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Dear Dish-It, He Dumped Me Right Out of the Blue

Dear Dish-It,

Okay, so I have this ex-boyfriend and he dumped me right out of the blue when I got back from a trip. No reason or anything. And right after that, he got this new girlfriend. Well, ever since they started going out, he's was hella mean to me. Then, they broke up a few weeks ago. Now he's nice to me and flirts like he wants to go back out! I would, but I have no idea what I should do! HELP!!
FoxyRoxyChick72


Dear FoxyRoxyChick72,

I know what you gotta do girl. You gotta stay clear of that boy. Show him the palm of your hand! You shouldn't even need to ask me 'bout this one. I mean the boy dumped ya and dissed ya. He was even hella mean. He's shown ya his true colors, so blow 'em off. He's not deservin' of your sweet attention girl!


Dear Dish-It,

The first thing you have to do to get a boy's attention is Walk-the-Walk! Then wear some leather pants with any hot shirt. If you think these tips don't work, do these two things - drop your pencil when he's walkin' by and/or invite him to a study party and make all his faves. That's all you need to do to get a boy.
SWEETY1991


Dear SWEETY1991,

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    electricatheist
    If you're willing to face the consequences, then yes. I know a lot of people say violence is never the answer, but in truth it sometimes is. If you really want somebody to leave you alone, then fight. If you win, it shows that you're dominant over that person and hopefully he/she will leave you alone.
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    DisneyanimeLover
    Lovely advice. Than you. I found this quite helpful.
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    donteatcarrots
    donteatcarrots posted in Friends:
    Honestly, I think it's better to get your feelings out sooner rather than later- maybe ask him why he's being mean to you... Though, don't say it in such a way that annoys boys... If you know what I mean.
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    donteatcarrots
    donteatcarrots posted in Friends:
    Hello. Just call me Carrots if you don't know me already. :p Anyway, I'm hoping I'll be able to make a little forum post on making friends and making sure the friendships last. ^-^ ••• I hope this helps. ••• Making friends// Making friends can be dauntless, especially if you moved schools or to a different place which is simply far away from your old friends. I mean, it's fine to keep in contact with your old friends ##-####, text, letters etc), but you do have to consider it'll be better if you can make more friends at your new location- seriously, it'll help! How to make friends// • Get talking with people- join in people's conversations; try to be a little more social- it'll be easier to make friends if you're social around people. • Have a look around- are there any clubs or events that catch your interest- maybe a drama class or art club? If you join these type of things, you're more likely to meet people who have similar interests to you. :3 • Do act yourself. That means not to be so loud that people take you in the wrong way- but don't be too quiet either- otherwise people won't notice you! • Pay attention to people when they're speaking- they'll appreciate it if you just listen to what they say and you can have your say too! • Hang out with one or two people that you already know- who knows, you might be introduced to their friends too. • Do make an effort! c: [posting more tomorrow- I'm sorry that this is absolutely terrible]
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    CloudNineGirl
    CloudNineGirl posted in Friends:
    Aw, so cute! :)
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