bodys human with different looks and you know what i mean.

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gerballuv2002
gerballuv2002 wrote:
2012-10-03 19:13:20 -0700

iv been bullied alot but if u just ignore it they get bored

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Princess of Webkinz
Princess of Webkinz wrote:
2012-10-03 16:14:16 -0700

I have been verbally bullied for years in a row...it's very, VERY, painful. Haunts me every mornin.

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marissadancechick14
marissadancechick14 wrote:
2012-10-02 21:04:39 -0700

I personally do not get bullied very often, but when I have in the past, I laughed at them in their face and I was confident so they learned to back off

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marissadancechick14
marissadancechick14 wrote:
2012-10-02 21:03:28 -0700

Or you can be mean back by snitching on them to an adult who will handle them Big Grin

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CoolxDav01
CoolxDav01 wrote:
2012-10-02 20:51:05 -0700

SO TRUE! The y need to b taught a lesson.

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CoolxDav01
CoolxDav01 wrote:
2012-10-02 20:49:57 -0700

I hear you because I am a little fat and I may not be the Handseomest but I am satrtin to not care of waht they say. I am starting to be Confident is myself. Do these excercises to high sel-esetm .
Look @ yoru-self In th mirror and say to yourself" I AM pretty, I AM working on lossing a little weight".
And if your get an A+ on a test ,don't just say that it was nohing because it was someting.REWARD YOURSELF

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marissadancechick14
marissadancechick14 wrote:
2012-10-02 16:35:58 -0700

If someone is bothering you, don't take it personally. Bullies are insecure little brats who secretly envy your good qualities. If they wanna fight, you punch 'em out, that'll show them!!

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singingstar25
singingstar25 wrote:
2012-10-02 16:18:23 -0700

i was sorta bullied in 3rd 4th grades i was called names made fun of and felt left out!! Frown

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hydia 5456
hydia 5456 wrote:
2012-09-30 12:15:40 -0700

everyone usually gets bullyed at some point in there live... i was bullyed when i was 7-8 years old then i decided to stand up for myself.........but now im NEVER bullyed smile smile smile smile.....i dont even know why they bullyed me they just did...butttt that was the past.smile smile

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mady1032
mady1032 wrote:
2012-09-30 11:48:23 -0700

it is really sad but every buddy gets bullied and you bully everybody but nobody really notices they bully peaple Worried

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holly24babe
holly24babe wrote:
2012-09-30 06:25:09 -0700

im not being bullied but im bullying someone and i dont know how to stop even though i think i like that person and ive stole her best friend and now shes doing the same to me how could i stop???

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myvanillacastle11
myvanillacastle11 wrote:
2012-09-29 11:58:30 -0700

hi i just put it out of my mind im sure you've got other things to do than be bullied i have found this works also stand up for other people it will boost your confidence and the victims to you dont know they could stand up for you one day

my vanilla castle smile

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myvanillacastle11
myvanillacastle11 wrote:
2012-09-29 11:58:30 -0700

hi i just put it out of my mind im sure you've got other things to do than be bullied i have found this works also stand up for other people it will boost your confidence and the victims to you dont know they could stand up for you one day

my vanilla castle smile

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warbler2000
warbler2000 wrote:
2012-09-28 01:12:29 -0700

Just leave them!!!
Anyway you should never change yourself of others,
it just makes things worst, trust me I been though it!!

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jenny353
jenny353 wrote:
2012-09-27 15:03:23 -0700

ignore them if been thruogh this and i still am but that wont take away my happiness

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aintisopretty_2264147
aintisopretty_2264147 wrote:
2012-09-27 11:31:01 -0700

i have been bullied and found out if u ignore it they will stop

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Singermms
Singermms wrote:
2012-09-26 18:15:04 -0700

I get bullied too don't let them make you feel sad I know I would never ever bully you

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Sweet Girlie Princess
Sweet Girlie Princess wrote:
2012-09-25 08:22:06 -0700

Let them tired bullying! There's a girl that kill herself cause she's tired being bully! STOP THE BULLYING!

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