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Dear Dish-It, I'm Too Old Fashioned

Dear Dish-It,

There is this guy I like in my reading class and I think he likes me too because my friend and I catch him staring at me all the time. Here's the problem. Neither of us has the courage to approach the other. I think he's shy and I'm old fashioned and like to let the guy ask the girl. I need help ASAP because there is a school dance coming up and I need to know what to do. Please help!

Dear Skatergurl,

It looks like you're gonna have to leave your grandma ways behind and ask this cutie out if you want a date for the dance. Random eye contact from across the room is not an invitation to go out with you. If you sit back and wait for the guy to ask you out, you're gonna be waiting for a long time. So take some deep breaths, walk up to the hottie from your reading class and invite him to the dance. He'll probably say yes and you'll have avoided sitting by the phone waiting for his call!

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    Kirsteeeeen posted in Friends:
    Maybe he likes you, as a friend or as more.
    reply about 13 hours
    Kirsteeeeen posted in Friends:
    Friends grow apart as we grow up and change at different rates. It's fine to stop being friends, but it doesn't have to be in a mean way. The best thing to do is talk to her (nicely). You don't have to tell her she's being childish or you feel as if you've matured more. That would be terrible. Talk about things you guys like to do in common or make plans to try new things together. Or don't mention it at all, but don't just begin ignoring her. Eventually the friendship will fade the less time you spend together. 
    reply about 15 hours
    Amalegend20 posted in Friends:
    You should be nice to her. If you have to break the news gently don't make her feel bad just talk to her about and see what she says  
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    hugebear posted in Friends:
    My bff and I were best friends but weve grown apart im getting older and she still wants to do kid stuff I have new friends now I feel like im being mean to her but like doesn't she get the memo I feel both guilty and mad:} Gosh.... put the shoe on  the other foot and see how would you feel if your bff done this on you. You has been bffs for the long time [Im guessing] and your maturing faster than her.  I agrees you are being mean to her if you doesnt discuss how your feeling with her and ignoring / avoiding her or whatever your doing.    She has been the good friend to you and she deserves to understand if you is growing up faster than her.  I really feels sad for how she could be feeling right now. She didnt do anything wrong.  You changed. Not her. Please be nice to your friend/ex friend and let her down gently [if you really has to] ^^ Me opinion  
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    Desiixx posted in Friends:
    Don't worry about it. Friends grow apart. That's how things go. Just talk to her about it, she'll understand. 
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