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Dear Dish-It, Friends vs. Hotties!

Dear Dish-It,

Okay, I like this boy, right? And he likes me too, but only a little bit. And my friend had this plan, to get the boy to like me a lot, so I went with it. Now me and the boy are close, but my old friend thinks it is a bad idea to go out with him. Now, about a month ago, my old friend was mad at me. Now, yesterday, my old friend called me and said she misses me and all that stuff. But the main reason I am writing to you is to ask should I forgive her after how long she was mean to me and forget about the boy I like? Or don't forgive her and go out with the boy I like?
Confused


Dear Confused,

I'm confused too! I don't see why you can't make nice with your girlfriend and go out with the boy. If your friend's crushin' on your boy, she's gonna have to deal. You spied him first... and the original plottin' was all 'bout gettin' you together with him. That said, try to respect her feelings cuz it's gonna be hard for her to see you with him.


Dear Dish-It,

There is this really cute and fine boy I like, named Kendrick. I love him so much that we just clicked and started kissing. But there's also this other cute and fine boy named Jeremiah that I like and I know he likes me too, but he doesn't want to admit it. I think that he doesn't want everyone to make a big deal about it. Who should I keep?
talisha


Dear talisha,

Who do you have? It doesn't sound like you got any say about hottie number two - Jeremiah. Besides you are already makin' time with hottie number one. So I say, stay focused girl. You'll get a bad rep if ya start playin' two hotties at one time. Not to mention, it's just not cool. As for cool, if things cool off between you and Kendrick then you can check out Jeremiah... but not before ending things properly with your current boy.


Dear Dish-It,

There are these 2 guys that I like very much, but get this - they are best friends!! Well anyway, I asked one of them to get with me and he told me that he couldn't 'cuz his best friend likes me. A few days later he (the one that I asked) told my best friend to tell me not to think that he doesn't like me 'cuz he really, really, likes me! My best friend told me that I should ask his best friend to get with me, but I'm afraid that they might think I'm a Ho cuz I already asked his best friend to get with me. And I'm also afraid that he might tell me no. What should I do?
*Goody2Shoes*


Dear *Goody2Shoes*,

Sorry girl but this is a no-win for ya. Guys tend to watch each other's backs. Right now you look good and you know that the one friend is crushin' back at ya. But it seems clear, he won't make a move as long as his friend likes you. The same goes for the friend. The only way you can play this without lookin' bad is to do nuttin'. Be friends with both of them and see what happens. Eventually one of them might step up to get with you, but it's gotta be on his/their terms. If you ask out the hottie's friend, you're goin' look like you're playin' both of them!


Dear Dish-It,

I like this boy and my friend likes him too. But he likes me and not her. What should I do... go with him or let her be mad at me?
mrs.bow wow


Dear mrs.bow wow,

Listen girl, there's enough Shad for the both of you. (LOL) Okay, seriously, a hottie is never worth tossin' a friendship over. Talk to your girl and let her know how you feel about this guy, but reassure her that she is your friend and that her feelings count. Tell her you really like him and think he likes you too, but that if it's not okay with her, it ain't gonna happen. If your friend is a good friend she will step aside and give you the green light to go for it. But, if you're a good friend you'll hold friendship higher than this, or any other crush, that may be over next week. Remember good friends are hard to find.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    rainbowpoptart
    Yes, purely for the fact that you should not "hate" your sister (or anyone, for that matter).  I'm guessing by "get in trouble for her", you mean she does something wrong and the blame is all put on you? Yeah, little siblings tend to do that a lot. My brother did for the longest time, until my parents found out how much a liar he is. She, hopefully, will grow out of this eventually. Either that, or your parent[s]/guardian[s] will eventually see through her. You lose your friends to her? By this do you mean your friends want to hang out with her and they want you to tag along and you don't? Or do you mean your friends chose your sister over you? If it's the latter, then perhaps you shouldn't have ever referred to those people as friends. You'll find friends who'll prefer you over your sister, I'm sure of it. The only thing I can tell you to do is try to get along with your sister. Every group of siblings has their cats and dogs moment in life, but they grow out of it (most of the time; there are, of course, circumstances where it doesn't work out that way). Please be grateful for your sister, even if you two fight a lot. You never know how much you need something until it's gone.
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    liddielover
    i hate my little sister because i get introuble for her and lose my friends to her.is that wrong?
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    skylar245
    skylar245 posted in Friends:
    "rainbowpoptart" wrote: "skylar245" wrote: Teacher said to wait for the Bus Driver and the counselor, she just talks to me and doesn't tell The Princible Then maybe try telling the principal yourself, and you should also report that the driver, teacher, and counselor haven't done anything to help you. If that fails, tell another trusted adult, like your mother. I'm sure someone you're close to would do their best to get justice. This is a major problem and it's a shame no one's done anything to help. ​No one listens to me anyway but my friends
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    rainbowpoptart
    rainbowpoptart posted in Friends:
    "skylar245" wrote:Teacher said to wait for the Bus Driver and the counselor, she just talks to me and doesn't tell The Princible Then maybe try telling the principal yourself, and you should also report that the driver, teacher, and counselor haven't done anything to help you. If that fails, tell another trusted adult, like your mother. I'm sure someone you're close to would do their best to get justice. This is a major problem and it's a shame no one's done anything to help.
    reply 2 days
    skylar245
    skylar245 posted in Friends:
    "rainbowpoptart" wrote: "skylar245" wrote: My bus driver does NOTHING about it EVEN IF HE SEE'S IT! he only wrote the two girls up but not the girl that hit me Then report them to a teacher or the school counselor. Behaviour like that is not acceptable in the slightest. ​Teacher said to wait for the Bus Driver and the counselor, she just talks to me and doesn't tell The Princible
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