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Dear Dish-It, Don't Tell Us to Break Up


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl when I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I finally got the GF I wanted and I like her so, so much. She's nice, sweet, understanding - everything a guy could want. But, I never talk to her! When we weren't GF and BF we talked but not now. Don't say break up, it's NOT going to happen! I need advice on how I can get words to come out of my mouth. Please help me!
Alpha(Sniper)


Dear Alpha(Sniper),

Relax! I am not going to tell you to break up. It sounds like you really like this lil' hottie and that she probably really likes you too. The prob here is that sometimes, when you move from buddies to BF and GF, things seem a little strange at first. You knew exactly how to act around her - and what to say to her - when you were just crushin', now what you've gotta realize is nothing much has changed. She's still the same person, you're still the same person and you can still talk about whatever you talked about before you were going out. Remember, it's what you said and did to begin with that got her to like you. So just relax, take a deep breath and be yourself. It sounds lame, but it works. Good luck!


Dear Dish-It,

I dated this guy and I french kissed him. I broke up with him like a month later. It's the end of the school year, he still likes me and he keeps pestering me about me dating his best friend. I keep telling him no and to go away but he won't. I like being single but the guy I like likes me and this other girl who is very flashy. She shows everything and none of the guys like her but she thinks he likes her but he doesn't! He likes me, which makes her jealous and she tries to make me look bad. Now she is trying to get my ex-boyfriend to go out with me so she can go out with the guy I like. What should I do to get her away from me and to snag the guy I like? How can I get him to like me even more than now? Write soon!!!
DGYDiva


Dear DGYDiva,

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    drowning posted in Friends:
    @country_girl19, I agree with Athena. She might not realize how she's making you feel and it's best to talk to her about it, if not it could get worse. If nothing changes after talking with her, then I think you should rethink things. @WatermelonCurlz, I don't really think you should hang around them that much. They don't listen to you or seem to really care about the fact that you've talked about getting different friends. I'm not saying to just cut them off all together, but I wouldn't stray from the idea of slowly distancing yourself.
    reply about 12 hours
    JazzyRox
    JazzyRox posted in Friends:
    "WatermelonCurlz" wrote:OMG! OK so, I have a group to 3 friends (not including me) and they love this video game that I'm not allowed to play. And they know that, so they talk about it purposely around me. Omg, ikr.When I ask to talk about something else the ignore me. So I say, I'm going to go find real friends, and they say, OK, like me care. And that's all they want to talk about, at recess, lunch, secretly in class, you name it thye do it. How do I get them to stop?   You should probably just stop talking to them and stuff. don't sit by them at lunch and don't hang out with them at recess. they sound like they are not good friends. if it gets worse, just tell your parents if they don't already know. idk how good i am at advise. hope this helped.  ~JazzyRox
    reply about 12 hours
    WatermelonCurlz
    OMG!OK so, I have a group to 3 friends (not including me) and they love this video game that I'm not allowed to play. And they know that, so they talk about it purposely around me. Omg, ikr.When I ask to talk about something else the ignore me. So I say, I'm going to go find real friends, and they say, OK, like me care. And that's all they want to talk about, at recess, lunch, secretly in class, you name it thye do it. How do I get them to stop?
    reply about 13 hours
    Abbergrl
    Well I strongly agree with you all. It's like, wow I never knew so many people had this problem!
    reply 2 days
    Abbergrl
    Abbergrl posted in Friends:
    A perfect friend is one who respects your feelings and doesn't make fun of them but helps you feel better, who can drive you only slightly insane, and who will try to save you from embarrassing situations by making you see the funny side. :) :D
    reply 2 days