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Sindy's Blog - June 16, 2005

June 16, 2005

Things have been going well with my new found outlook on dating and boys. I haven't talked to Trick in forever and I've just been chillin' with A.J. and some other girls since we got out of school. No real progress on the job search, but I'm sure something cool will come up soon.

I don't know if you all know this, but Father's Day is coming up on Sunday. I haven't really spent a lot of time with my dad since like Christmas so it's going to be weird to spend the whole day with just him and my sister. My mom is paying for us to take Dad to a movie and then grab lunch somewhere. I'm going to try and talk Dad and Amy into going to see Kicking and Screaming. Will Farrell is always so hilarious and it seems like the perfect Father's Day flick.

I don't think Dad will make too much of a fuss about what we do on Sunday. I called him the other night to make sure he wasn't going to be busy and I swear he was like on the verge of tears. It sucks that we don't get to see him as much lately, but he's always on business trips and we've been in school so our schedules never really match up. I think now that I'm done school I might go spend a few weeks at his place.

Before I used to hate having to stay over at my dad's cuz I always thought that my parent's were getting back together and it was too weird to spend time with him without my mom. But now I've kind of just come to terms with their divorce and I miss spending time with him. I think this Father's Day is going to be a lot of fun. As long as Amy doesn't whine too much! What are you guys doing for Father's Day? Any big plans? !

Peace,

Sindy.

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