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Dear Dish-It, He Dumped Me Right Out of the Blue

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Dear Dish-It,

Okay, so I have this ex-boyfriend and he dumped me right out of the blue when I got back from a trip. No reason or anything. And right after that, he got this new girlfriend. Well, ever since they started going out, he's was hella mean to me. Then, they broke up a few weeks ago. Now he's nice to me and flirts like he wants to go back out! I would, but I have no idea what I should do! HELP!!
FoxyRoxyChick72


Dear FoxyRoxyChick72,

I know what you gotta do girl. You gotta stay clear of that boy. Show him the palm of your hand! You shouldn't even need to ask me 'bout this one. I mean the boy dumped ya and dissed ya. He was even hella mean. He's shown ya his true colors, so blow 'em off. He's not deservin' of your sweet attention girl!


Dear Dish-It,

The first thing you have to do to get a boy's attention is Walk-the-Walk! Then wear some leather pants with any hot shirt. If you think these tips don't work, do these two things - drop your pencil when he's walkin' by and/or invite him to a study party and make all his faves. That's all you need to do to get a boy.
SWEETY1991


Dear SWEETY1991,

Legally Blonde


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    american_brit

    american_brit wrote:

    Oh. Okay... ?
    commented: Wed Jun 11, 2014

    blakbutterfly

    blakbutterfly wrote:

    I totally disagree with the last part. WHAAAAAAAT?
    commented: Wed Jun 11, 2014

    Keekeow

    Keekeow wrote:

    Lol! That last one had me giggling!
    commented: Wed Jun 11, 2014

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