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Dear Dish-It, I'm Going to Be All Alone (pg. 2)

Advice for teens about flirting, crushes, dating and romance.
Advice About Flirting And Crushes

Dear Dish-It,

This guy flirts with me a lot but I resist. Not because I don't like him or anything, but I want to be more to him than just a girl he flirts with, ya know? I think I'm starting to like him, so it hurts when I know I can only get him to flirt with me, but not be my boyfriend. I know he flirts with other girls too. So, should I flirt with him and hope he starts liking me? Or move on?
araisin4444


Dear araisin,

It's time for you to move on, sister! You don't want to wait around, batting your eyelashes in hopes that this dude will hurry up and notice you. If this guy is strutting his stuff, flirting with every girl who walks by, do you really want him as your BF, anyway? Don't think you have to ditch him as your friend but I'd definitely be looking for a new cutie to crush on. It's time to find a hottie whose attention will be focused on the only girl that really matters - you!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    naty211

    naty211 wrote:

    lol don't worry it will get better
    commented: Thu Nov 14, 2013

    lady_98

    lady_98 wrote:

    i am in same situation gurl....i think u shud stop thinking about this if he also flirt...
    commented: Wed Feb 02, 2011

    YourLittleSecret
    Trust me, I've been in the same situation. I really thought he liked me, because he'd f...
    commented: Sun Dec 19, 2010

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    tastycupcakes
    tastycupcakes posted in Friends:
    Well, my advice is to talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel about the matter. If she does not want to stop bullying the other girls that you are friends with, break off the friendship. I hope this helped with your problem!
    reply about 3 hours
    draaculagirl
    draaculagirl posted in Friends:
    ok so i have this friend but she is mean to other girls and she does not like it if i am friends with other girls. i have been friends with her since third grade. and every one has some goodness in them. i just don't know what to do please help
    reply about 6 hours
    InternetOwl
    InternetOwl posted in Friends:
    Well, I hope you're not friends with her whilst she's doing that.  You should confront her about it, tell her how's she's been acting and how you hate it. If it comes down to it tell an adult or someone you trust and see if they can help you. If it never gets better you should try moving on and ignoring her. It's not the best advice, but there's not a lot you can do.
    reply about 8 hours
    InternetOwl
    InternetOwl posted in Style:
    Tbh, if she says they're too short or too tight, she's probably not going to change her mind on that. However, there are tonnes of clothes out there that are really cute without being tight or short. Like jumpers, for one. If you really do need new clothes, you should try and persuade her by telling her about your old clothes, like if they don't fit any more or if you don't have many left. Start small though, just by asking for new clothes that aren't too tight (there are loads of T-shirts and stuff out there) and slowly ask for bigger things like tighter clothes or jewellery.  Though some parents just don't like their kids wearing things like make-up or clothes that are too short, because they often feel the kid is too young to be wearing things that show a lot (which some kids often are). And, I don't think you can change their minds about that, as cool as it would seem. 
    reply about 8 hours
    draaculagirl
    draaculagirl posted in Friends:
    ok and tell her that my dance is beatiful. that i am beutiful. and if you don't like it than you can just leave.  if she was truely your bff she would not bully you like this
    reply about 9 hours

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