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Dear Dish-It, He Dumped Me Right Out of the Blue

Dear Dish-It,

Okay, so I have this ex-boyfriend and he dumped me right out of the blue when I got back from a trip. No reason or anything. And right after that, he got this new girlfriend. Well, ever since they started going out, he's was hella mean to me. Then, they broke up a few weeks ago. Now he's nice to me and flirts like he wants to go back out! I would, but I have no idea what I should do! HELP!!
FoxyRoxyChick72


Dear FoxyRoxyChick72,

I know what you gotta do girl. You gotta stay clear of that boy. Show him the palm of your hand! You shouldn't even need to ask me 'bout this one. I mean the boy dumped ya and dissed ya. He was even hella mean. He's shown ya his true colors, so blow 'em off. He's not deservin' of your sweet attention girl!


Dear Dish-It,

The first thing you have to do to get a boy's attention is Walk-the-Walk! Then wear some leather pants with any hot shirt. If you think these tips don't work, do these two things - drop your pencil when he's walkin' by and/or invite him to a study party and make all his faves. That's all you need to do to get a boy.
SWEETY1991


Dear SWEETY1991,

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    moongemowl
    moongemowl posted in Friends:
    Okay, I've NEVER posted anything about my friends before, so bear with me. I've known that me and my BFF have the same crush since we met in 5th grade. But it always seems that my BFF is closer to him than I'll ever be. They went to 2 school dances together while I'm still in the friend zone with my crush. I pretend to not care but I really do care. I've never been in this situation before and don't know what to do about it. Should I tell my BFF how I feel or wait this whole thing out? Or even forget my crush being my crush and find a new crush? HELP!!!!!   :love :confused
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    jordand08
    Maybe that's the only line that needs to be said? You don't have to write down a whole paragraph explaining about how you feel. Sometimes, one word or one sentence can be enough. :p but I don't know. Maybe I have no clue what I'm talking about. :p
    reply about 1 hour
    jordand08
    You'll have to remember, your parents love you, with that being said. If you feel like you can talk to them and they're reasonable, go ahead. But if you feel like waiting it's up to you. I think your family will support you, because they do love you. Maybe they'll be upset at first, but they'll come around, everyone does eventually. Is there anyone in your family that knows, like a cousin? Maybe you can ask for their opinion if you should tell your parents, and family. However, it's up to you. and remember, your parents care and love you.
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    hugebear
    hugebear posted in Family Issues:
    You doesnt have to come out to your family until your ready and until they is ready too.  If you blurt it out it could be the shock.  You says that you think your Mums side of the family will be more supportive.  Has you got an Aunty or Uncle what you could discuss this with?  An adult member of your family what is most likely supportive  could probably give the best advises on how to tell your family and when and how and prepares you for how they will react. Good luck mate and takes your time :angel
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    Mrawsomegamer
    I think my mothers side of the family would be fine with it. It's my dad's side I'm most concerned about. My dad says some dreadfully terrible remarks about homosexual people. I think I'm not gunna tell him at all. Ever...  Either way. Thanks for the advice!
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