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Dear Dish-It: How Do I Stop The Bullying?

Bullied asks: I have been bullied for a while now and I don't know why. I'm not the slimmest or the prettiest, though I've been told that I have a great personality. What do I do to make the bullying stop, and what do I change about myself? Back to Article

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gerballuv2002
gerballuv2002 wrote:
2012-10-03 19:13:20 -0700

iv been bullied alot but if u just ignore it they get bored

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Princess of Webkinz
Princess of Webkinz wrote:
2012-10-03 16:14:16 -0700

I have been verbally bullied for years in a row...it's very, VERY, painful. Haunts me every mornin.

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marissadancechick14
marissadancechick14 wrote:
2012-10-02 21:04:39 -0700

I personally do not get bullied very often, but when I have in the past, I laughed at them in their face and I was confident so they learned to back off

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marissadancechick14
marissadancechick14 wrote:
2012-10-02 21:03:28 -0700

Or you can be mean back by snitching on them to an adult who will handle them Big Grin

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CoolxDav01
CoolxDav01 wrote:
2012-10-02 20:51:05 -0700

SO TRUE! The y need to b taught a lesson.

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CoolxDav01
CoolxDav01 wrote:
2012-10-02 20:49:57 -0700

I hear you because I am a little fat and I may not be the Handseomest but I am satrtin to not care of waht they say. I am starting to be Confident is myself. Do these excercises to high sel-esetm .
Look @ yoru-self In th mirror and say to yourself" I AM pretty, I AM working on lossing a little weight".
And if your get an A+ on a test ,don't just say that it was nohing because it was someting.REWARD YOURSELF

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marissadancechick14
marissadancechick14 wrote:
2012-10-02 16:35:58 -0700

If someone is bothering you, don't take it personally. Bullies are insecure little brats who secretly envy your good qualities. If they wanna fight, you punch 'em out, that'll show them!!

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singingstar25
singingstar25 wrote:
2012-10-02 16:18:23 -0700

i was sorta bullied in 3rd 4th grades i was called names made fun of and felt left out!! Frown

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hydia 5456
hydia 5456 wrote:
2012-09-30 12:15:40 -0700

everyone usually gets bullyed at some point in there live... i was bullyed when i was 7-8 years old then i decided to stand up for myself.........but now im NEVER bullyed smile smile smile smile.....i dont even know why they bullyed me they just did...butttt that was the past.smile smile

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mady1032
mady1032 wrote:
2012-09-30 11:48:23 -0700

it is really sad but every buddy gets bullied and you bully everybody but nobody really notices they bully peaple Worried

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holly24babe
holly24babe wrote:
2012-09-30 06:25:09 -0700

im not being bullied but im bullying someone and i dont know how to stop even though i think i like that person and ive stole her best friend and now shes doing the same to me how could i stop???

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myvanillacastle11
myvanillacastle11 wrote:
2012-09-29 11:58:30 -0700

hi i just put it out of my mind im sure you've got other things to do than be bullied i have found this works also stand up for other people it will boost your confidence and the victims to you dont know they could stand up for you one day

my vanilla castle smile

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myvanillacastle11
myvanillacastle11 wrote:
2012-09-29 11:58:30 -0700

hi i just put it out of my mind im sure you've got other things to do than be bullied i have found this works also stand up for other people it will boost your confidence and the victims to you dont know they could stand up for you one day

my vanilla castle smile

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warbler2000
warbler2000 wrote:
2012-09-28 01:12:29 -0700

Just leave them!!!
Anyway you should never change yourself of others,
it just makes things worst, trust me I been though it!!

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jenny353
jenny353 wrote:
2012-09-27 15:03:23 -0700

ignore them if been thruogh this and i still am but that wont take away my happiness

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aintisopretty_2264147
aintisopretty_2264147 wrote:
2012-09-27 11:31:01 -0700

i have been bullied and found out if u ignore it they will stop

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Singermms
Singermms wrote:
2012-09-26 18:15:04 -0700

I get bullied too don't let them make you feel sad I know I would never ever bully you

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Sweet Girlie Princess
Sweet Girlie Princess wrote:
2012-09-25 08:22:06 -0700

Let them tired bullying! There's a girl that kill herself cause she's tired being bully! STOP THE BULLYING!

