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Dear Dish-It, My Guy Just Dumped Me

Dear Dish-It,

My guy just dumped me a couple of days ago and never told me why. He didn't even do it himself. He had my ex do it. He wouldn't tell me why either. My friend said it was cuz I wouldn't make out with him, but that's a lil' lame cuz he never tried. My other friend said it was cuz he wanted to flirt with other girls. I'm thinkin "what's wrong with me? Why couldn't he just flirt with me?" Please reply.
SweetBaby22


Dear SweetBaby22,

Bein' dumped sucks, but it happens to the best of us. And anyone who says they haven't been dumped - well, just watch them fall when it happens to them. As for the why's of a broken heart, don't ask. It doesn't matter... cuz would ya really wanna hook back up with a boy who treated you like that? I mean he didn't even do it himself! What's his name? Justin Timberlake! Seriously girl, if even one of the reasons given is true, he is totally lame. To answer your question - there is nothin' wrong with you. You're fine! Sometimes a guy is all about the chase and nothin' else. Hmmm, his loss.


Dear Dish-It,

There's this boy at school, named Michael, and I like him very much. The only thing is that my best friend, Nisha, got me with her brother and I really like him too. What do I do?
Jerrry S.


Dear Jerrry S.,

Choose! C'mon girl, I can't make up your mind for ya. Life is full of choices. Make one and then get movin'. Is it bachelor number one or bachelor number two? For what it's worth, choose the boy you know best. If you know more about Michael than you do about Nisha's bro, my vote goes to Michael. But like I said before, you gotta choose girl. C'mon you gotta feel stronger 'bout one of them.


Dear Dish-It,

Do you think you should tell someone you like them?
Snoopdograchel


Dear Snoopdograchel,

It's always okay to tell someone you like them. Spread the sunshine, girl. But the question, I think, you're really askin' is not is it okay but will it work out? Unfortunately, there are no guarantees. Tellin' someone you like them is the highest and best compliment you can give another. It says you're all that, you're da bomb, I like what I see. But instead of bein' flattered, some peeps get all wiggy. They stop talkin' to ya and they avoid ya cuz they don't know how to deal. If ya get that kinda response, they probably don't deserve you or they obviously ain't all that!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    "SatanslilDemon" wrote: Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice??? It's really nice that your mother supports it, that always helps!! I'm glad that your family enjoys his company as well. Being 16 while he's 20 is alright. It's a slight odd age gap. But, I think as long as you both are ready, it's alright. Make sure you're mature and safe with your choices though. Personally, I think you should wait until you're closer to at least, 17. But, as long as you two are smart about what you're doing, it should be alright when it come around to it.
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    "Shygirl15" wrote:I really like this boy in my second period class but i dont know how to tell him because he knows that im transgender do whatever makes you feel comfortable or just wing it and tell him and if he tells you something because you're trans forget about him! He doesn't deserve you. But it's totally okay if you want to play it safe and not go up to him. You do you. :3 
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    "SatanslilDemon" wrote: Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice??? i suggest you wait i mean you are going to be 16 that's way too young to be dating someone who is 4/5 years older than you,no? You can still talk to him when it comes to your anxiety attacks and all of that because I have those too every night so I know how it feels, but maybe you should wait. But at the end of the day it's your decision I'm just here to give advice 
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    SatanslilDemon
    Ok so I have a dilemma. I really, and I mean really like this guy. He's considerate of my mental wellbeing and health, plus he's really funny and sweet. He's respectful, loyal, and his hugs are the best ever(he's like a foot and 4 inches taller than me). the dilemma is, he'stwentyandI'mfifteenturningsixteensoon.... I'm not gonna even ask about dating him until i'm sixteen but I've called him in total anxiety attack crying my eyes out and he calmed me down and made me laugh, and I invited him to come see a choir performance so he spent the day with me... My mom ships us... but I'm a little worried because of the age difference  and experience difference and just, I don't want to miss the chance of being with him because of it. ​  any advice???
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    SmartSunnyShadow
    I feel like that too. My best friend will always hang out with her 'new friends' that I have a really bad opinion about. My friend will treat me rudely all the time and sometimes make fun of me with her friends. But, when I needed her the most in my life, she was there for me, and I told her how I felt. She says that she just wants to hang out with more people and apologized, people can be a little teasy at times.  Also, after seeing each other for a long time, people make new friends and start hanging out with them more, it doesn't mean that she doesn't like you.  This may be different for you, but just tell her about it, she will have to know you feelings at one point.  Hope I helped you. 
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