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Dear Dish-It,

I am already 13 and I have never had a girlfriend. I am becoming very desperate and I want a girlfriend cuz all of my friends have one. It pains me and I'm very jealous. I'm going to go crazy if I don't get a GF. Please help me!
bluecro23


Dear bluecro23,

When everyone around you has a GF or BF, and you're the only single one, it can definitely feel pretty horrible. But it doesn't necessarily mean that the solution is to run out and find yourself a GF. Girlfriends, much to the dismay of lonely peeps everywhere, are not sold at the corner store. Starting a relationship can be tricky. Sure, you can go around and ask all the girls in your class, and hope that one of them will say yes, but is that really the best way to meet your perfect girl? I don't think so. Although you feel like you should have a GF right now, the majority of 13 year-olds aren't dating. Believe me - you have a ton of dating years ahead of you. And one day, when you're going through your first real break up, you'll wish you could go back to being 13 when dating was no big deal. Don't try to rush these things, cuz if you do, you're not going to have a really great dating experience anyway. Wait until you meet a super cool girl that you can't stop thinking about, and then ask her out. That day is just around the corner - and when you do meet her, you'll be glad you waited.


Who cares if you have a GF. Even though a lot of people have them. LOL. It's okay because you can go on sites like this and look for poeple your age!
Advice from: zac911


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    love2468

    love2468 wrote:

    i can be ur gf i am 12 but very loyal and loving xxx i am turning 13 in october xxxxxxx...
    commented: Sat Aug 27, 2011

    dbzgirl11498

    dbzgirl11498 wrote:

    i can be ur gf if u want im hot single and just about turning 14 i have brown hair and ...
    commented: Sun Jul 03, 2011

    lexington180

    lexington180 wrote:

    do u really want a gf or u just want one cuz of ur friends?
    commented: Sat Nov 13, 2010

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