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jayjay288
jayjay288 wrote:
2012-09-24 16:38:11 -0700

I hate bullies you shud stand up 2 them tell them to back up off me

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renesemee_11
renesemee_11 wrote:
2012-09-24 14:54:08 -0700

you

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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Wooper1255" wrote:No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._.Okay, okay, let's get serious.Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND!You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully...You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also.Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you!A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your madYou should ask her any of the following questions:Are you Okay?Why are you bullying me? You're my friend.Is something wrong like family issues?Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom.Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too.Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3  your right and the only reason I have put up with her this long is because her dad died but I cant stand her anymore so but seriously I feel like there is another reason bcuz she has had people confront her saying "u know what I have put up wit this for a while and I have told u to stop and u don't listen and I know your dad died but that doesn't mean u can treat people like that "  but she still does it and for the past 3 yrs. I have put up with it but not anymore I will talk to her about it. Thanks.
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
You NEED to tell your parents or HER parents about her attitude, this is abuse from your OWN best friend! Tell an adult, don't be afraid, it's not even SILLY to tell an adult, this is serious, she is HURTING you! Tell someone before things get out of hand and she REALLY hurts you! D=
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Wooper1255
Wooper1255 posted in Friends:
No. Just no. Mr. Face does not approve this. ._. Okay, okay, let's get serious. Your best friend BULLYING you? And loves it when you get mad? What the heck? SHE'S NOT EVEN YOUR FRIEND! You should have a talk with your best friend. No seriously, she doesn't have any friends cause she's a bully and no one likes to be friends with a bully... You should tell your best friend that she NEEDS to change her attitude! She needs to be more nicer to others also. Also, a best friend is: Caring, Kind, Loyal, Nice, Thoughtful, and will stand up for you against bullies, will be there if you're upset, maybe they'll even CRY with you! A best friend is totally NOT: Someone who bullies you, Someone who likes it when your mad You should ask her any of the following questions: Are you Okay? Why are you bullying me? You're my friend. Is something wrong like family issues? Questions like that are good because there may be a reason for bullying. She could be suffering from depression, or is confused or lonely. Just talk to her. Have a discussion with her. Also, you should talk to other people. Ask them why they aren't friends with your best friend. Then maybe, after they tell you what they don't like about her, you can go back to your best friend and tell her the things she needs to improve on. Also, if necessary, tell an adult like your mom, a teacher, consular, or her mom. Whatever you think will solve this conflict between you and your best friend well... just go for it. But think about the outcome too. Hope I helped, I might add some tips and suggestions to you. :3
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Boysrock50
Boysrock50 posted in Friends:
Yeah I had a friend in the same situation as you, he was too scared to say anything so we spoke for him. Now the 'friend' has changed and hes our mate. Just tell her straight and firmly, its the only way
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kaykay2002
kaykay2002 posted in Friends:
"Boysrock50" wrote:She is obviously NOT your best friend.I wouldn't even call her a friendShe is a bully who thinks she can have her own wayShe thinks she can control you like you're her follower because she the truth is she needs youBe smart and leave her because she's only going to keep you down and then one day she will find  friends just like her and she will just ignore you forever, thinking shes too cool for you.I would either:Tell her straight that she needs to make her own friends because you don't want to be friends anymoreor:Tell her that you don't like what she does and either she changes her ways and acts more like a friend, or you cant be friends anymore.I'm not trying to be harsh, I'm being wise and you should be wise too. Thanks I actually might try that but she is really stubborn and will not take no for an answer I have tried just ignoring her but he will kick, hit, or punch me to get attention. my parents also don't like her bcuz she is bossy. I also have to go to summer camp with her for the next 2 weeks and w have to be buddies for it so i think i might die
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