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Dear Dish-It, Help! It's Valentine's Day

Dear Dish-It,

Okay, Valentine's Day is coming up... oh yeah, I'm just 12... Anyway, what do you get a boy for Valentine's... a boy that you really like?????
Markey


Dear Markey,

That all depends... does he like you too? I mean is this your boy or someone you're crushin' on. Cuz if he's your boy, get him something special, something that shows you listen to him and ya hear what it is he's into. You don't have to spend a ton of money... just think of him and you'll be all inspired. If your boy's into comics (they're not just for kids!) like X-men or Batman Beyond, go to the comic shop and drop some dosh ($$$) on a special edition or collectible. If your boy is into warpin', mixin' and scratchin', hook him up with a cool industry rag (not just one, get him a subscription for the year.) Maybe your dude is all 'bout the board... pick him up a boardin' gift. The point is, anyone can buy flowers but your real feelin's will show when you buy a gift that's all 'bout them.


But, if this boy is someone you're crushin' on, I think it's too early for gifts. But, it does pose the perfect op to ask him out. Your money's better spent on a flick than any present.


Dear Dish-It,

Hello, my mate has asked me to ask you this! There is this lad she likes and she won't shut up about him! I asked him what is his top 5 and he said that my mate is number 2 and she is dead chuffed. But he said, he won't go out with her cuz she thinks that he doesn't like her... he won't tell me if he does or not! What do I tell him... to go out with her, cuz you can tell he likes her and he is always lookin' at her. I think that it is really funny! She has told me to ask you what should she do to get him to go out with her? Cuz Valentine's Day is comin' up and she is sendin' him a rose and a card!! She is madly in love with him. What should she do?
Curly_Colly


Dear Dish-It,

There is this lad I like in school. He is dead nice, but he likes my friend. I sent him a rose for Valentine's day and he is sending me 1. Do you think he likes me cuz I don't wanna ask him out in case he says NO! I really like him. Should I ask him out or not?
Love From Curly


Dear Curly_Colly,

Okay girl, first I gotta translate... Your girlfriend said, check it out with Dish-It, what should I do? The guy tells you he likes her but he won't ask her out. And she likes him, right? What does chuffed mean? (I use to live in London, but I swear I don't know that one.) Anyway, it sounds like they both think the other is pretty lush. If I've got this right, then tell your mate, to ask him out before she gives him a card or flowers. Then she can send the goodies after they go out. Tell your "mate" good luck!


As for your second question. It sounds like this boy is interested or he wouldn't be sending you a rose. I say go for it girl... and if he does say no, it's not the end of the world... and it certainly doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. The timing might be bad. Who knows. Like I keep telling you guys, life is short, so don't waste time with "what ifs." Don't let your fears rule you or stop you from trying something new. Cuz if you don't ask, I can promise you, you won't get what you want. How 'bout these for "what ifs?" What if he says YES! What if you succeed? What if you get what you want?


Dear Dish-It,

Hi! My boyfriend won't talk to me. My friends asked him if he was going to get me anything for Valentine's day and he said that he does not have time for me. HELP ME DISH!!!!!!!!!!!
Kat


Dear Kat,

Any hotties on the radar? Cuz bad news girl, I think you're dating yourself. You say he won't talk to you and he's told your friends he doesn't have time for you. Take the hint girl, he's not your boyfriend. Somewhere along the way, he dumped you. It sounds like he's a total coward and didn't bother to let you know (which makes him a total butt-head too.) It's Valentine's... brush yourself off and find some new talent... talent that will treat you proper. You don't need to be botherin' with Mr. No-Show. Besides, when he sees you're busy elsewhere, he might come runnin' back. Not that you should want him back. You deserve better girl, so go have some fun.


Dear Dish-It,

I've been with this boy for 6 months now and Valentine's Day is coming. The thing about it is, I was taught to buy only a card for the boy I go out with but I want to get him something other than a card. What should I do?
alltalk


Dear alltalk,

So what's the problem? Go for it. Buy him something special but don't go all crazy with the money. Just remember, if you buy him something that's all about him and the things he grooves on... he'll love it, and you. Happy V-Day girl!


