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Dear Dish-It, Friends vs. Hotties!

Dear Dish-It,

Okay, I like this boy, right? And he likes me too, but only a little bit. And my friend had this plan, to get the boy to like me a lot, so I went with it. Now me and the boy are close, but my old friend thinks it is a bad idea to go out with him. Now, about a month ago, my old friend was mad at me. Now, yesterday, my old friend called me and said she misses me and all that stuff. But the main reason I am writing to you is to ask should I forgive her after how long she was mean to me and forget about the boy I like? Or don't forgive her and go out with the boy I like?
Confused


Dear Confused,

I'm confused too! I don't see why you can't make nice with your girlfriend and go out with the boy. If your friend's crushin' on your boy, she's gonna have to deal. You spied him first... and the original plottin' was all 'bout gettin' you together with him. That said, try to respect her feelings cuz it's gonna be hard for her to see you with him.


Dear Dish-It,

There is this really cute and fine boy I like, named Kendrick. I love him so much that we just clicked and started kissing. But there's also this other cute and fine boy named Jeremiah that I like and I know he likes me too, but he doesn't want to admit it. I think that he doesn't want everyone to make a big deal about it. Who should I keep?
talisha


Dear talisha,

Who do you have? It doesn't sound like you got any say about hottie number two - Jeremiah. Besides you are already makin' time with hottie number one. So I say, stay focused girl. You'll get a bad rep if ya start playin' two hotties at one time. Not to mention, it's just not cool. As for cool, if things cool off between you and Kendrick then you can check out Jeremiah... but not before ending things properly with your current boy.


Dear Dish-It,

There are these 2 guys that I like very much, but get this - they are best friends!! Well anyway, I asked one of them to get with me and he told me that he couldn't 'cuz his best friend likes me. A few days later he (the one that I asked) told my best friend to tell me not to think that he doesn't like me 'cuz he really, really, likes me! My best friend told me that I should ask his best friend to get with me, but I'm afraid that they might think I'm a Ho cuz I already asked his best friend to get with me. And I'm also afraid that he might tell me no. What should I do?
*Goody2Shoes*


Dear *Goody2Shoes*,

Sorry girl but this is a no-win for ya. Guys tend to watch each other's backs. Right now you look good and you know that the one friend is crushin' back at ya. But it seems clear, he won't make a move as long as his friend likes you. The same goes for the friend. The only way you can play this without lookin' bad is to do nuttin'. Be friends with both of them and see what happens. Eventually one of them might step up to get with you, but it's gotta be on his/their terms. If you ask out the hottie's friend, you're goin' look like you're playin' both of them!


Dear Dish-It,

I like this boy and my friend likes him too. But he likes me and not her. What should I do... go with him or let her be mad at me?
mrs.bow wow


Dear mrs.bow wow,

Listen girl, there's enough Shad for the both of you. (LOL) Okay, seriously, a hottie is never worth tossin' a friendship over. Talk to your girl and let her know how you feel about this guy, but reassure her that she is your friend and that her feelings count. Tell her you really like him and think he likes you too, but that if it's not okay with her, it ain't gonna happen. If your friend is a good friend she will step aside and give you the green light to go for it. But, if you're a good friend you'll hold friendship higher than this, or any other crush, that may be over next week. Remember good friends are hard to find.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    partydiva01
    partydiva01 posted in Friends:
    Dear dish it, my friend first met eachother on the first day of kindergarten we sat next to one another and we became close. we were BFF's throughout 1st to 2nd grades. then, the second grade teacher realized there were alot of kids in the class. and same w the 3rd grade teacher. so, we had to have a split class. my friend was in the split. I was not. It all seemed like the teachers were doing somthing... weired. all the girls (well, almost there were only 6 girls on one half) were in the split. and all the boys were in regular . AND YOU KNOW WHAT ELSE WAS WEIRED! :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( all the boy BFF's and the girl BFF's were SPLIT. me and my friend,kids named Nia & Georgia, Isaac& Ethan, and more. it was so sad for all of us.2 months later, I got homschooled. 2 years later im back in public with my 4th grade self. everything had changed. a bunch of people were obsessed w\ a girl my age named kassidy. im neighbors w\ kassidy and she is REALLY cool and nice. but the whole I  [s:sm3/1jw1] kassidy crew got mean. if I asked them to play they would say. "If Kassidy is playing I will" or I would want to be parteners with kassidy on something and they would freak out. anyway jasmine NEVER invited my to anything, and I am trying to be nice to her ( ice cream money, homework help, comfort when sad, ect.) And not to mention I invited her to 3 things!!! on the bright side she came to 2 :thumbsup :thumbsup she also embarassed me by saying that she was moving I freaked out  because I cared about her and I would cry all the time. I even held onto her and said sadly, "PLEASE DON'T GO!!  :sad :sad . later i found out that she was not moving, she was going to CA for a vacation. even the teacher was in on it!! :mad :mad anyways, my parents told me that i should just let go of her. But i am not ready. HELP??? :e :e :e :e :e
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    PittsburghPenguinsFanatic
    When I was a child I wanted glasses SOO bad, cuz I wanted to copy my mom and sister. And also, I thought they looked cool. I wear glasses now. I have had them for 2 years and honestly I don't mind them. Although, this year I am gonna pry get contacts for swimming better and stuff like that. But if you don't need glasses I wouldn't recommend wearing them. They're not bad, but trust me after a while you will pry not like them as much. But hey, that's my opinion. If you want to do it I'm not gonna stop you. Do what makes you happy in the long run. And tell your friends that they are non prescription if you don't need them, but still get some.
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    Bratayley_Fan_7
    She is not. I have faced this problem before so I know. You should make a new friend!
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    ValenciaRose
    ValenciaRose posted in Friends:
    I agree I was afraid of that first too. Eventually I just began inviting my friends over and they don't use it/practically obsess over it like I do but they understood why I use kidzworld and not many other forms of social media. 
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    ValenciaRose
    ValenciaRose posted in Friends:
    "btw_sports_rule" wrote:I really like a guy and people think he likes me. I like him but im really scared to tell anyone. I really need help but i don't know who to talk to. I can't talk to parents. They would put me in trouble for falling in love. They believe I can't date until age 20. Aw, well, my advice for you would be to talk to your parents about it. There's no point trying to sneak around like those films and it is better for your mind if you talk to them about it. It can be super difficult I know but if you and your parents get along really well then you guys can talk about it and make it work. On the other hand, if your parents ban you from falling in love as you put it, then I think it's better just to stay as friends with him. 
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