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Dear Dish-It, I'm Going Crazy Without a GF

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Dear Dish-It,

I am already 13 and I have never had a girlfriend. I am becoming very desperate and I want a girlfriend cuz all of my friends have one. It pains me and I'm very jealous. I'm going to go crazy if I don't get a GF. Please help me!
bluecro23


Dear bluecro23,

When everyone around you has a GF or BF, and you're the only single one, it can definitely feel pretty horrible. But it doesn't necessarily mean that the solution is to run out and find yourself a GF. Girlfriends, much to the dismay of lonely peeps everywhere, are not sold at the corner store. Starting a relationship can be tricky. Sure, you can go around and ask all the girls in your class, and hope that one of them will say yes, but is that really the best way to meet your perfect girl? I don't think so. Although you feel like you should have a GF right now, the majority of 13 year-olds aren't dating. Believe me - you have a ton of dating years ahead of you. And one day, when you're going through your first real break up, you'll wish you could go back to being 13 when dating was no big deal. Don't try to rush these things, cuz if you do, you're not going to have a really great dating experience anyway. Wait until you meet a super cool girl that you can't stop thinking about, and then ask her out. That day is just around the corner - and when you do meet her, you'll be glad you waited.


Who cares if you have a GF. Even though a lot of people have them. LOL. It's okay because you can go on sites like this and look for poeple your age!
Advice from: zac911


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    pinkypie1

    pinkypie1 wrote:

    Letz be honest
    commented: Thu Apr 24, 2014

    Ilovemiley111

    Ilovemiley111 wrote:

    I want a gf please if you singld give me a friend request and ask me out smile
    commented: Tue Apr 22, 2014

    xxbunnyyyxx

    xxbunnyyyxx wrote:

    Ok good I didn't want you to take it the wrong way
    commented: Mon Apr 21, 2014

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