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Dear Dish-It, I'm Too Old Fashioned

Dear Dish-It,

There is this guy I like in my reading class and I think he likes me too because my friend and I catch him staring at me all the time. Here's the problem. Neither of us has the courage to approach the other. I think he's shy and I'm old fashioned and like to let the guy ask the girl. I need help ASAP because there is a school dance coming up and I need to know what to do. Please help!
Skatergurl


Dear Skatergurl,

It looks like you're gonna have to leave your grandma ways behind and ask this cutie out if you want a date for the dance. Random eye contact from across the room is not an invitation to go out with you. If you sit back and wait for the guy to ask you out, you're gonna be waiting for a long time. So take some deep breaths, walk up to the hottie from your reading class and invite him to the dance. He'll probably say yes and you'll have avoided sitting by the phone waiting for his call!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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