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Dear Dish-It, Kidzworld Member Feedback (pg. 4)


You should have faith in yourself and believe you can do anything you want to, if you give it a try.

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Nickname: blue angel13
Age: 13

Hey everyone, I have been reading the questions that you ask and one stayed in my mind and that was the one about teens who are scared of what they are becoming. Well, I know how that feels like there's no one out there and that you can be gone and no one will notice. I want you to know that I am only 13 and I used to feel like that almost every day and that now I don't because I found peace in myself and now every day I can wake up and be so happy that I got up today and everyone feeling like this needs to find peace and when you do there is never a worry were you feel like no one knows you here. What I mean by that is don't go off and do drugs because that seems to be peace and freedom, I mean go deep inside yourself and find love and peace. With all the love that I have for every person this is Princess signing off.

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Nickname: Princessashleyprincess
Age: 13

One thing I do not understand is why teenagers want to get hooked up so early in life. A while ago there was an assemble and they were congratulating some teens who stayed together for something like a year. I just do not understand why they would end their life sort of short.

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Nickname: poteram
Age: 16

Hey y'all! This is to the girls who think having sex with a boy will make it all better. Don't do it unless you are 100% sure they're the one. I almost had sex with my boyfriend and then we broke up a week later. My advice is to wait. Waitin' is safer than jumpin' right in and regrettin' it forever.

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Nickname: punkrox06
Age: 15

For anybody in tough times: Love your enemies... they REALLY hate that!

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Nickname: emily
Age: 14

If a lad you adore has a girlfriend and she dumps him (aww,) act like a mate and comfort him. This will get you in his good books. Next you need to show yourself as a mate and have a laugh. Flirt lightly and wait a while for him to trust you, then go in for the kill. Just show you like him, like make sure your mate slips to him that you fancy him. And if that doesn't work, ask him who he fancies and then say, 'You wanna know who I fancy?' Then go red with embarrassment and say, 'You, lul' leaffie!'

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Nickname: cheeky chick
Age: 14

This is to everyone that's under 18 and not married. You think your ready to have sex. Ya right! You're too little, trust me. I thought I was ready but guess what - I wasn't. Having sex gives you a lot of emotions you didn't know you had. So wait until you're married, ok? Just wait 'til then.

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Nickname:COOLGUY772
Age: 14

I really think that it depends on the person that you're saying "I love you" to. If you're saying it to someone who doesn't really take it seriously, then consider it just a way to let them know that hey, you're cool. But, if they do take it seriously, I highly recommend that if you say it, you mean it. I also don't believe that there is any "age section" for love. No one is too young, although different age groups apparently have different situations for it and consequences. It's not easily defined, and it can mean different things to different people. But bottom line is, take it seriously if the person you're going to say it to takes it seriously.

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Nickname:onegoofymuda837
Age: 15

Dear Flower, All I have to say is that, why do you care what others think of your size? No body is perfect you know. If starving makes you sad than what will make you happy? Care what you think, not the others!

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Nickname:GtownAZnBbgurl
Age: 13

Ok Rob, I'm 14 and I know what it's like to get grounded for like, ever and wish you would take it back! But the thing is you can't! I mean there really isn't any thing you can do except face it! You seem like a realy sweet and honest guy that any girl would die to have but I'm just sayin' you have to face it. You're grounded for a while - I mean it was DRUGS!!!

