Dear Dish-It, I Want My Ex-Girlfriend Back

Dear Dish-It,

X Girlfriend! Check this - me and her broke up because she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. If she wants a long term relationship or not. Even though we broke up, we still chill together and do (stuff) but I really want her back. I asked her if I was still her one and only man and she said yes. And I also asked her if she wants me in the future - she said "I don't know." So what should I do to get her back or should I even try getting her back.

Dear Peeps,

Dude, bad news. It's time to say good bye to this girl. Hottie or not - she's playin' ya. Even if she doesn't know it, she's still playin' ya. If she can't make up her mind, you're wasting your time. If you guys can remain friends - cool. But if you can't - well, that's just the way it'll have to be. If you stay with this maybe-girlfriend you're goin' come across as needy... And that never looked good on anybody! Don't sell yourself short. I'm sure there's tons of talent in your hood. You just need to open up your eyes and look around. Chill with someone else!

So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .

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    Delancy posted in Friends:
    Calm down. Ignore her. You are YOU, don't let anyone change you. If someone hurts, cry a river and build a bridge over it cx
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    EndlessDream posted in Friends:
    Hmmm....Then she mustn't be necessarily "using" you, if she is not getting something in return ( As far as we know of). However, It does sound like she is being extremely unfair. That just might be how she is. Not exactly loyal to anyone. Well, try to talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. And, if it doesn't work out, then she might not be a great friend to hang around with, and maybe you will find someone else who enjoys your company. I hope this helps, and good luck :)
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    XxIHateMathxX posted in Friends:
    No not really. Like I said, one minute she's all smiley and then she doesn't even look at me. Most of the time I see her with Daniela and Andrea. Today she was asking me if I was going to hang out with her, Daniela, Andrea and Luisa during recess. When I told her that I was 'going to have to think' she was like, "Whatever." and ran off to catch up with the Threesome. Thanks. :)
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    EndlessDream posted in Friends:
    Is she asking you to do things for her? Like help with homework, carry her books and so on?
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