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Dear Dish-It: My BFFs Forgot My Bday!

Dear Dish-it,


All of my best friends forgot my birthday, should I be worried?


Help95


Dear Help95,


Hmm...that's a tough one. Did your friends know that it was your birthday? Sometimes we think everyone should remember our special days, but the fact is we all need a reminder once in a while. If your friends are busy and you didn't say anything, like "Hey, guys, my birthday is coming up next week. I'd love to have you all over for a party at my house on Saturday to celebrate!" then you can't really blame them for not remembering. I know it seems like it should be easy for BFFs to remember each other's birthdays, but just cause your besties forgot doesn't mean they don't like you anymore...


Be a Birthday Ambassador

If it's REALLY important to you that your friends remember your birthday each and every year, then it's going to be up to you to make that message LOUD and CLEAR! How do you do that? By handing out calendars to your besties that have your birthday circled in red pen? NO! Just the opposite...you have to take the lead in making sure that each and every one of your BFFs' birthdays are as special as can be, so that when your big day rolls around your friends will think, "Oh, she was so nice to us on OUR birthdays, let's do everything we can to make HER day extra special!" Of course, you shouldn't do nice things for people just because you want something in return. You'll see that if you treat other people, like your best friends, the way you want to be treated, they'll likely turn around and do exactly that!


Princess Party Planner

Why do you need your friends to remember you on your birthday anyway? YOU should be YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND and throw yourself the biggest party ever on your special day! Don't be afraid to go all out and (with your mom and dad's help, of course) plan a bash fit for a queen! After all, your birthday only rolls around once a year - might as well spoil yourself (and invite all your friends along for the ride)!


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hugebear
hugebear posted in Friends:
You doesnt have to wonder too much since your best friends with his sister. Ask your friend to ask him does he like you and takes it slowly and good luck :)
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_Monaaa_ posted in Friends:
Matty & Ana.
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shahgee
shahgee posted in Friends:
my best friends are also on kw ..one is nimra and the other one is meena :) :)
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geekynerd
geekynerd posted in Friends:
I have 2 bff's, who aren't on KW. Emi and Viya.
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ultragirlygamer
Im homeschooled so I don't get to meet very many people but we have a homeschool group thing and in it was this guy I liked he always was trying to make me laugh and the first time I wore makeup he said something about it. Me and his sister are like best friends and when I told her I liked him she got really excited and said she thought he might like me but im still not sure. But next year they are not going to be attending the group at that was the only place I ever saw them. We might have a sleepover someday but until then all I can do is wonder
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