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Dear Dish-It, Will I Ever Have a Chance?


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Dear Dish-It,

I consider myself a nice guy and even though I don't really want a girlfriend, I feel that I am a better person than most guys. A lot of nice girls go out with guys that treat them like dirt and they just seem to go along with it even though they deserve better. My question is - will they ever notice me? Will I ever have a chance?
mrsocks


Dear mrsocks,

You know that saying, "Nice guys always finish last,"? Well, although it's not entirely true, it's also not entirely wrong. When you're in high school, girls and guys are trying desperately to figure out the whole dating thing. Most of the time, peeps end up dating the wrong person, but that's sort of part of the process. I don't know why girls are drawn to jerks - there are probably a million explanations since each situation is unique. One reason girls end up with those unworthy guys is because they're the ones that get out there and ask girls out. You are never going to have a chance with the ladies if you aren't willing to stick your neck out and let that special girl know how you feel. Sound scary? It is. But, there is definitely someone out there for everyone (even Ozzy Osbourne found true love). So, while you may not get the results you are looking for in the love department right away, girls are going to notice you eventually. So hang in there, and just let those other jerks race ahead of you, cuz in the long run, you'll be the one to find true love.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    drowning posted in Friends:
    @country_girl19, I agree with Athena. She might not realize how she's making you feel and it's best to talk to her about it, if not it could get worse. If nothing changes after talking with her, then I think you should rethink things. @WatermelonCurlz, I don't really think you should hang around them that much. They don't listen to you or seem to really care about the fact that you've talked about getting different friends. I'm not saying to just cut them off all together, but I wouldn't stray from the idea of slowly distancing yourself.
    reply about 8 hours
    JazzyRox
    JazzyRox posted in Friends:
    "WatermelonCurlz" wrote:OMG! OK so, I have a group to 3 friends (not including me) and they love this video game that I'm not allowed to play. And they know that, so they talk about it purposely around me. Omg, ikr.When I ask to talk about something else the ignore me. So I say, I'm going to go find real friends, and they say, OK, like me care. And that's all they want to talk about, at recess, lunch, secretly in class, you name it thye do it. How do I get them to stop?   You should probably just stop talking to them and stuff. don't sit by them at lunch and don't hang out with them at recess. they sound like they are not good friends. if it gets worse, just tell your parents if they don't already know. idk how good i am at advise. hope this helped.  ~JazzyRox
    reply about 8 hours
    WatermelonCurlz
    OMG!OK so, I have a group to 3 friends (not including me) and they love this video game that I'm not allowed to play. And they know that, so they talk about it purposely around me. Omg, ikr.When I ask to talk about something else the ignore me. So I say, I'm going to go find real friends, and they say, OK, like me care. And that's all they want to talk about, at recess, lunch, secretly in class, you name it thye do it. How do I get them to stop?
    reply about 9 hours
    Abbergrl
    Well I strongly agree with you all. It's like, wow I never knew so many people had this problem!
    reply 1 day
    Abbergrl
    Abbergrl posted in Friends:
    A perfect friend is one who respects your feelings and doesn't make fun of them but helps you feel better, who can drive you only slightly insane, and who will try to save you from embarrassing situations by making you see the funny side. :) :D
    reply 1 day