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Dear Dish-It, He Dumped Me Right Out of the Blue

Dear Dish-It,

Okay, so I have this ex-boyfriend and he dumped me right out of the blue when I got back from a trip. No reason or anything. And right after that, he got this new girlfriend. Well, ever since they started going out, he's was hella mean to me. Then, they broke up a few weeks ago. Now he's nice to me and flirts like he wants to go back out! I would, but I have no idea what I should do! HELP!!

Dear FoxyRoxyChick72,

I know what you gotta do girl. You gotta stay clear of that boy. Show him the palm of your hand! You shouldn't even need to ask me 'bout this one. I mean the boy dumped ya and dissed ya. He was even hella mean. He's shown ya his true colors, so blow 'em off. He's not deservin' of your sweet attention girl!

Dear Dish-It,

The first thing you have to do to get a boy's attention is Walk-the-Walk! Then wear some leather pants with any hot shirt. If you think these tips don't work, do these two things - drop your pencil when he's walkin' by and/or invite him to a study party and make all his faves. That's all you need to do to get a boy.

Dear SWEETY1991,

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    Kirsteeeeen posted in Friends:
    Maybe he likes you, as a friend or as more.
    reply about 5 hours
    Kirsteeeeen posted in Friends:
    Friends grow apart as we grow up and change at different rates. It's fine to stop being friends, but it doesn't have to be in a mean way. The best thing to do is talk to her (nicely). You don't have to tell her she's being childish or you feel as if you've matured more. That would be terrible. Talk about things you guys like to do in common or make plans to try new things together. Or don't mention it at all, but don't just begin ignoring her. Eventually the friendship will fade the less time you spend together. 
    reply about 7 hours
    Amalegend20 posted in Friends:
    You should be nice to her. If you have to break the news gently don't make her feel bad just talk to her about and see what she says  
    reply about 21 hours
    hugebear posted in Friends:
    My bff and I were best friends but weve grown apart im getting older and she still wants to do kid stuff I have new friends now I feel like im being mean to her but like doesn't she get the memo I feel both guilty and mad:} Gosh.... put the shoe on  the other foot and see how would you feel if your bff done this on you. You has been bffs for the long time [Im guessing] and your maturing faster than her.  I agrees you are being mean to her if you doesnt discuss how your feeling with her and ignoring / avoiding her or whatever your doing.    She has been the good friend to you and she deserves to understand if you is growing up faster than her.  I really feels sad for how she could be feeling right now. She didnt do anything wrong.  You changed. Not her. Please be nice to your friend/ex friend and let her down gently [if you really has to] ^^ Me opinion  
    reply 1 day
    Desiixx posted in Friends:
    Don't worry about it. Friends grow apart. That's how things go. Just talk to her about it, she'll understand. 
    reply 1 day

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