Kw-logo-smaller

Dear Dish-It, I'm Nervous About My First Kiss


Dear Dish-It, is here to whisper "ttyl after I've thought about this some more".


Dear Dish-It,

Ok, I've had a lot of boyfriends, but I have never actually kissed one before. I'm scared that I'll get nervous when it finally does happen. My face gets red when I'm embarrassed and my hands will probably get sweaty and I don't wanna make a fool of myself. But I can never help it. And I'm totally fine with it, but all this stuff just happens... is there anything I can do? Thanks.
ahhhh


Dear ahhhh,

First, take a nice deep breath. There's no reason to stress over something that hasn't happened yet and you don't really know when it's going to happen either. A first kiss is something that you usually don't plan - it just happens at the right time. I know that's a really lame answer, but it's true. If you try and plan something like your first kiss then of course you are going to be nervous and sweaty. But if you just go with the flow and let things take their course, chances are that kiss is going to come when you absolutely least expect it - you won't have time to get embarrassed. And you know what? Even if you are nervous, that's ok. Being a bit nervous is totally natural and we all get those butterflies in our stomach before going in for that big first smooch. Hope this helps!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


Related Stories:

  • Dear Dish-It, I Like My Best Friend

  • Dear Dish-It, I'm Too Old Fashioned

  • Dear Dish-It, My Teacher Kissed Me!

  • More Great Advice from Dear Dish-It!
  • 187 Comments

    latest videos

    F1098406187375

    Have You Had Your First Kiss?

    • I had my first kiss a long time ago.
    • Yeah, I just recently got my first kiss.
    • Nope. Still waiting.
    • I'm not interested in kissing yet.

    related stories

    Dear Dish-It in the forums

    Maleficnet192
    Maleficnet192 posted in Style:
    whenever their parents feel like they are mature enough to wear it
    reply about 1 hour
    Its_skylar1
    Its_skylar1 posted in Style:
    When they start getting acne and hit pub
    reply about 1 hour
    The_Toxic_YOYO
    The_Toxic_YOYO posted in Friends:
    Hate to break it to you :( but those are not real friends... Real friends support you and will be by your side for a very long time . If I was in your shoes I would ask my friend why they are talking behind my back etc.... and if they cant come up with a logical answer then maybe they are not true friends.  
    reply about 2 hours
    The_Toxic_YOYO
    The_Toxic_YOYO posted in Friends:
    Lets be honest that is kind of a sucky situation... But if I was in your shoes I would start out by calling the parents and telling them what is going on.... Then if you can't get ahold of them then I would call the police even if they were just mentioning of doing it. I know at times some people can get mad about someone doing that but they can also get help they need... :( I really hope things get better for your friend...
    reply about 2 hours
    Narwhals3
    Narwhals3 posted in Style:
    I have my Medusa and right nostril pierced plus gauges and a second ear lobe piercing on each ear
    reply about 4 hours

    play online games