well i am gay but im also christian. i love god and was saved wen i was about 4 months old by my daddy who baptised me. i do lotsa church stuff and my dad does gods work. am i an unfaithful christian by being gay? am i sinning against Him???? i hear it is, from others i hear its ok. confused..... help!

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You don't chose your feelings or who you are attracted to so no you aren't unfaithful in that case. But do you believe the Bible is the true word of God and everything in it is true? If so then apparently God doesn't want gays to act on their feelings. Is it a "sin" in the Biblical god's eyes? Perhaps, but there isn't evidence that it is wrong. When something is truly wrong there are reasons for it that aren't just based on opinion. M-rder isn't wrong just because God says so or it gets in the way of what He wants; there are plenty of other reasons. There aren't reasons for why homos-xuality is wrong.

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"Alexithymia" wrote:

You don't chose your feelings or who you are attracted to so no you aren't unfaithful in that case. But do you believe the Bible is the true word of God and everything in it is true? If so then apparently God doesn't want gays to act on their feelings. Is it a "sin" in the Biblical god's eyes? Perhaps, but there isn't evidence that it is wrong. When something is truly wrong there are reasons for it that aren't just based on opinion. M-rder isn't wrong just because God says so or it gets in the way of what He wants; there are plenty of other reasons. There aren't reasons for why homos-xuality is wrong.

tanks a billion..... : )

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"the-starr" wrote:

well i am gay but im also christian. i love god and was saved wen i was about 4 months old by my daddy who baptised me. i do lotsa church stuff and my dad does gods work. am i an unfaithful christian by being gay? am i sinning against Him???? i hear it is, from others i hear its ok. confused..... help!

This is totally off the main topic, but I'm going to say it anyway. You weren't saved when you were 4 months old. Yes, some churches believe in infant baptism, but how can you be saved if you didn't make the choice yourself? I believe that you have to choose to become a christian, and choose to be baptised, for it to actually stick. Okay, I'm done ranting now. As for the gay thing, there's worse things you could be doing. Yes, according to the Bible, it's a sin, but if you're really a Christian, then you're going to heaven whether you're gay or a former axe murdererrr.

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You just said you're bi and now you're saying you're gay. Wth? Anyway, I agree with gothsweetheart.

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Yes, it's a sin. But so is marrying a divorced woman, which many "good church people" do. You shouldn't do either, but God will forgive you if you repent. It's not wrong to have those feelings, but it is to act on them. It's not an evil, bad, worse-than-anything sin people make it out to be. If somebody isn't going to speak up about marrying divorced people, they shouldn't speak up about gays.

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"the-starr" wrote:

well i am gay but im also christian. i love god and was saved wen i was about 4 months old by my daddy who baptised me. i do lotsa church stuff and my dad does gods work. am i an unfaithful christian by being gay? am i sinning against Him???? i hear it is, from others i hear its ok. confused..... help!

Yes it's a sin it's an abomination against God I just don't understand how do a girl and girl get attracted to eachother and a boy and boy that just not right

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"allen4427" wrote:

"the-starr" wrote:

well i am gay but im also christian. i love god and was saved wen i was about 4 months old by my daddy who baptised me. i do lotsa church stuff and my dad does gods work. am i an unfaithful christian by being gay? am i sinning against Him???? i hear it is, from others i hear its ok. confused..... help!

Yes it's a sin it's an abomination against God I just don't understand how do a girl and girl get attracted to eachother and a boy and boy that just not right

gawd if a guy and a girl get attracted so why cant two genders i mean girl hang out with each other alot

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"allen4427" wrote:

"the-starr" wrote:

well i am gay but im also christian. i love god and was saved wen i was about 4 months old by my daddy who baptised me. i do lotsa church stuff and my dad does gods work. am i an unfaithful christian by being gay? am i sinning against Him???? i hear it is, from others i hear its ok. confused..... help!

Yes it's a sin it's an abomination against God I just don't understand how do a girl and girl get attracted to eachother and a boy and boy that just not right

way to be totally un-helpful. You really added a lot to this conversation.

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"allen4427" wrote:

"the-starr" wrote:

well i am gay but im also christian. i love god and was saved wen i was about 4 months old by my daddy who baptised me. i do lotsa church stuff and my dad does gods work. am i an unfaithful christian by being gay? am i sinning against Him???? i hear it is, from others i hear its ok. confused..... help!

Yes it's a sin it's an abomination against God I just don't understand how do a girl and girl get attracted to eachother and a boy and boy that just not right

gawd if a guy and a girl get attracted then why cant two girls or two boys girls always hang out with each other

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