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Dear Dish-It, Don't Tell Us to Break Up


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl when I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I finally got the GF I wanted and I like her so, so much. She's nice, sweet, understanding - everything a guy could want. But, I never talk to her! When we weren't GF and BF we talked but not now. Don't say break up, it's NOT going to happen! I need advice on how I can get words to come out of my mouth. Please help me!
Alpha(Sniper)


Dear Alpha(Sniper),

Relax! I am not going to tell you to break up. It sounds like you really like this lil' hottie and that she probably really likes you too. The prob here is that sometimes, when you move from buddies to BF and GF, things seem a little strange at first. You knew exactly how to act around her - and what to say to her - when you were just crushin', now what you've gotta realize is nothing much has changed. She's still the same person, you're still the same person and you can still talk about whatever you talked about before you were going out. Remember, it's what you said and did to begin with that got her to like you. So just relax, take a deep breath and be yourself. It sounds lame, but it works. Good luck!


Dear Dish-It,

I dated this guy and I french kissed him. I broke up with him like a month later. It's the end of the school year, he still likes me and he keeps pestering me about me dating his best friend. I keep telling him no and to go away but he won't. I like being single but the guy I like likes me and this other girl who is very flashy. She shows everything and none of the guys like her but she thinks he likes her but he doesn't! He likes me, which makes her jealous and she tries to make me look bad. Now she is trying to get my ex-boyfriend to go out with me so she can go out with the guy I like. What should I do to get her away from me and to snag the guy I like? How can I get him to like me even more than now? Write soon!!!
DGYDiva


Dear DGYDiva,

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    Dear Dish-It In The Forums

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    drowning posted in Friends:
    "NS12" wrote: I meet this guy at a festival and we have been talking for the whole week and my mum has noticed I keep texting someone and I know I need to tell her but I don t know how I am going to tell her, I doubt she ll get angry or anything but he lives about 4/5 hours away from me. I know I need to tell her as I don t like keeping secrets from her. I know this was a bit ago, but I truly hope that you were able to be open with your mother. If you feel as if they won't get mad at you, then chances are that your guardian will not. Honesty is the best policy, and if you feel guilt keeping a secret, then it is one you probably shouldn't be keeping.
    reply about 12 hours
    drowning
    I agree with @rainbowpoptart. You really shouldn't worry about relationships that much given your age. I promise, they're better things to worry about than boys and more secure romances occur later on in life anyways. But, given the situation, you shouldn't worry about either. The boy is unfaithful and so is your friend. If your best friend really valued your friendship, she would not have put it in a position that could end it. Don't waste your time on those who will not put you first just as you do for them; better people will come into your life and they are the ones who you should really worry about.
    reply about 12 hours
    rainbowpoptart
    There's a Dear Dish-It section for questions like this. (: But to answer it anyway: BREAK UP WITH HIM! Stop being friends with who he cheated on you with. Move on and find someone better for you. Don't let it ruin your life. Neither of them are worth your time, there are much better people out there. Because you're only 10, though, I would definitely advise not focusing too much on any more romantic relationships. Work on preparing for your future; boyfriends can wait a while.
    reply 1 day
    Pinklilylane
    So my Bf cheated on me for my bff. Know they won't even talk to me. I don't know what to do. Can you tell me what to do?
    reply 2 days
    PitbullLover777
    You should definitely tell your mom - gently, and slowly - be honest - and everything will be ok
    reply 4 days