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Dear Dish-It, I Have No Self-Esteem

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Dear Dish-It,

I have no self-esteem. I don't dance at dances. I can't talk to guys, even if they're not cute. I won't wear shirts that say Hottie or nothin' like that!
JustinLvr02


Dear JustinLvr02,

You need to take it easy on yourself. First, start giving yourself credit for things. If someone gives you a compliment - listen to it, don't blow it off. And start complimenting yourself. Tell yourself, "I look great today" or "I really aced that exam. Good for me!" Also, concentrate on the sports, hobbies or activities you are good at and enjoy. All of that should help build your self-esteem. The fact that you can't talk to guys - even if they aren't cute - just means you're shy. It's not a horrible thing, some guys even think it's cute. Take your time, eventually it'll become easier to talk to 'em. And as for not wearing shirts that say "Hottie" on 'em... that's just good fashion sense, girl! If you're really concerned with your style, why not swing by Style Street for some tips on what's hot this year? Sounds like you're just a little unsure of who you are right now, but that's something that everyone goes through. Just remember, believing in yourself helps others to believe in you too.


So, ya got a burnin' question? Need some love direction? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex, how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to Dish-It here. Send all of your questions to deardish@kidzworld.com. But remember, if ya hang out in Chat with other Kidzworld members who know ya by your "username," ya might wanna use a secret nickname when ya write in. That way no one will ever know it's you. And, just in case ya don't know, Dish-It gets a lotta letters every day, and she can't answer 'em all. So keep checkin' the column cuz she's prob'ly answerin' somethin' very similar to your question while you're out doin' somethin' else. K? And thanks! Ya keep her outta trouble! Oh! And if ya got words of wisdom you wanna share, we'll dish 'em up, too.


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american_brit

american_brit wrote:

If that means you have no-self esteem I'm right there with you :P -but! I don't think i...
commented: Tue Jul 01, 2014

polkadotsrule

polkadotsrule wrote:

i don`t i`m scared
commented: Sat Jan 11, 2014

AyeeItsJuan

AyeeItsJuan wrote:

juss go up to em and talk to em as a friend and if you like them then juss tell them bu...
commented: Sat Jan 11, 2014

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"happyfrizzl12" wrote:Dear supernaturalblackcat I know its not nice that people don't get you but its PERFECTLY ok. Don't listen to the haters. I know its hard hun. Don't respond to them they are just looking for a reaction, they are hoping that one day you'll blow up. But just smile at them and say OK. I know it hurts and I know it makes you feel bad about yourself. I have been through a similar experience. But do you know what?... You're better than them... ALL of them put together you always will be. You're stronger than you know... stronger than all the avengers put together. (Love this) Don't listen to the hurtful words. You're not fat or ugly. You're perfect just the way you are, and you do have friends... You have all of us. We are only a keyboard away. I know this isn't  advice it was praise and motivation. Motivation to keep going. Xxx  That was perfect. Great response ^-^  
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happyfrizzl12 posted in Friends:
Dear supernaturalblackcat  I know its not nice that people don't get you but its PERFECTLY ok. Don't listen to the haters. I know its hard hun. Don't respond to them thy are just looking for a reaction, they are hoping that one day you'll blow up. But just smile at them and say OK. I know it hurts and I know it makes you feel bad about yourself. I have been through a similar experience. But do you know what?... You're better than them... ALL of them put together you always will be. You're stronger than you know... stronger than all the avengers put together. Don't listen to the hurtful words. You're not fat or ugly. You're perfect just the way you are, and you do have friends... You have all of us. We are only a keyboard away. I know this isn't  advice it was praise and motivation. Motivation to keep going. Xxx 
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