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Dear Dish-It, I Don't Know If I'm Getting My Period

Dear Dish-It,

I'm 12 and I don't know if I'm getting my period because I have had one headache and a little pains in my abdomen area and I'm not sure... please help me.
taylah404


Dear taylah404,

Girls usually get their first period between the ages of 9-16, so you're in that age bracket. But, having a headache and some cramps aren't really signs that you're getting it just yet. Before you get your first period, your body will go through a ton of changes that bring on puberty. Yes, puberty! You will grow taller, develop breasts and hips, grow hair in your underarm and pubic area, and maybe even get some white vaginal discharge. Soon after all that, you'll get your first period. But you won't get a huge gush of blood the first time around. It'll most likely be a few spots of bright red blood, or a brown, sticky discharge. Since it's hard to tell exactly when you'll get your first period - it could come next month or next year - it's a good idea to start carrying sanitary pads in your bag. But, if it comes unexpectedly in gym class while you're shooting hoops, just ask your school nurse cuz she'll have a stack of pads for emergencies like this.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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rainbowpoptart
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liddielover
i hate my little sister because i get introuble for her and lose my friends to her.is that wrong?
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skylar245
skylar245 posted in Friends:
"rainbowpoptart" wrote: "skylar245" wrote: Teacher said to wait for the Bus Driver and the counselor, she just talks to me and doesn't tell The Princible Then maybe try telling the principal yourself, and you should also report that the driver, teacher, and counselor haven't done anything to help you. If that fails, tell another trusted adult, like your mother. I'm sure someone you're close to would do their best to get justice. This is a major problem and it's a shame no one's done anything to help. ​No one listens to me anyway but my friends
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rainbowpoptart
rainbowpoptart posted in Friends:
"skylar245" wrote:Teacher said to wait for the Bus Driver and the counselor, she just talks to me and doesn't tell The Princible Then maybe try telling the principal yourself, and you should also report that the driver, teacher, and counselor haven't done anything to help you. If that fails, tell another trusted adult, like your mother. I'm sure someone you're close to would do their best to get justice. This is a major problem and it's a shame no one's done anything to help.
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skylar245
skylar245 posted in Friends:
"rainbowpoptart" wrote: "skylar245" wrote: My bus driver does NOTHING about it EVEN IF HE SEE'S IT! he only wrote the two girls up but not the girl that hit me Then report them to a teacher or the school counselor. Behaviour like that is not acceptable in the slightest. ​Teacher said to wait for the Bus Driver and the counselor, she just talks to me and doesn't tell The Princible
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