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Dear Dish-It, He Keeps Flirting With Me


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl when I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

A week ago, I started skateboardin' with this boy I've known for years. To help me keep my balance, he put his arms around me and he keeps flirting with me. Does this boy like me? Please help.
Pretty Kitty


Dear Pretty Kitty,

Yeah, girl! I'd say there is definitely some crushing goin' on. Put it this way - do you ever see him putting his arms around his guy buds to help them keep their balance? Didn't think so. If you're into him as much as he seems to be into you, you should ask him out. Since you're already flirtin' up a storm on the skateboards, I bet he'll jump at the chance to hang with you off the board. Like I always say, if you want something, just go for it!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to Dish-It here. Send all of your questions to deardish@kidzworld.com. But 'member, if ya hang out in Chat with other Kidzworld members who know ya by your 'username', ya might wanna use a secret nickname when ya write in. That way no one'll ever know it's you. And, just in case ya don't know, Dish-It gets a lotta letters everyday, and she can't answer 'em all. So keep checkin' the column cuz she's prob'ly answerin' somethin' very similar to your question while you're out doin' somethin' else. K? And Thanks! Ya keep her outta trouble. Oh! And if ya've got words of wisdom you wanna share,We'll dish 'em up, too.


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