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Posted almost 11 years ago

ok.... during the summer, my mom told me that her husband x which is now here ex)was not my dad. so i freaked out and wanted to know who my real dad is. she told me that my real dad left me when i was 1 1/2 years old. so for 11 1/2 years, i didn''t know who my real dad was. i found out that my real dad lives in maryland with a wife and 3 kids. i''m still mad at her and my dad. all i want to do is get my life back the way it was. i wish my mom didn''t tell me. i some times feel like running away or doing something even worse. i''m really frustrated!

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Posted almost 11 years ago

Date: 10/15/2005 11:23:36 AM
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ok.... during the summer, my mom told me that her husband x which is now here ex)was not my dad. so i freaked out and wanted to know who my real dad is. she told me that my real dad left me when i was 1 1/2 years old. so for 11 1/2 years, i didn''t know who my real dad was. i found out that my real dad lives in maryland with a wife and 3 kids. i''m still mad at her and my dad. all i want to do is get my life back the way it was. i wish my mom didn''t tell me. i some times feel like running away or doing something even worse. i''m really frustrated!

Well, even if your mom didn''t tell you, it''s still true- and you would have found out about it someday. Theres no way to change the past...even by running away or doing something worse.

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Posted almost 11 years ago

well i wish she would have told me later like when i''m 16.

a heart is not a play thing, a heart is not a toy, if you want it broken then just give it to a boy

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Posted almost 11 years ago

axxx thats sad. I feel sorry for ya. All i can say is just try to move on and dont think about it that much. Thats just the way it is.........

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Posted almost 11 years ago

life sucks get a helmet

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"Growing up leads to growing old and then to dying
And dying to me don''t sound like all that much fun." - John Mellencamp

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Posted almost 11 years ago

I''m really sorry about that. It''s not your fault so don''t feel bad about your life. I can understand why you are mad at your dad, but why are you mad at your mom? Your life has been good all this time right? So just keep in mind that is not your fault, live your life as if nothing has happened. I know it''s hard, but give it a try. And again, don''t be depressed or anything, becuase it is NOT you''re fault.

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Posted almost 11 years ago

hey ur mom sould tell u at a young age ur dad sucks if they ruiend ur life then do the same to them

I''m not anti-social I just hate people.

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Posted almost 11 years ago

most likley ur dad and his kids im 11 2 wich has nothin to do with this

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Posted almost 11 years ago

Date: 10/17/2005 1:42:58 PM
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hey ur mom sould tell u at a young age ur dad sucks if they ruiend ur life then do the same to them

That''s stupid advice. I don''t blame her mom for not telling her earlier. Her dad doesn''t suck, he might have good reasons for leaving that we don''t know about. They didn''t ruin her live either. Life is still the same except for the fact that they found out they have a biological father a few states away.

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