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Simon's Blog - July 31, 2007

Simon's Blog - July 31, 2007 - Reviewed by Kidzworld on Jul 26, 2007
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What a couple of weeks this has been. First Vanessa dumps me, and now there are all kinds of rumors circulating about her. Im really not sure what to believe.

July 31, 2007

What a couple of weeks this has been. First Vanessa dumps me, and now there are all kinds of rumors circulating about her. I'm really not sure what to believe. Maybe I spoke too soon when I said this is going to be the best summer ever.

First off, I'd just really like to give a shout-out to everyone who wrote in to sympathize with the whole break-up thing. The advice and encouragement really cheered me up. You wanna know what didn't cheer me up, though? Hearing that Vanessa already has a new boyfriend!

Ben said his brother saw Vanessa holding hands with some guy at the mall. She didn't wait around long to replace me. In fact, I asked around to a couple of friends of hers, and they said that she's known him for a while. Could it actually have been Vanessa who was cheating on me?! Why would she accuse me of all that stuff if she was actually the one doing it?!

I'm not totally sure what the deal is or who to believe, but I do know that the whole thing sucks. I've been hanging out with work people more - who are all WAY better skateboarders than I am, by the way - and that's helping me keep busy. I really feel I need to up my game to compete with these guys so I'm off to the skate park to perfect my moves. how your summer is going (and what you think about the latest Vanessa developments)!

Later,
Simon

1Hey simon, I'm truly sorry that vannesa dumped u. I've never been dumped but if i did it would probably suck. I'm sorry anyways. kisses)
Username: Anonymous

1After she dumped you did you tell her your side of the story??? Maybe if you explained to her that you really like her and would never cheat on her and that you want to earn money so you can continue taking her to nice places she will be put at ease. Let it go and call her and try to talk to her because by showing her that you are trying to talk to her and work it out you are showing her that you are not cheating and you actually do like her. Well, good luck and I hope you take my advice!
Username: Anonymous

1> OMG that happened 2 me the other day! I started a job and my BF said I was was spending 2 much time there and THEN he said I was cheatin' cuz the boy I worked with was fit and I think he fancied me. Now he's 2 pushy and he dumped me!!
Username: Anonymous

1She sounds like a spoiled brat.
Username: Anonymous

1If someone don't like you for who you are they aren't for you. If you want to be yourself and she doesn't, she isn't your girl. Even if she does look pretty. Get over it and get a new girl that likes you for who you really are!
Username: Anonymous

1 Wow. That's sorta weird that Vanessa accused u of things u suspect of her. It's not very common for a person to get a new bf/gf a little while after u barely broke up with one. If i were u, I'd do the same, and i'd get a new bf, gf in your case.
Username: Anonymous

1Psh. Vanessa needs help. She isn't good enough to spoil your perfect summer. Ask your mom what you should do, she's been through it all.
Username: Anonymous

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When we went shopping to get the clothing I chose slacks when she liked a skirt better, we went on to fight in the store and she bought the slacks. When we got home she said to me that real girls wear skirts and dresses and boys wear slacks and pants. This hurt me because she knows I have a past with people telling me I look like a boy etc. Another time I started to sleep on the floor, because I was practicing a minimalist life. When I left my pillows on the floor she found it and questioned me on why they were there. I told her it fell of my bed when really I left it there. Later when I told my dad, he told her and she got mad because I was getting cat hair on my pillows. She then proceeded to ask why I lied and I told her sometimes lying is better then the truth (I knew she would get mad that I was sleeping on the floor so I lied) then she told me that I was never going to have a relationship, a job, or friends ( This hurt me because I don't have friends now). She's also said that I don't take care of my body because I ate two sweets in one day which lead her to banning me from Doritos and now I have to ask to get chips and any other snack. She's told me I don't take care of my teeth because I have yellow spots from using whitening toothpaste with braces on. She's told me I don't take care of my hair so I can't wash it or do any hair style or then a bun. She had lead me to starving myself (Unless she makes me eat) and cutting myself. I've just stopped caring, because what ever I do is always wrong. I never get a choice in my activities, she controls my life in fact she me just in a different body. But what is even worse is that she's turning my dad into her. Now I have a scheduled time to eat breakfast and lunch, and to go onto my electronics. 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    Error101
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    Dear Kkmr324, I hope you get to feeling better as time goes on.  It does get better but like you said you can't actually get over it.  Losing someone to cancer is awful and I have never lost a friend and I hope I never will and I am so sorry that you did, but I have lost family to cancer and it is horrible.  I hope your okay. :(
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    Kkrmr324
    Kkrmr324 posted in Family Issues:
    A few months ago,my friend Kendall died of cancer. It was really hard to "get over it"; because really you dont just get over it. One thing i did was find a bunch of pictures of me and Kendall and remembered all the fun we had together. And it helped! I still miss her, but good friends and family helped with that.
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    Kkrmr324
    Kkrmr324 posted in Family Issues:
    A few months ago,my friend Kendall died of cancer. It was really hard to "get over it"; because really you dont just get over it. One thing i did was find a bunch of pictures of me and Kendall and remembered all the fun we had together. And it helped! I still miss her, but good friends and family helped with that.
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    Tennis123
    why are you allowing that to control your happiness? why can't you have true happiness instead of chasing some dream for momentary satisfaction? You're 12. This is when your core beliefs, values, and outlooks on life start. Don't mess it up choosing to be sad over something like that.
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