Dear Dish-It,

I got to get a good present for my g/f and I don't know what to give her. Please give me some good ideas of what to get her. What would you want?
Cody


Dear Cody (and all you boys out there,),

Walk to Remember


Other Great Gifts Ideas,

Jewellery


Picture


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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SmartSunnyShadow
Sorry for the late reply, but I'd love to help. If they don't want to talk to you, or don't like your jokes, don't talk to them. They probably don't like you, so you shouldn't try to make it better. You should hang out with your other friends. They'll make you feel better about yourself. If you don't have any friends in your class...that's the problem.  That's exactly what happened to me last year. But I started hanging out with the guys more, and they were really nice and had a lot in common with me. Maybe the guys will be nice to you and accept you. I hope I helped you. :)   
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SmartSunnyShadow
Aw, that's sad. I know this is a late review, but I would love to help you make new friends. There are kids that do nasty things at every single school, trust me, you'll never find a perfect school, and if people are reporting this form of bullying, teachers are probably supervising children more, so don't worry about that. :) Now making new friends, ahh, that's very difficult. I can be shy myself, but it honestly depends. What I usually do is observe different groups of people, and see how they interact with each other. If the person seems nice, wait until the time is appropriate and greet them. A friendly "Hi, I'm new, could you maybe show me around, or help me with this, or tell me about this school?" That will start off a conversation. :)  As well, I tend to make jokes, or go to my funny side. I usually make way more friends that way. You could try to make slight jokes, and gradually make them less implied and more clear as you joke around.  If there are any other new kids, or shy kids, definitely talk to them. If there are any kids that look lonely, or sad, maybe take some time to approach them. If they look like the want to be left alone, leave them alone. If you're not sure, it's best if you see someone else interact with them first.  If you're bisexual, that doesn't really matter, and don't bring that fact up in a conversation. That's kind of personal, and when you get a little closer, you can say that. It's not really important, and necessary for people to know that. And it's personal too. So don't bring that up unless you really want to.  I hope i helped you! Sorry for the late advice. >_< 
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SmartSunnyShadow
Several people are having the same problem as you. Whether they're the same gender or not, many people crush on some of their closest friends. So don't feel alone, remember that. I know this is some late advice, but I hope so far things are going good. Many people are feeling the urge of confessing like you. Yes, I think you should confess to her clearly, but when the time is right. She may not like you, but if you really really like her, you should absolutely confess to her. But be aware that confessing to one of your friends can ruin your friendship. You have to be cautious, confess when the time is right. 5 months may be long for you, but honestly, that's a short-term crush. Don't rush your confession, and don't give up unless you think you should. Getting over someone can be incredibly hard too, but you're either going to get over her, or confess to her. When the time is right, confess. When the time never seems to come, I'm sorry, but unfortunately, I think it's best if you get over her, because you have to be 100% sure before you confess to someone. You're risking your friendship to, so think if it's really worth it.  I hope I helped you. :) 
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vwala_12
vwala_12 posted in Friends:
I guess I mean I have been in a lot of drama since the school year started I also recommend if the bullying gets worst tell someone and don’t just walk away it will be worst if you do and if there gonna beat you up just run and tell a teacher or tell your parent so always keep alert!
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SnowAngel15
SnowAngel15 posted in Friends:
Monday-Friday, I have to deal with this girl, now none of you know me, so you can't really say I don't do this, but I'll just say it anyway, I don't like being mean, and I HATE talking bad about people I rarely ever do it, but this is just something I can't even fathom. Two of my best friends just got hurt because of her. You'd think that being in an ONLINE SCHOOL this would never happen but it did and it did not go well. I'm a straight A student, I'm a sophomore and I take both 10th grade and 11th grade courses, I'm also doing Advanced Honors and next year I hope to be able to do college courses AND high school courses, anyway. This girl joined our school last year she acts cool like she does all this stuff and every guy falls for it but I've thrown little tests here and there and she's even admitted to me that most of the things she claims to do are lies. She always bullies my friends and I get involved but then my other classmates try to say "You're being mean to her leave her alone!" I of course don't care if she's mean to me but my friends are off limits. So then she starts asking me for help with her school because  I help other students in my free time she was refusing to listen and didn't do well on the quiz and she tells me "I THOUGHT you were supposed to help!?" So she kept asking me for help now I love my teachers and respect them she asked one of them to come into the room because she refused to listen to me, and I was polite and nice like usual and she said "You sure do like your teachers." I called her on it and she was shocked I did. Then I was helping two of my best friends. They are friends with her but I don't get involved, now this girl let's call her Maggie likes the guy let's call him John. John liked her and told me to tell Maggie and I did they were about to get together when this girl the bully begged him to date her instead. He said yes, now this bully has a new boyfriend every other week, and he started being mean to Maggie after he started dating the bully. She just dumped him when he tried to come back into Maggie's life I started snapping him out and being very crude towards him. Is what I did right?
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