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Dear Dish-It,

I met this gorgeous girl at a holiday camp and have seen her for the past three years. I think I am in love with her but I am only 15 and a half. We would be perfect together, but she has a boyfriend and lives in the next county. I can't wait another year to tell her how I feel, and have been crying myself to sleep thinking about her. Her name is Lyndsey and I want her desperately. I love and care about her with all my heart and am all confused. Please help. I am desperate and I am hurting so badly now. It feels like I will be like this forever.
sexy guy


Dear sexy guy,

Dude, it sounds like you've got it bad for this girl! The big question is, does she feel the same way? Since she's already got a BF and you've never told her how you feel, she's probably not pining for you. Then there's the fact that she's close to two years older than ya. For girls in high school, that's a pretty big age difference and not something that can be easily overlooked. If you feel this strongly about this girl, then you should let her know how you feel. Just keep in mind that sometimes you'll fall head over heels for someone who just doesn't return your feelings. It sucks - but eventually you'll move on and meet someone who is as crazy about you as you are about them. Good Luck!


So, ya gotta burnin' question? Need some love directions? Thinkin' 'bout stuff like depression, sex,how ya feel 'bout YOURSELF (that's called "self-esteem"), boyfriends, girlfriends, losin' old friends, bullyin' or peer pressure, but too scared to ask the parents? Don't be scared to .


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    the finder

    the finder wrote:

    seriesly just tell her
    commented: Sun Apr 17, 2011

    the finder

    the finder wrote:

    all my friends that can see this right now chek it out and comment
    commented: Sun Apr 10, 2011

    the finder

    the finder wrote:

    who ever posted this friend me and i mite be able to help
    commented: Thu Apr 07, 2011

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