Dear Dish-It, I Want My Ex-Girlfriend Back

Dear Dish-It

Dear Dish-It is here to help with all your hot tops. Be it bullying, sibling rivalry, self-esteem problems, depression or suicide, Dish-It is here for ya. On the fly, she gives great teen dating advice, some deep thoughts on the hot topics like flirting, cheaters, best friends, the straight-up on boys and boyfriends as well as the real deal on girls and girlfriends. Dear Dish-It's got the words to make it work. Need advice on love and life, then just start writin' Dish-It. And now, Dish-It is hanging on the boards, so head on over to see the advice she's dishin' up there!

Dear Dish-It,
X Girlfriend! Check this - me and her broke up because she is confused and doesn't know what she wants. If she wants a long term relationship or not. Even though we broke up, we still chill together and do (stuff) but I really want her back. I asked her if I was still her one and only man and she said yes. And I also asked her if she wants me in the future - she said "I don't know." So what should I do to get her back or should I even try getting her back.
Peeps

Dear Peeps,
Dude, bad news. It's time to say good bye to this girl. Hottie or not - she's playin' ya. Even if she doesn't know it, she's still playin' ya. If she can't make up her mind, you're wasting your time. If you guys can remain friends - cool. But if you can't - well, that's just the way it'll have to be. If you stay with this maybe-girlfriend you're goin' come across as needy... And that never looked good on anybody! Don't sell yourself short. I'm sure there's tons of talent in your hood. You just need to open up your eyes and look around. Chill with someone else!

Dear Dish-It,
I have a girlfriend and she likes me and I like her, but she won't talk to me. When we talk I don't know what to talk about. Like, one time I called her - it was total silence. What should I do?
Cody

Dear Cody,
It's pretty hard to have a relationship with someone when there's no words passing back and forth. Words are key cuz it's all about the communication. And communication is the best part (and sometimes the hardest part of any relationship - friend or gal-pal.) Don't worry, cuz you're not alone... I get a lot of Q's from peeps sayin' the same thing. So here's what ya need to do. Ask yourself why you like this girl. If it's cuz she's a hottie and that's it, you're doomed. Ya need to share things, have stuff in common. So ask her what she likes to do for fun, tell her what you like to do for fun. Do ya have the same teacher? Do you like the same shows? And whatever you do - don't fake it. You gotta be real. Act like yourself, don't pretend to be something you're not. There's no point in havin' g/f crushin' on someone you're not.

Dear Dish-It,
Hey...I know it's rare to find a guy askin' things about girls...most of us are afraid we'll get made fun of and our heads will be bitten off... but that's not the point. Anyway, I'm not sure but I think this girl's got a crush on me. Here's some helpful hints: 1) She makes the class hampster give me kisses on the cheek. 2) She used my head as a resting place for her arm while I was playing chess. 3) I walked over to her and another guy and the guy called me a woman... she told him "don't call my man a woman." 4) The gerbil got into the hampster cage and she was all freakin' out cuz they were attacking each other, so I separated the gerbil and hampster into their rightful cages. Afterwards she took my hand and put it on her chest (in between her breasts - just lettin' ya know so ya don't get the wrong impression,) and asked "is my heart beating?" That's it, perdy much. I need help! PUH-LEASE! P.S. I think she is kewl and fun+hoooooott!
DaManThatCan

Dear DaManThatCan,
Actually, I get a lot of guys askin' Dish for advice. But, DaMan, why are you askin'? I can tell by what you say, that not only are you all over this little hottie, but clearly this girl is all over you. What could be better than a mutual crush?! So go for it already. Hook up with this girl (of course, I mean ask her out... just so ya don't get the wrong impression. LOL) And DaMan, you're a hottie too, so good luck!

So gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' about stuff like teen suicide, depression, sex, low self-esteem, boyfriends, girlfriends, losing old friends, bullying or peer pressure, but are too scared to ask the 'rents? Don't be scared to Dish-It. Just remember, if you hang out in chat with other Kidzworld members who know you by your nick, you might wanna use a secret nick when you write in. That way, no one will ever know it's you. Remember though, Dish-It gets tons of letters a day, so she can't answer 'em all. But keep checkin' the column cuz chances are, she'll be answering something very similar to your question soon. Thanks! Got some words of wisdom you wanna share? We'll dish them up too.

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