hello anyone,
i have been friends with this one girl since the begining of the year and about 3 months after that my old friend got introduced to her. they have gradually been becoming greater friends. and just about a week ago i got in a fight with the new friend and the old friend took her side. which made them become greater friends. now all they talk about is eachother and they always are putting up away messages saying oh call me! as soon as u see it. now they are talking about my insiders with they old friend.
i now feel really left out
what should i do?

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hey people

Feeling left out is the one of the worse feelings a person can have, but many poeple feel this way. What seems to be the cause of this break-up is the fight you had with your new friend, in which your old friend took her side. What you need to do first, is talk to the new girl for whatever the fight was about, try working it out with her. She might be hanging out with your old friend more, because she is mad at you because of the fight. Try to think about the fight you had with her, did you do something that might have annoyed her? Because if your old friend took her side, it has to have been for a reason. Try talking to your new friend and try to work out the fight you had with her, let her say her side of the story, listen to it carefully and consider it. Then tell her how you are feeling about the whole fight, and tell her your side of the story, but whatever you do DO NOT let your feelings explode. And remember to be honest, you might be right in some things but you could also be wrong in other things. And always rememer that it doesnt matter who started the fight, what matters is your friendship.

And always remember, everyone is allowed to have more than one best friend.

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I UNDERSTAND I BEEN LIKE THAT THIS YEAR ONLY I WAS THE FRIEND BUT MY OTHER FRIEND WAS JELOUS

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nor really. find some new friends

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