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How to Deal With A Bully - Part II

Bullying is Whack

Let's pop about the whack guys and girls (you know who you are) who get annoyed, blow their top and try to get even. They bully at home and at school with words, fists and sometimes guns. It is crazy. School should be a place where you can be cool, have fun and get your brain-groove on safely.

Bullies are Weak

Bullies are not strong, they are weak. Why else would they pick on other people to make themselves feel better? Not only that, bullies try to make fun of kids that they think won't fight back. Why?... Keep on reading

Lookin' for Luv in All the Wrong Places

Bullies are lonely. As LL Cool J used to say, "I need love." Bullies want their props; they just want to belong. The only problem is they just don't know how. Bullies may be mean or act a fool just to get attention and try to be in. "Acting a fool" is what gets most bullies in trouble. They don't know when to stop. Cuz y'all know for every action, there is a reaction (physics 101, dude.) People react to bullies in one way, THEY DON'T LIKE THEM.

Bully-Hatin' Club

Join the club. Now this doesn't mean bullying the bullies right back. None of that "taste of your own medicine" junk here. Instead, spread luv at home and school. Be nice to people no matter who they are and what they look like. If you don't know if you are a bully or a bully-hater check out last week's beat.

Learn how to deal with bullies- bully skillz coming at ya next week.

Celebrity Quotes

  • "He who slings mud generally loses ground." - Adlai Stevenson, Writer.
  • "It ain't what they call you; it's what you answer to." - William Jefferson Clinton, Former American President.
  • "Violence is my last option." - Chuck Norris, Movie Star.
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worldqweencc
worldqweencc posted in Friends:
I'm not quiet sure what's a real friend and what's a fake one anymore. I know when there's a friend who's only a school friend rather than an 'outside' friend as well, but at the same time it makes me so confused. Here's my story: There's a girl named Xian. We had a unique way of becoming friends ... but it clicked. For the whole year I've been trying to keep in contact with her ... but she's not very willing to try and put in any effort to stay in contact with me. Her personality is beyond sweet, and her skills at art are even better. If she was to have an award, it would be a giant trophy with her face plastered on it and big bold letters listing 'Nicest Girl In The World!' ... Its just ... she lied to me.  I was all about this friendship. I was ... i'll admit ... sort of a lost puppy following around her owner.  So, I got her this T-Shirt she really wanted for her birthday, and not long her birthday was mine, April First. I was expecting at least a letter, or maybe even something cheap. It didn't really matter to me.  But on my birthday she didn't even come to school. Nor when she got back did she ever say sorry, or give me any be-lated gift of any sort.  That should have been my first clue. Even my mother started catching on. My second clue was she even told me she was oblivious and wasn't good at keeping in contact. I thought she was joking. How could a friendship so sweet be tossed out just like that? My third one was near the end of school, one of her friends in elementary was bragging about the plushies she got from Xian. Apparently she had four from her.  Xian had originally told me it was AGAINST her religion to give out gifts to other people. I knew she wasn't lying about her religion in general, because I met her mom on a field trip and she was quiet ... different. But I didn't understand why Xian had gotten so many small plushies for her, and yet not a single small stamp for me? My last clue was the last day of school. She didn't even try to say good-bye or even hang out with me for that matter. I know what you're thinking. "Girl, you've gotta be kidding me if you can't see that she has no intention of being your friend!" But this girl was the nicest to me. She stood next to me during harsh times, and comforted me when I was down. She told me I was important.  And you don't get many friends to do those special things to you. It was rare to have a friend make me feel so tall and worthy.  ... So ... I can't understand ... why'd she do all that .... and suddenly ... just ... walk away ...
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catsandpizza
catsandpizza posted in Style:
American Apparel croptop, Juicy Couture velvet sweatpants and Uggs
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Heyyyyy_
Heyyyyy_ posted in Friends:
"donteatcarrots" wrote:I dunno, looks like something more than being friends is going on here. It's probably best to ask her face-to-face though, before jumping to conclusions. ^^^
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catsandpizza
catsandpizza posted in Friends:
depends 
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-Gwen9--
-Gwen9-- posted in Friends:
I don't know. It honestly could be that she likes you, or she is just a really good friend.
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