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Dear Dish-It, Will I Ever Have a Chance?


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

I consider myself a nice guy and even though I don't really want a girlfriend, I feel that I am a better person than most guys. A lot of nice girls go out with guys that treat them like dirt and they just seem to go along with it even though they deserve better. My question is - will they ever notice me? Will I ever have a chance?
mrsocks


Dear mrsocks,

You know that saying, "Nice guys always finish last,"? Well, although it's not entirely true, it's also not entirely wrong. When you're in high school, girls and guys are trying desperately to figure out the whole dating thing. Most of the time, peeps end up dating the wrong person, but that's sort of part of the process. I don't know why girls are drawn to jerks - there are probably a million explanations since each situation is unique. One reason girls end up with those unworthy guys is because they're the ones that get out there and ask girls out. You are never going to have a chance with the ladies if you aren't willing to stick your neck out and let that special girl know how you feel. Sound scary? It is. But, there is definitely someone out there for everyone (even Ozzy Osbourne found true love). So, while you may not get the results you are looking for in the love department right away, girls are going to notice you eventually. So hang in there, and just let those other jerks race ahead of you, cuz in the long run, you'll be the one to find true love.


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    YamiVelvetSkittles
    Same here
    reply about 3 hours
    dicee
    dicee posted in Family Issues:
    I'm not afraid of them. I'm just afraid when they'll start thinking I'm worthless. But if I had to choose, I guess my mom since I live most of my life with her.
    reply about 4 hours
    raindelaney
    raindelaney posted in Friends:
    hey,  don't feel any pressure to come out because ultimately it is your choice. Come out only if you're ready to and feel as if your parents are ready as well. 
    reply 1 day
    zoomzoomkitty
     [s:sm3/1jvy] [s:sm3/1jw1] This post contains love-related talk. Reader discretion is advised.  [s:sm3/1jw1] [s:sm3/1jvy] If you want to talk about love-related subjects like puberty, kissing, tampons/pads, etc... in the right place. Those things should go in the girls-only/boys-only forum or Dear Dish-it. Note for prepubescent users: Kidzworld allows teenagers and pubescent people, too, so don't be surprised to see posts about things like puberty, kissing, tampons/pads, etc. Note that you are allowed to talk about crushes anywhere on the site, there's no exception, feel free to talk about any fictional, imaginary, or real crush anywhere you please, as long as it's in the right forum (e.g. game crushes in the game forum)!
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    BelarusRussia4ever
    thanks thats good advice 
    reply 2 days