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I can forgive, but not sure if I can forget

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This relates to a post I put earlier.
Shortly after I moved to America from Brazil, I started dance class. When I started, I was assigned a mentor, someone that was very good at ballet to help me along. Her name ws Bradleigh. We instantly became best friends. She introduced me to her boyfriend who just happened to live about a 5 minute walk from my house.
When her boyfriend and I met, I had a crush on him and later found out that he really liked me, too. We ended up dating and Bradleigh found out and we had a fight at dance class and other bad things happened. Needless to say, we were not friends any more, and because I felt uncomfortable at that dance class, I dropped out of that class. Of course she didn't know that, cause she was suspended from that dance class for starting the fight.
Today, while I was at school, she stopped my house and left me a note saying that she was sorry for fighting me, and that she wanted to see me or talk to me before she left. She leaves tomorrow to move to Florida. 
She said that she was hoping to see me at dance class tonight as she was going to go there to say bye to all of her friends.
I'm not sure if I should call her, and I'm not sure what to say when I do, if I do.
I can forgive her, but I'm not sure if I can forget, and I would really like to talk to her. I would hate for her to think that I still have bad feelings against her, which I don't!
I feel like I kinda deserved it especially after taking her boyfriend from her!
Just not sure what to do or what to say!
 



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I think you definitely need to talk to her because she'll be feeling upset like you, if not worse because she's lost you and she's lost her boyfriend. I think you need to apologise too, and honestly I don't blame her for fighting you, it must of been a terrible shock to her and it was just an initial reaction. You should forgive her too, I'm sure you would get mad or upset if somebody did the same to you.


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You should talk to her or call her and talk about good memories and possibly how you two could try and stay friends with the distant friendship , even if you can't forget you can forgive and time heals all wounds so you to could be good friends again but if you don't you may regret it for years.

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thanks for all the replies!!
I did get a chance to see her yesterday before she left to go to Florida. We are now back to being friends again, and yes I did apologize to her and she did the same to me. We hugged each other for a long time before she had to leave. I hope she comes back up here to visit soon.



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Forgive and forget honney that would be the best thing to do shes your best friend

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I think you definitely need to talk to her because she'll be feeling upset like you, if not worse because she's lost you and she's lost her boyfriend. I think you need to apologise too, and honestly I don't blame her for fighting you, it must of been a terrible shock to her and it was just an initial reaction. You should forgive her too, I'm sure you would get mad or upset if somebody did the same to you.

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Forgive & Forget is such a cliche. Its hard to forgive and nearly impossible to forget. I have an ex who Im struggling so hard to forgive. Its intense. But you guys were best friends. Talk it out.


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sorry but you never forget things like this even if you think you have.  Truth is we never forget to teach ourselfs never to make the same mistakes again.  Talk to her.

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