Posted about 4 years ago
Well. As you may or may not know, your parents punish you because they love you. They want you too grow up and be clean cut and act as if you where raised correctly. In that case when they punish you, they're just trying too show you the difference between right and wrong. In your teen years, you, and everyone else goes through a little rebellious stage. Meaning, you think you know it all, you think your parents are stupid, you don't like being bossed around, etc.. The thing is, if your mom is yelling, and its scaring or making you feel uncomfortable, when she's in a good mood, let her know in a nice way that when she yells at you for doing something wrong, the way she yells is a little scary and you don't like it! If she's a good mom, she'll understand that your a person too, you have your own problems and emotions. If you have any other problems with her, like if she doesn't stop, or gets mad at you for sitting her down and telling her. Try too work it out with her face too face. If that doesn't work, just start doing the right thing!
Another thing you could do, is help her around the house. Maybe, sweep the kitchen, put up the groceries, feed the pets, fix her a drink. Do something nice for her that will show you that you still care and are willing too do whatever it takes too form a relationship with her. Hopefully this helps.