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Some people might not realize this, but peer pressure is a big deal (I should know, I've had a lot of it.) I've had this one friend since I was in kindergarden, and we've been tight like peanut butter on the roof of your mouth. Then, this year, our first year in middle school, we got separated into different halls of the school. On days when we could hang out, I suddenly didn't want to hang out with her. She had really changed. She was doing things TOTALLY against the school rules, and acting like if I didn't do them too, I shouldn't hang out with her. I felt like I should just do them a little, so I wouldn't get in trouble, but I could still hang out with her. But I felt REALLY guilty when I started to do it. Now, I have so many other friends and BETTER people to hang out with. Every time I see her, I just wave because the way she was acting, why should I have to hang out with her? It was even stupid of me in the first place to do something I KNEW was wrong, just to hang out with someone who wasn't even that great in the first place.

Kidz Submit by:

Nickname: AgentOrange
Age: 17

If any girls are going through painful break-ups, just remember these few tips:
1)Talk to your friends, let them know how you feel.
2)Cry a lot! A good cry makes everyone feel better.
3)Go on the prowl! If you meet someone new he'll disappear out of your head.
4)If he didn't give you a proper reason for splitting up with you, he sure isn't worth your time.
5)DON'T FORGET! If you dumped him, remember why and don't make the mistake of going back out with him!
If these don't work straight away don't despair! Your heart will heal after a while. JUST FORGET ABOUT THE LOSER!

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Nickname: gothic godess
Age: 16

Hi, I'm 12 years old and my friend's ex-boyfriend came over one night. Well, it was the first night they went out! At first I didn't mind him until later that night! He would try to make my friend leave the room so he could hit on me! She suspected somthing but wasn't 100% sure! Well anyways, he would be all over me when she wasn't looking! But then he asked to kiss me and was like, "You know you like me!" I got so frustrated that I just slapped him across the mouth! I didn't know how to tell my friend! It took me about a week or so and then after I told her she was in tears (this happened many times before. I can't help it if her boyfriends are attracted to me... lol... j/k.) She was going to wait for him to call and tell him it's over and hang up but he never called. It's been like 2 weeks now and she has moved on but he never called! So basically he was playing her in the first place! What I'm trying to say is that boys go day by day but friends are forever so don't let a stupid guy get between y'all's friendship!

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Nickname: AirForce1Chic
Age: 14

I don't think some little girls know what they're getting into. You may see it on the movies as this romantic thing with candles and whatnot but it's not. It's actually pretty wierd cuz you don't know what you're doing. So wait till you're married, please!

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Nickname: straight_evil
Age: 14

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    lelnah posted in Friends:
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    Hannah728
    Hannah728 posted in Friends:
    Ok i have the same problem with every guy! I have a crush on the cutest guy and i think somebody else likes him! And i mean like for sure think that they like him!
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    classicalmusicisepic
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    shae508
    shae508 posted in Friends:
    "classicalmusicisepic" wrote:my friends offline are having some relationship problems atm and there are just some things i want to mention on here, because i think they're relevant; some warning signs, etc and how to approach them.these not only apply to romantic relationships, but also friendships etc.physical harm - this might be an obvious one. but i just want to share some ways to approach the situation. this includes unwanted touching, hitting, kicking, etc. if your partner is doing this to you, you must report it to a trusted adult, teacher, counselor, close friend, or family member. this is one of the most serious abusive relationships- there are many resources online such as childline, etc, and hotlines you can call if you need to speak to someone about it. they may be able to help you get out of the relationship, and give you a shoulder to cry on.pressure into unwanted intimacy - this is also one of the big ones- your partner should never make you feel uncomfortable or otherwise. if they wish to stay with you, they will wait until you're ready to move onto that stage; if you even ever will be. if you feel pressured, or pushed into doing something you feel you'll regret, sit down and talk about it with your partner. you have a say in your relationship, too.control over your friends - if you feel like your partner has control over your friends- something is wrong. if they want you to dedicate every second of your life to them, with no other people, it's not right. your relationship not only affects the two people in it, (or more if it's polyamourous), but everyone around is affected by your relationship, too. again- you have a say in how your relationship is going, too!  criticizing you and your choices - relationships are about liking each other- if your partner is putting you down or demeaning you, it's a warning sign to get out of it. are they mocking you? or putting down your appearance, clothes, etc? Definite red flag; talk about it with him/her/them. other signs, include:-being doted and adored one day, and the next being pushed away and ignored,-you're afraid of your partner-they obsess over and call/text you constantly-you may find you've lost your confidence-many ups and downs in the relationship, constant roller coaster-you aren't yourself. you change and adapt for them, drop hobbies if they're not into them, etc.-something tells you you cant trust themagain, there are many resources out there if you need to talk. never be afraid to speak about it to someone- a family member, a teacher, a close friend, the police, a guidance counselor, etc.  I bolded that one part. The whole thread is great. And that one is a sign. But remember people with mental illness may also show signs like this to. If they have a good they they may spoil you and love you, and then the next day they're having a bad one. So they might push you away. They also may suddenly dote on you one day also to make up for a bad day. I'm not making an excuse, it's still a ver bad thing to do. I'm just putting it out there.
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    jordand08
    jordand08 posted in Friends:
    No problem!
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