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Nickname:Sydney!
Age: 14

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    "Lulu335" wrote: I live in a military family, which means we have to move A LOT. I'm halfway through 6th grade, and I'm really stressed out. The reason is because I have a guy who really likes me, and we liked each other back in the 5th grade, and he's even got me presents and everything, but now I'm starting to doubt whether I still like him or not. And he is a great guy; he's silly, funny, kind- but I just don't know if he's the right guy for me. Plus there's a friend of mine who I know likes me as more than a friend, and he's a great guy, too. I really need advise!! Oh sweetheart, your situation is so, so very far from being complicated. In fact, it's actually, entirely simple. But I'm here to help you see that, because you can't see it yourself quite yet. Brace yourself, you may never hear such advice in your life ever again. Or you might, I can't predict the future. You're in sixth grade, you said. Assuming you live in the United states and weren't held back, you're probably 12, maybe 11. The problem is, the human brain isn't fully developed until a person hits the age of about 25. This means, without debate, that your brain unable to fully grasp what being in a relationship actually entails, what it means, what the consequences are, and so forth. You can't even fathom it, my dear. I couldn't at your age; no one can. You've just begun to hit puberty at this point in your very young, completely normal life. Certain hormones are now being developed by your body that, up until puberty began, your body did not produce. Let me explain, in simple terms, what this means: these new hormones are giving you fuzzy feelings for boys, but these feelings are not what people with fully developed brains call "love." Love means being self sacrificing, compromising, giving and taking, communicating clearly and honestly, and so much more. What you're feeling is a part of love-romance-but it's not all there is to love. It's actually just a few simple chemicals being released in your brain: dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and few others. Your brain releases those chemicals when, say, you see a boy you like, and those chemicals make you feel all fuzzy inside. In fact, (brace yourself,) there's nothing inherently special about the boys you like, or the boys that like you; in fact, they're also, entirely normal, and aside from a few minor differences in character, completely like most other boys their age. Had you been born in another town, gone to another school, you would have gotten the same fuzzy feeling about whatever boy you thought you liked at that school. You see? I'm not saying this to make you feel insignificant, but perhaps the insight will make moving easier for you. The next place your militant parents settle down in will also have a middle school, with a bunch of normal 11-14 year old boys and girls, all doing the exact same things the kids at your school do right now. Does that put things in perspective for you? The world is a very, very big place, and it's home to billions upon billions of people. Your situation is far from being a needle in a hay stack; it's more like a blade of grass, in a vast field of foliage. The feelings you're feeling aren't uncommon or complicated, they just feel that way to you. (Now, really brace yourself, because this is going to get uncomfortable.) We, as people, tend to think that we're special. Each one of us a unique snowflake, drifting about in big blue sky, that exists solely to show the world how special we are. The problem is, the other seven billions snowflakes (people) think exactly like we do, and in this way, we are all the same. We think our problems are new problems that no one has ever dealt with before, and no one else could possibly understand the pain and suffering we're going through. We all think this way, by nature; but it's simply naive. Heartache and suffering have existed since people existed, and possibly before then. Your situation may not be ideal to you, but once you come to terms with the fact that life isn't ideal for anyone, you might actually feel comfort. The easiest way to cope with our many problems, is to accept them for what they are: a part of the human experience. Natural, normal, repeating generation after generation without end. Again, these are concepts that require some deep thought, and you might not fully grasp them quite yet. But remember them. With time, as you grow, think about them more, and you will find peace with your life. And remember this: although you're stuck (for now) on a giant rock hurling around the sun at an incredible speed, you're not alone. With billions of other people stuck here with you, you'll never be without friends.
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    "Lulu335" wrote:I live in a military family, which means we have to move A LOT. I'm halfway through 6th grade, and I'm really stressed out. The reason is because I have a guy who really likes me, and we liked each other back in the 5th grade, and he's even got me presents and everything, but now I'm starting to doubt whether I still like him or not. And he is a great guy; he's silly, funny, kind- but I just don't know if he's the right guy for me. Plus there's a friend of mine who I know likes me as more than a friend, and he's a great guy, too. I really need advise!!I know, it is too late but I think you should not go for a deeper relationship, don't make it hard for yourself and try to be his just friend because you are so young .
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    "queenslay173" wrote:I was at school when I noticed people started to tell me this boy liked me and I thought it was cool because I'm used to that type of stuff then we started to dated in October we broke up right before christmas and it was so strange. we got back together in the beginning of January and we broke up again on the 4 my friends are really mad at me and he seemed really upset I like him but I just don't want to be with him anymore what should I do ?- confused lover Tell him your reasons and make it clear for both of you
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    lottie_h141
    lottie_h141 posted in Style:
    thank u!!! acc helps so much. Obvs going to superstars aswell 
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