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So, every time someone even approaches me, I get all clammed up and nervous. And then it gets worse if the person start's to talk to me. I can never look people in the eye. Sometimes I can't even look at them at all. I have a bit of a communication problem. :3 If by chance someone decides not to give up on me, it still takes me a long time to get used to people. It's taken me like... a year to be comfortable around someone before. And there's some friends I never got comfortable around. I guess I also have trust issues, always assuming people have a hidden agenda. Maybe this is why I can't make friends and keep them very long. I used to think all this was no big deal, but now I think this could be what's getting in my way.

I'm just a prisoner in this jail cell of a planet.


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Sounds like you already know why you can't make friends. 

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Well, I don't know for sure. I'm just pondering. There could be many other reasons too.

I'm just a prisoner in this jail cell of a planet.


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Well in the world we live in today I can understand why its hard for you to trust ppl but there are some really nice ppl out there that genuinely want to be ur friend. But those who arent wiling to wait for you to break out your shell probrably arent the real deal friends u should surround urself around. Ive never really had that problem becuz im sorta outspoken, but i understand wat ur saying tho. i wish u the best of luck with ur shyness smile

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Maybe it could be. It's okay to be nervous but don't make it obvious to the actual person, and anyway, if they were a true friend it wouldn't matter to them if you got nervous round them. That's what I think anyway. Hope it helps though. smile



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"TearsInTheRain" wrote:

Sounds like you already know why you can't make friends. 




Yeah, and I think that there might be more to it that just being nervous. Do you think you may have anxiety issues? Has something happened in the past that is affecting the present? Do you get nervous around certain types of people? Do you worry that they will harm you? These are just some things to think about, but you could have anxiety problems. Maybe, maybe not. Maybe you are just really shy. I don't know, I'm not an expert on these things.


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this seems to be more so shy

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I'm almost like you....I get nervous when someone talks to me because I feel scared if they think I'm a weirdo or something.But I'm sure you can talk about this to your parents or something.





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Heh... I don't know if I have anxiety issues... I could, because I've had major problems with friends in the past... My parents have tried to give me advice on this, but it's always the same thing: "Talk to people."

But, actually... I've made a couple of friends... and all is going well with my new friends right now... :3 I'm so proud of myself.

I'm just a prisoner in this jail cell of a planet.


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i understand, i feel shy too when i saw people crowd /: but you know if you stand with confident you can make them your friends. smile


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