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JanetDoe
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Posted about 2 years ago
I feel as if my brother hates me. He ignores me all the time except when he's making jokes about me or making fun of me. I don't like we have to fight all the time and I don't want to grow up and have us hating each other. One day, I know my parents are going to die. I know I'll probably be to young to settle down into a marriage and have kids yet, so I probably won't have a husband. Who is gonna be there for me? Who is gonna be my shoulder to cry on? My parents both love their siblings, and I want to be as close as they are, but he's just ignoring me and won't listen to what I have to say. What do I do?

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Candiegirl
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Posted about 2 years ago
Just leave him alone for now , and later have a sit down talk with him 


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Posted about 2 years ago
Me And My Sister Fight All The Time, But It's Always Me Getting In Trouble Stereotypically. I Mean, My Sister Always Complains About Something And She Hits Me Alot -.- And I Get Into Trouble For Faking It xD Idk. Just Carry On.

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american_brit
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He doesn't hate you. I used to have problems with my brother too, but he loves me -and I'm willing to bet you that your brother loves you too -A LOT! smile  If he's picking on you then it might be an even bigger sign of his affection for you (that sounds weird, but I'm not entirely sure how I want to word it...) My siblings use to make fun of me all the time(not so much my oldest brother) -it hurt, but they did it anyways. It wasn't because they didn't like me either, quite the opposite and now that I can see that, I can look back and give a little smile. It wasn't nice. No, but it wasn't their intention to make me feel bad.

For now, I would let him have his space.  If he's a teenage boy, understand that they can be kind of moody. (Really everyone can be -I know- but some go through these "phases" One of my brothers did. He questioned a lot of things, etc.) I'm assuming he's your old brother, if so know that they don't always no how to react with younger siblings (especially sisters). Later, talk to him. Tell him you love him and that you hate this fighting. Who knows? He might feel the same way. If things don't work out as soon as you'd like them too, don't worry. Find some good friends you can talk to about these situations, some people who will stick by you. Friends are the family you get to choose -but remember your relative family is a gift.

Hope this helps! smile Feel free to talk if you have more on your mind.

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On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask,
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sonurules
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i dont mean to hurt ur feelings but that just sucks. bcse i want u to know that a person once he/she is born and is capable of doing everything by one self then they are on their own for example me... i had a mother but only when she died i realised that im all by myself throughout my lyf having a shoulder to cry on! thats riddiculus i mean i had no 1 in my lyf to comfort me in realworld NOT 1 PERSON! still am doin great of course am sad iv been depressedbut eventually when such a situation comes family will always be together

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american_brit
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Posted about 2 years ago

"sonurules" wrote:

i dont mean to hurt ur feelings but that just sucks. bcse i want u to know that a person once he/she is born and is capable of doing everything by one self then they are on their own for example me... i had a mother but only when she died i realised that im all by myself throughout my lyf having a shoulder to cry on! thats riddiculus i mean i had no 1 in my lyf to comfort me in realworld NOT 1 PERSON! still am doin great of course am sad iv been depressedbut eventually when such a situation comes family will always be together


You probably hate it when people feel sorry for you, but I'm so sorry Frown I hope you're doing alright. 

“There is freedom waiting for you
On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask,
What If I Fall?


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