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How to Deal With A Bully - Part II

Bullying is Whack

Let's pop about the whack guys and girls (you know who you are) who get annoyed, blow their top and try to get even. They bully at home and at school with words, fists and sometimes guns. It is crazy. School should be a place where you can be cool, have fun and get your brain-groove on safely.

Bullies are Weak

Bullies are not strong, they are weak. Why else would they pick on other people to make themselves feel better? Not only that, bullies try to make fun of kids that they think won't fight back. Why?... Keep on reading

Lookin' for Luv in All the Wrong Places

Bullies are lonely. As LL Cool J used to say, "I need love." Bullies want their props; they just want to belong. The only problem is they just don't know how. Bullies may be mean or act a fool just to get attention and try to be in. "Acting a fool" is what gets most bullies in trouble. They don't know when to stop. Cuz y'all know for every action, there is a reaction (physics 101, dude.) People react to bullies in one way, THEY DON'T LIKE THEM.

Bully-Hatin' Club

Join the club. Now this doesn't mean bullying the bullies right back. None of that "taste of your own medicine" junk here. Instead, spread luv at home and school. Be nice to people no matter who they are and what they look like. If you don't know if you are a bully or a bully-hater check out last week's beat.

Learn how to deal with bullies- bully skillz coming at ya next week.

Celebrity Quotes

  • "He who slings mud generally loses ground." - Adlai Stevenson, Writer.
  • "It ain't what they call you; it's what you answer to." - William Jefferson Clinton, Former American President.
  • "Violence is my last option." - Chuck Norris, Movie Star.
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GirLovesPiggy
GirLovesPiggy posted in Style:
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drowning
drowning posted in Family Issues:
@rainbowpoptart  When I originally talked to my father, I was given the opportunity of good timing to bring it up. Luckily, there was no anger like I was partially expecting and I remained calm, which I definitely wasn't expecting. My fathers main concern was just worry and having seen other teens run away from something later getting themselves in trouble. He even brought up how he had run off at 18 and joined the Air Force, which I already knew. But, with this round, there is no perfect time to bring it up and he's always busy or we're having to do something so it's just very frustrating to find at least alright timing to bring it up, if that makes sense.
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rainbowpoptart
My advice on this may not be the best because I haven't personally dealt with this yet, but... Parents, or guardians, get used to having their children around. You're [usually] with them for 18 years, which is a long time, so of course they - or in this case, your father - is going to feel like he's lost something very dear to him once you move out. To me it seems like he does truly understand that you're growing up. He just doesn't want it to happen. He knows that you're leaving soon - he just doesn't want it to be soon. Parents/guardians who are close to the children usually feel that way. If you're really so concerned, talk to him about it again, in a similar way you have done already. Or perhaps just a "Wow, my birthday is just around the corner". Once you do move out, visit him as frequently as you're able to and feel like. I'm sure he'll appreciate it, and it'll help you maintain a close relationship with him.
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drowning
drowning posted in Family Issues:
Usually I wouldn't come here for advice, but I am really needing it. To sum it up, my birthday is in 21 days. Not only will I be leaving KW, but home as well. My mother has made it to where I have had plans to leave since I was around 11 or 12; so about 7 to 8 years. I won't get into everything, but we'll just say that my mother and I do not have a good relationship at all. My father on the other hand, I am very attached too and always scared of upsetting him. Things are not always very good between us at times, but we rarely fight. When we do, it is always bad nor ends well. So, having plans to move out are very scary to me and causes me plenty of anxiety that fights are going to break out when I have my help to get my belongings out.   For the record, I have talked to my father about leaving, why I want too, etc. But, more in the sense of that I want too, not that I am. Which, in a way, my parents understand I'm moving out as well as already pretty much know where I'm going without my mention. But, I don't think they, my father especially, understands how soon that is despite my saying of I want too when I'm 18 or when I say, "Soon." It doesn't help that my father told another that his "little girl is growing up" on him and that he is scared of the day I go because he will be alone. Which makes me feel guilty despite the fact I won't even be that far away. How should I talk to him once more and go about this or even when? I really want him to understand that I have thought everything through and that I will be in safe hands.
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-Oracle- posted in Friends:
Preferably non human.
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