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Dear Dish-It, I'm Cheating on My Girlfriend

Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".

Dear Dish-It,

Well, I am sorta, kinda cheating on my girlfriend because I found someone that will do everything with me sexually. My girlfriend and I have been going out for six months and I need satisfaction. Please help me.
dj

Dear dj,

How exactly do you sorta, kinda cheat on someone? Last time I checked, either you cheated or you didn't. If you are fooling around with someone behind your girlfriend's back, you are cheating - and cheating is wrong. If you needed satisfaction so badly, and your girlfriend wasn't willing to "put out," then you should have broken up with her and given her the opportunity to find someone who actually wanted to be with her. Do you really think that it's cool to use people for your own pleasure? Not only are you disrespecting your girlfriend by cheating, you are disrespecting this girl who "will do everything sexually," with you. She's good enough to satisfy your needs but not good enough to be your girlfriend? That's sweet. It's time for you to come clean about your sorta, kinda cheating ways and start treating the peeps in your life with a little more respect.

DJ, that is cheating and it is wrong. Decide who you want to be with.

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