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Some people might not realize this, but peer pressure is a big deal (I should know, I've had a lot of it.) I've had this one friend since I was in kindergarden, and we've been tight like peanut butter on the roof of your mouth. Then, this year, our first year in middle school, we got separated into different halls of the school. On days when we could hang out, I suddenly didn't want to hang out with her. She had really changed. She was doing things TOTALLY against the school rules, and acting like if I didn't do them too, I shouldn't hang out with her. I felt like I should just do them a little, so I wouldn't get in trouble, but I could still hang out with her. But I felt REALLY guilty when I started to do it. Now, I have so many other friends and BETTER people to hang out with. Every time I see her, I just wave because the way she was acting, why should I have to hang out with her? It was even stupid of me in the first place to do something I KNEW was wrong, just to hang out with someone who wasn't even that great in the first place.

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Nickname: AgentOrange
Age: 17

If any girls are going through painful break-ups, just remember these few tips:
1)Talk to your friends, let them know how you feel.
2)Cry a lot! A good cry makes everyone feel better.
3)Go on the prowl! If you meet someone new he'll disappear out of your head.
4)If he didn't give you a proper reason for splitting up with you, he sure isn't worth your time.
5)DON'T FORGET! If you dumped him, remember why and don't make the mistake of going back out with him!
If these don't work straight away don't despair! Your heart will heal after a while. JUST FORGET ABOUT THE LOSER!

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Nickname: gothic godess
Age: 16

Hi, I'm 12 years old and my friend's ex-boyfriend came over one night. Well, it was the first night they went out! At first I didn't mind him until later that night! He would try to make my friend leave the room so he could hit on me! She suspected somthing but wasn't 100% sure! Well anyways, he would be all over me when she wasn't looking! But then he asked to kiss me and was like, "You know you like me!" I got so frustrated that I just slapped him across the mouth! I didn't know how to tell my friend! It took me about a week or so and then after I told her she was in tears (this happened many times before. I can't help it if her boyfriends are attracted to me... lol... j/k.) She was going to wait for him to call and tell him it's over and hang up but he never called. It's been like 2 weeks now and she has moved on but he never called! So basically he was playing her in the first place! What I'm trying to say is that boys go day by day but friends are forever so don't let a stupid guy get between y'all's friendship!

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Nickname: AirForce1Chic
Age: 14

I don't think some little girls know what they're getting into. You may see it on the movies as this romantic thing with candles and whatnot but it's not. It's actually pretty wierd cuz you don't know what you're doing. So wait till you're married, please!

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Nickname: straight_evil
Age: 14

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    "SatanslilDemon" wrote: Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice??? It's really nice that your mother supports it, that always helps!! I'm glad that your family enjoys his company as well. Being 16 while he's 20 is alright. It's a slight odd age gap. But, I think as long as you both are ready, it's alright. Make sure you're mature and safe with your choices though. Personally, I think you should wait until you're closer to at least, 17. But, as long as you two are smart about what you're doing, it should be alright when it come around to it.
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    fitta
    "Shygirl15" wrote:I really like this boy in my second period class but i dont know how to tell him because he knows that im transgender do whatever makes you feel comfortable or just wing it and tell him and if he tells you something because you're trans forget about him! He doesn't deserve you. But it's totally okay if you want to play it safe and not go up to him. You do you. :3 
    reply about 12 hours
    fitta
    "SatanslilDemon" wrote: Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice??? i suggest you wait i mean you are going to be 16 that's way too young to be dating someone who is 4/5 years older than you,no? You can still talk to him when it comes to your anxiety attacks and all of that because I have those too every night so I know how it feels, but maybe you should wait. But at the end of the day it's your decision I'm just here to give advice 
    reply about 12 hours
    SatanslilDemon
    Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice???
    reply about 13 hours
    SmartSunnyShadow
    I feel like that too. My best friend will always hang out with her 'new friends' that I have a really bad opinion about. My friend will treat me rudely all the time and sometimes make fun of me with her friends. But, when I needed her the most in my life, she was there for me, and I told her how I felt. She says that she just wants to hang out with more people and apologized, people can be a little teasy at times.  Also, after seeing each other for a long time, people make new friends and start hanging out with them more, it doesn't mean that she doesn't like you.  This may be different for you, but just tell her about it, she will have to know you feelings at one point.  Hope I helped you. 
    reply about 19 hours