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Crazy, Beautiful and in Rehab

You would have to live under a rock not to know that A.J. of the Backstreet Boys was in rehab. Supermodel Nikki Taylor was addicted to pain pills. And Robert Downey Jr. just got sentenced to one year in rehab. Yup... I guess the pressure of fame and fortune can be tuff.

Rehab stands for rehabilitation. Go look it up in your dictionary. In A.J's case, he needs treatment for some sort of substance use and abuse. And you know what, he's not alone. Substance use costs our country billions of dollars in lost income, school dropouts and health problems - you name it, it's bad news.

Being stressed or depressed like A.J. can make people try to find some answers in a bottle or from drugs. Obviously it doesn't work. When you are down and out and use drugs or alcohol, you usually just end up more down and out.

The fact is that everyone gets stressed about something at some point. Day to day living is not easy. A lot of people imagine that if they were rich and famous, all of their problems would disappear. Look at A.J. He still has problems.

It doesn't take money to be happy. It doesn't take bling-blings. It doesn't take being on the cover of teen people.

You know what it takes? It takes courage. It takes responsibility. It takes faith. Let me give you an example. I recently read about a young man who had a horrible childhood. He saw his brother killed by his father and mother. He, himself, was the victim of child abuse. Later, he had to testify against his parents, which he did successfully. He grew up in foster care. But through it all he had courage.

People who know him said that he always had a smile on his face. He admitted that his life was tough and unfair, but he was always going to work as hard as he could. He recently graduated from high school with that smile. When asked how he could still smile after all that he had been through. He said, "I am an example. If I can make it and face every day, anyone can."

So think about him. When the going gets tough, remember you can do it. Better yet, you can do it without alcohol or drugs. If you need to talk to someone, do it. Try not to feel like it's only you. Everyone has some bad days. Have faith in yourself and you will find a way that's beautiful.

If you or someone you know is suffering from drug addiction, consider looking into drug rehabs for teens and other sites like this offer intervention services.

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astucieuse331 posted in Friends:
I've always felt the same way. My one best friend gossiped behind my back, used me, all that girl stuff. She took me for advantage and we had a bunch of fights because of her finding a new friend and completely acting as if I didn't exist, and I told her to give me at least some attention every once in a while if she can't even continue to talk to me daily. And.. I lost her. Well, she lost me. We both lost each other. But then I realized.. it's the people that you least expect to be nice to you you'll find kindness in. Why? Based on personal experience, and I'll tell you the story: For my gym class, me and my peers were supposed to make a group for a dance. This was when my best friend had found a new friend already, and the time at which we had a few fights because of that. Of course, I relied on my best friend to count me in her dance group. At lunchtime, I sat together with my best friend, and we ate our lunches in silence. All of a sudden, I brought up the dance groups and asked her straightforwardly: "Can I join your group?" No reply. "Kelly, can I join your group?" No reply. "I mean, since our class is uneven, I found it fair that there'd be a group of five, you know?" None at all. Kelly ignored me straight off the bat, leaving me speechless. My mind raced with thoughts, and I thought, maybe it's not worth having Kelly as a friend. A few days later, we were playing Dodgeball for gym. I was on Kelly's team, and overheard her talking with her new friends about who to pick for the dance group. One of her friends mentioned me, and Kelly said: "Oh no, we shouldn't pick her because _____ (I don't know what she said then)." I was shocked, but was anticipating it, so when the time came to choose groups, I saw my friend, Luke, ask two girls, Cher and Bridgette, to join their group. Surprisingly, Cher and Bridgette actually accepted him, and so I thought, "Wow, if they accepted Luke, they might accept me aswell!" and so built up the courage to ask them if I could join. Even though Cher and Bridgette were mean to me sometimes, I knew that I had to risk it and see what'd happen. Afterall, rejection is just another opportunity to find a better group. Little did I know, it'd be the best choice of my life. They were so happy, and even thanked me for joining them! I was speechless once more; I never knew that the peers that I thought I would never be friends with would actually be my friends!  So yeah, that's what I learnt, and I never regretted learning that fact. Ever since then, though, I've learnt not to trust people as much as I used to anymore. I learnt that independency is what works for me, what I was meant for in terms of socializing or working. But, other things may work for you. If you still want a friend, you can be independent and wait for the right person. However, if you still want a real friend, you can wait, but still mingle (hang out) with other people! I I'm not going to make fun of you because I know how you've felt, just as I stated in my past problem before. But you can move on from those friends, they're not worth your time and certainly don't deserve you as a friend. Trust me, if it's meant to be, you'll definitely find a true friend. But if it's not, you may become like me, finding happiness in my own way. I want to remind you though-- you don't need someone to stay happy, or keep you company. This may sound silly, but you can even have your own invisible friends! I've had one, but that's very rarely for me. It's not silly though if you see the general idea; usually these friends are made from different dimensions of your personality or just because of will. There's a lot more fish in the sea, though, so I'm sure you'll find a true friend that's meant for you  :) Take care, and I hope you'll find a true friend soon!
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ts01
ts01 posted in Friends:
im so sorry you girls feel that way.true friends are there, its just easier to find users because they are more plentiful. dont give up, you will find real friends eventually
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lolflowergirl
lolflowergirl posted in Friends:
i feel alone too
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kayme123
kayme123 posted in Friends:
i know the feeling. but i got taken off a website instead of my friends. i can assure you they probably feel the same and are missing you, BUT its not worth dwelling over it. friends come and go without any choice in life and trust me, i lost the love of my life and my two of the best friends in the world. The thing is, you have to move on, because they wouldent want you feeling sad over them right? they'd want you to be the happy person you were when you were with them! for starters, i'll be your friend so your not scared to make some new ones. To be honest, i went through the exact same thing as you did and it DOES hurt very bad. But once you find some people that are willing to make you feel better, you know you've chosen the right friends again
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Irene_love
Irene_love posted in Style:
"1.am.3m0" wrote:Hey. Im also turning 15 soon. So dont worry you arent alone hahah. Start dressing for your shape and also find whats comfortable.  Because if you wear something that is uncomfortable you wont be happy and happiness is the best look :) Most of the time I wear jeans with a graphic tshirt or singlet and a cardigan or light jacket. Hoodies are great for winter. And I wear combat boots like doc martins and converse. Hope I helped somehow! :)
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