"NachozRule" wrote:sir, i have not been a victim of bullying directly, but i have had many self esteem issues and i have had social anxiety throughout my entire years of school, that means indirect bullying with people talking about me behind my back.
Stop! You obviously aren't a victim I am and she is! Telling an adult gets nowhere from personal experience,sometimes you can't "suck it up" have you ever had your jaw broken and your teeth knocked out because some bullies decided they don't like Christians?! I didn't think so! Well I have,and trust me I told an adult,the reaction I got was a suspension of the other kid and the same beating when he got back. So dont think you know what's going on bc you have no idea!
that's not helping,admit it. Friends make school easier,bullies and jerks make it living hell. Everyone needs friends,in school and everywhere else.
focus on learning, school is a learning environment, not a place to make friends.
its the victims fault for reacting to bullies / not telling adults about them, if they seriously cant suck it up to tell a trusted adult then they should just be home schooled, if you want to make friends do it somewhere else.
if the bullying is physical, then thats illegal and he needs to go to juvenile, if you just tell an adult one time thats not going to help, and its obvious that the OP is a victim of mental bullying, not physical.
Adults don't help! Most of the time they just make it worse! Bullying is something you sometimes just can't get over! HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CALL ED TERRIBLE NAMES RIGHT TO YOUR FACE!? HAVE YOU EVER BEEN PUNCHED JUST BECAUSE YOU SPOKE!? YEAH, PEOPLE MIGHT TALK ABOUT YOU BEHIND YOUR BACK BUT I THINK THAT HAS HAPPENED TO EVERYONE! YOU HAVE NO. IDEA. WHAT PEOPLE LIKE US GO THROUGH! YOU ACT LIKE YOU HAVE SO MANY PROBLEMS BUT THE PROBLEMS YOU HAVE SAID ARE NOTHING! NOTHING COMPARED TO WHAT MILLIONS OF KIDS GO THROUGH EVERY. SINGLE. DAY!