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Dear Dish-It, I've Always Thought She Was Hot

Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".

Dear Dish-It,

Well, there is this girl. And she REALLY likes me. She's a pretty good friend too. I always thought she was HOT, but if we go out, won't that wreck our friendship? She asked me out and I was afraid to say no cuz I thought she'd get upset and cry and stuff - and she IS my friend. She's HOT and nice and all that, and I mean HOT! Write!

Dear Ben54,

So this friend of yours, is she HOT? Cuz that's all I really got from your letter. You didn't say anything about why she was a great friend, what you two had in common or really any good reason for the two of you to go out. You just didn't want to hear her cry and you think it would be cool to date her cuz she's HOT. Sorry, that's just not gonna work. Of course you will ruin your friendship if you say yes - you'd be dating her for all the wrong reasons. And that will make her cry a whole lot more than if you are just honest and let her know that you're worried that dating will ruin what you already have. Whether she's HOT or not.

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    Kirsteeeeen posted in Friends:
    Maybe he likes you, as a friend or as more.
    reply about 13 hours
    Kirsteeeeen posted in Friends:
    Friends grow apart as we grow up and change at different rates. It's fine to stop being friends, but it doesn't have to be in a mean way. The best thing to do is talk to her (nicely). You don't have to tell her she's being childish or you feel as if you've matured more. That would be terrible. Talk about things you guys like to do in common or make plans to try new things together. Or don't mention it at all, but don't just begin ignoring her. Eventually the friendship will fade the less time you spend together. 
    reply about 15 hours
    Amalegend20 posted in Friends:
    You should be nice to her. If you have to break the news gently don't make her feel bad just talk to her about and see what she says  
    reply 1 day
    hugebear posted in Friends:
    My bff and I were best friends but weve grown apart im getting older and she still wants to do kid stuff I have new friends now I feel like im being mean to her but like doesn't she get the memo I feel both guilty and mad:} Gosh.... put the shoe on  the other foot and see how would you feel if your bff done this on you. You has been bffs for the long time [Im guessing] and your maturing faster than her.  I agrees you are being mean to her if you doesnt discuss how your feeling with her and ignoring / avoiding her or whatever your doing.    She has been the good friend to you and she deserves to understand if you is growing up faster than her.  I really feels sad for how she could be feeling right now. She didnt do anything wrong.  You changed. Not her. Please be nice to your friend/ex friend and let her down gently [if you really has to] ^^ Me opinion  
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    Desiixx posted in Friends:
    Don't worry about it. Friends grow apart. That's how things go. Just talk to her about it, she'll understand. 
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