Dear Dish-It: What is Love?

Dear Dish-it,

Love? Is that a real thing, or not? I looked it up in the dictionary, and there was nothing!


Dear Shay,

Love is probably something you’ll spend years trying to define – unfortunately, it’s not as easy as looking it up in the dictionary!

In fact, you may find yourself feeling like you’re “in love” several times in your own life – and, each time, it may feel slightly different to you. What I’m saying is that, at the end of the day, love means different things to different people at different stages of their lives, and it’s generally a wonderful thing as long as you learn to keep your balance and not fall “head over heels” into it. Remember – love is supposed to feel good. When you find it, try to savor that good feeling rather than worrying about labeling it or trying to define it somehow.

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Delancy posted in Friends:
Calm down. Ignore her. You are YOU, don't let anyone change you. If someone hurts, cry a river and build a bridge over it cx
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hello dish-it i hope i not bothering rita im 16 year old and i have autism.i get bullyed a lot. this has been happening online.this girl said that i was crazy and that freddie mercury (queen lead singer) wouldnt love me cause i have autism.i am queen and freddie mercury's #1 fan.the girl said no body would believe me and it made me so upset i had a autistic meltdown.what do i do,please help.  
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EndlessDream posted in Friends:
Hmmm....Then she mustn't be necessarily "using" you, if she is not getting something in return ( As far as we know of). However, It does sound like she is being extremely unfair. That just might be how she is. Not exactly loyal to anyone. Well, try to talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. And, if it doesn't work out, then she might not be a great friend to hang around with, and maybe you will find someone else who enjoys your company. I hope this helps, and good luck :)
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XxIHateMathxX posted in Friends:
No not really. Like I said, one minute she's all smiley and then she doesn't even look at me. Most of the time I see her with Daniela and Andrea. Today she was asking me if I was going to hang out with her, Daniela, Andrea and Luisa during recess. When I told her that I was 'going to have to think' she was like, "Whatever." and ran off to catch up with the Threesome. Thanks. :)
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EndlessDream posted in Friends:
Is she asking you to do things for her? Like help with homework, carry her books and so on?
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