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Dear Dish-It,

I broke up with my boyfriend. I haven't talked to him in over 6 months. All of a sudden he calls me. I like him still, and he said he likes me, but then he tells me that he still has a girlfriend! Should I tell him how I feel?
T1102J


Dear T1102J,

No way, no how, girl! This boy is playing you. First off, you dropped him. So here's my blush - he's playin' you to get back at you. It's not too mature but even adults go lookin' for revenge when it comes to a broken heart. I know you think you still like him. And it's one thing to realize that you've made a big mistake... to realize that you miss your X. But, HELLO, he has a girlfriend. No matter how you slice it - he is playin' games. You do not need to get back together with Mr. HeadGames! Tell him to stop callin', already.


Dear Dish-It,

(Click here to read R.R.'s Dear Dish-It question.) Last year is last year but (R.R.) should think about now. I mean you could, like... ask your friend nicely to stop liking your X. Or you can get somebody to tell him that you still love him and you really, really, really, want to be with him. Okay, so try that!! Don't let your friend know either... until he says yes! Just come up with really good reasons and write it down on a piece of paper, and then give it to him when you get out of school or something ok!!
Corky


Dear Corky,

Nice job Corky. I'm sure R.R. will check these tips out. I would love to hear from more of you. Hit me back and let me know your take... even if you think I've tanked.


Dear Dish-It,

Hi. I want to know if Peter likes me or if we are just friends. One day he asked me to go to the movies (just as friends.) I have another question - there is this one boy named CJ and he keeps bothering me. Does that mean he likes me or is just playing around.
Thanx, PrincessT


Dear PrincessT,

Hey Princess, I told you I'd answer! Listen girl, it's always hard to know for sure when someone likes you... and it's even harder for me to know, cuz I can only work from what you guys fill me in on. Okay, did your boy Peter say something 'bout just bein' friends? If he didn't and you're just assuming, maybe playin' it safe... then, I'm think he's jonesin' for ya. But if he said anything about being great friends, or just friends, then he's already laid it all out. As for your boy CJ... ask any girl (any age,) when a boy is bugging you all the time, it means he's pulling a Bart "Look at, look at me, I'm Bart." Remember boys have a hard time saying "I like you," so they do strange things instead. But I'm confused, you like either of these boys or do you just livin' for the attention?


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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