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Dear Dish-It, I Asked Him Out and He Said No

Dear Dish-It,

I asked this guy out who is really hot, but he said no. Then I asked him what was wrong with me and he said nothing was wrong with me. He doesn't even have a girlfriend. What should I do? You're the only one who can help me.
meme2002


Dear meme2002,

Just because a guy (or girl) is single doesn't mean he's sitting around waiting to go out with the first person who asks him. This guy you're crushing on is probably perfectly happy being single right now and just doesn't want to be in a relationship. Don't be hard on yourself or beat yourself up over this cuz it's really not about you. He's just a guy who prefers to be on his own. So give him space and hang out as friends. If he ever wants a girlfriend, he'll know where to look. And who knows, you could even end up finding yourself another hottie to crush on who won't be able to resist your confident and assertive ways!


Good advice, but everybody gets rejected sometimes. It's a part of life.
Username: Anonymous


Look, if he said no, that just means he doesn't like you. No biggie. He probably has his eye on someone else. Look for someone else.
Username: Anonymous


You should get to know each other. Then he will see how great you are!
Username: Anonymous


I say just keep trying or just move on.
Username: Anonymous


You should talk to him.
Username: Anonymous


I wish I could help, sorry. I'm going through the same thing though, so don't feel bad.
Username: Anonymous


Just move on. I'm single for the first time in a long time and trying to enjoy it. Maybe he is too. Maybe he also just looks at you as a friend, nothing else. Just go find another hottie lol =)
Username: Anonymous


Girl, don't worry. I asked a guy out and he said no too. But guess what? An hour later, another cute and sexy guy asked me out. Lucky thing Cory said no.
Username: Anonymous


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    drowning posted in Friends:
    "NS12" wrote: I meet this guy at a festival and we have been talking for the whole week and my mum has noticed I keep texting someone and I know I need to tell her but I don t know how I am going to tell her, I doubt she ll get angry or anything but he lives about 4/5 hours away from me. I know I need to tell her as I don t like keeping secrets from her. I know this was a bit ago, but I truly hope that you were able to be open with your mother. If you feel as if they won't get mad at you, then chances are that your guardian will not. Honesty is the best policy, and if you feel guilt keeping a secret, then it is one you probably shouldn't be keeping.
    reply about 12 hours
    drowning
    I agree with @rainbowpoptart. You really shouldn't worry about relationships that much given your age. I promise, they're better things to worry about than boys and more secure romances occur later on in life anyways. But, given the situation, you shouldn't worry about either. The boy is unfaithful and so is your friend. If your best friend really valued your friendship, she would not have put it in a position that could end it. Don't waste your time on those who will not put you first just as you do for them; better people will come into your life and they are the ones who you should really worry about.
    reply about 12 hours
    rainbowpoptart
    There's a Dear Dish-It section for questions like this. (: But to answer it anyway: BREAK UP WITH HIM! Stop being friends with who he cheated on you with. Move on and find someone better for you. Don't let it ruin your life. Neither of them are worth your time, there are much better people out there. Because you're only 10, though, I would definitely advise not focusing too much on any more romantic relationships. Work on preparing for your future; boyfriends can wait a while.
    reply 1 day
    Pinklilylane
    So my Bf cheated on me for my bff. Know they won't even talk to me. I don't know what to do. Can you tell me what to do?
    reply 2 days
    PitbullLover777
    You should definitely tell your mom - gently, and slowly - be honest - and everything will be ok
    reply 4 days