"the-starr" wrote:Ok just send if I should come out or not and then give a suggestion HOW.
i joke around with Dad alot, remember. IDK if this helps...
Do you know your father's opinion on gays? Maybe you could ask him what he thinks about them and if his answer is positive and you feel comfortable you could ease into the conversation. If you aren't ready to come out don't just do it because you feel you should and if you think he'll react badly then maybe you should wait a while. I really do recommend that you know what he thinks of gays beforehand though. I came out to my mom December 26 of last year.
I'm glad I did since it was a big relief, but I'd brought up the subject of gays many times before so I was clear my mom would accept me and had no doubts on it. -I think she'd already sort of guessed it though since I've been involved in gay rights issues for the past two years and am just I'm pretty obvious.
Anyway I wish you the best of luck in whatever you chose to do and I am always here to talk.
"A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in." -Greek proverb
Because of school, I don't have much time to be on KW atm.